Remodel Parenting

Remodel Parenting

By Deena Shelton PhD, LPC-SParentingKids & Family
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Remodel Parenting episodes

  • Episode 55: The Power of Connection: Purposeful Presence (Part 2 of 3)

    Humans are wired for connection, and we need to feel connected to others to function well in all areas of our lives. Though the drive for connection is innate, the skills for building healthy connections are not. People learn how to connect through their relationships with others, and it all starts in childhood. As parents, we can only teach the skills we know. In this episode, I share how connection requires the ability to be fully present with others.

    20 min
  • Episode 54: The Power of Connection: Disconnect Damage (Part 1 of 3)

    Humans are wired for connection, and we need to feel connected to others to function well in all areas of our lives. Though the drive for connection is innate, the skills for building healthy connections are not. People learn how to connect through their relationships with others, and it all starts in childhood. As parents, we can only teach the skills we know. In this episode, I address the damage of disconnection and lay the foundation for why intentional connection matters.

    20 min
  • Episode 53: Intimacy, Connection, and Sex: Preparing Kids for Healthy Connection (Part 5 of 5)

    Throughout my career working with couples and families, I have helped many people conceptualize how to talk about intimacy, connection, and sex with their children. It is such a big topic that is a struggle for most parents in some way or another—whether it is concern about doing it right or feeling terrified and wanting to avoid it. I built this series to offer some guidance in how to approach these topics beyond just the “birds and the bees.” In the final episode of this series, I shift the discussion to include the goal of preparing our children for healthy relationships when they are adults and give practical guidance in these to emphasize setting your kids up for success.

    19 min
  • Episode 52: Intimacy, Connection, and Sex: From the What to the How (Part 4 of 5)

    Throughout my career working with couples and families, I have helped many people conceptualize how to talk about intimacy, connection, and sex with their children. It is such a big topic that is a struggle for most parents in some way or another—whether it is concern about doing it right or feeling terrified and wanting to avoid it. I built this series to offer some guidance in how to approach these topics beyond just the “birds and the bees.” In this episode, I discuss a mindset shift from just content to how we engage with kids while we are having these conversations.

    19 min
  • Episode 51: Intimacy, Connection, and Sex: Basics to Cover (Part 3 of 5)

    Throughout my career working with couples and families, I have helped many people conceptualize how to talk about intimacy, connection, and sex with their children. It is such a big topic that is a struggle for most parents in some way or another—whether it is concern about doing it right or feeling terrified and wanting to avoid it. I built this series to offer some guidance in how to approach these topics beyond just the “birds and the bees.” In this episode, I explain topics that I think are vital for parents to discuss with their children.

    23 min
  • Episode 50: Intimacy, Connection, and Sex: It’s All Developmental (Part 2 of 5)

    Throughout my career working with couples and families, I have helped many people conceptualize how to talk about intimacy, connection, and sex with their children. It is such a big topic that is a struggle for most parents in some way or another—whether it is concern about doing it right or feeling terrified and wanting to avoid it. I built this series to offer some guidance in how to approach these topics beyond just the “birds and the bees.” In this episode, I aim to help parents understand how to approach these topics from a developmental perspective and teach their children to do the same.

    18 min
  • Episode 49 – Intimacy, Connection, and Sex: More Than an Information Exchange (Part 1 of 5)

    Throughout my career working with couples and families, I have helped many people conceptualize how to talk about intimacy, connection, and sex with their children. It is such a big topic that is a struggle for most parents in some way or another—whether it is concern about doing it right or feeling terrified and wanting to avoid it. I built this series to offer some guidance in how to approach these topics beyond just the “birds and the bees.” In this episode, I lay the groundwork of “the talk” and broadening it from an exchange of information to setting the tone of an added connective conversation throughout a child’s development.

    19 min
  • Episode 48: Remodel Discipline: Teaching Kids Strategy and Goal Setting (Part 5 of 5)

    Few aspects of parenting are as difficult as discipline because so many factors influence how effective our discipline processes are. The good news is that there are skills and mindsets that really help us as we map out the best way to help our kids grow and change. In this episode, we will explore practical ways to teach goal setting and strategizing to help our kids take ownership of their personal growth and discipline processes.

    22 min
  • Episode 47: Remodel Discipline: Prioritizing Emotional Connection (Part 4 of 5)

    Few aspects of parenting are as difficult as discipline because so many factors influence how effective our discipline processes are. The good news is that there are skills and mindsets that really help us as we map out the best way to help our kids grow and change. In this episode, we are talking about one of the most important factors in long-term growth through discipline—connecting emotionally with our kids in tough times.

    24 min
  • Episode 46: Remodel Discipline: Showing Kids the Bigger Picture (Part 3 of 5)

    Few aspects of parenting are as difficult as discipline because so many factors influence how effective our discipline processes are. The good news is that there are skills and mindsets that really help us as we map out the best way to help our kids grow and change. In this episode, we will explore how to help kids see the bigger picture of discipline so that we are sharing language and goals beyond individual discipline interactions.

    21 min

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