As parents, it is a normal process for us to determine our success by how we see our kids’ outcomes. Are their behaviors where we want to see them? Are they staying out of trouble? Are they being good people? But when our kids’ progress is not going how we want it to, it can turn into a shame storm as parents and rock us emotionally. In this two-part series, I invite parents to reconsider their measurements of progress by focusing on the process and realizing the outcomes that occur as a result.