Remodel Parenting

Remodel Parenting

By Deena Shelton PhD, LPC-SParentingKids & Family
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Remodel Parenting episodes

  • Episode 25: Raising Good Citizens: Empathy as a Practice (Part 3 of 5)

    I hear parents frequently claim that their biggest goal is to raise their children to be decent adults who contribute to the world. No parent sets out to raise the next generation of Internet trolls who spend significant amounts of time viewing and criticizing others’ work and investment. This series will explore some of the themes I believe help parents raise kids to be aware of and considerate of those around them, turning them into good family and community citizens. In this episode, I explain empathy beyond feelings and explore ways to teach our children how to practice empathic connection in their relationships with others.

    20 min
  • Episode 24: Raising Good Citizens: Forming Opinions Versus Caring (Part 2 of 5)

    I hear parents frequently claim that their biggest goal is to raise their children to be decent adults who contribute to the world. No parent sets out to raise the next generation of Internet trolls who spend significant amounts of time viewing and criticizing others’ work and investment. This series will explore some of the themes I believe help parents raise kids to be aware of and considerate of those around them, turning them into good family and community citizens. In this episode, I break down the importance of differentiating between forming an opinion and actually caring about something, and how to challenge our kids to do the same.

    12 min
  • Episode 23: Raising Good Citizens: Values-Based Decision Making (Part 1 of 5)

    I hear parents frequently claim that their biggest goal is to raise their children to be decent adults who contribute to the world. No parent sets out to raise the next generation of Internet trolls who spend significant amounts of time viewing and criticizing others’ work and investment. This series will explore some of the themes I believe help parents raise kids to be aware of and considerate of those around them, turning them into good family and community citizens. In this episode, I will discuss the importance of using values as guides for decisions and how it sets a tone for guiding choices into adulthood.

    19 min
  • Episode 22: Frustration Cure: Follow Through or Let It Go (Part 3 of 3)

    Real talk: being a parent is one of the most frustrating roles we have in our lives. We love our children. We would die for our children. But sometimes, we also just want them to leave us alone. In this series, we are breaking down the issues that feed our frustration and how to adjust so that it is not ruling our interactions. In this episode, we unpack the practical nature of making choices around your reality and sticking to your bottom line.

    18 min
  • Episode 21: Frustration Cure: Setting the Pace (Part 2 of 3)

    Real talk: being a parent is one of the most frustrating roles we have in our lives. We love our children. We would die for our children. But sometimes, we also just want them to leave us alone. In this series, we are breaking down the issues that feed our frustration and how to adjust so that it is not ruling our interactions. In this episode, we will discuss rejecting the rat race of child experiences to produce reasonable a life pace with kids’ desires and activities.

    16 min
  • Episode 20: Frustration Cure: Why Are We So Frustrated? (Part 1 of 3)

    Real talk: being a parent is one of the most frustrating roles we have in our lives. We love our children. We would die for our children. But sometimes, we also just want them to leave us alone. In this series, we are breaking down the issues that feed our frustration and how to adjust so that it is not ruling our interactions. In this episode, we will consider the origination of frustration and how to adjust without relying on our kids to balance it out.

    17 min
  • Episode 19: Emotional Regulation: Intervening in Dysregulation (Part 5 of 5)

    Emotional regulation is a foundational requirement for healthy internal lives and relationships. When we know how to identify our disrupted emotions and rebalance them by ourselves or with help, we are able to navigate the difficult parts of life effectively. This provides peace and stability even when external situations are challenging us. To help children learn to regulate, parents have to be skilled in their own regulation and in containing the emotions of another person. This series addresses emotional regulation and practical application for our families. In this episode, we will dive into addressing dysregulation as it is happening and provide tips to reroute into productive connection and communication.

    19 min
  • Episode 18: Emotional Regulation: Things That Get in the Way (Part 4 of 5)

    Emotional regulation is a foundational requirement for healthy internal lives and relationships. When we know how to identify our disrupted emotions and rebalance them by ourselves or with help, we are able to navigate the difficult parts of life effectively. This provides peace and stability even when external situations are challenging us. To help children learn to regulate, parents have to be skilled in their own regulation and in containing the emotions of another person. This series addresses emotional regulation and practical application for our families. In this episode, we will explore some things that contribute to dysregulation like emotional vocabularies, screen time, and goals.

    22 min
  • Episode 17: Emotional Regulation: Offense is the Best Defense (Part 3 of 5)

    Emotional regulation is a foundational requirement for healthy internal lives and relationships. When we know how to identify our disrupted emotions and rebalance them by ourselves or with help, we are able to navigate the difficult parts of life effectively. This provides peace and stability even when external situations are challenging us. To help children learn to regulate, parents have to be skilled in their own regulation and in containing the emotions of another person. This series addresses emotional regulation and practical application for our families. In this episode, we will unpack a few practical things you can do to lay a foundation outside of emotionally dysregulated moments with your kids.

    22 min
  • Episode 16: Emotional Regulation: Understanding the Brain-Body Connection (Part 2 of 5)

    Emotional regulation is a foundational requirement for healthy internal lives and relationships. When we know how to identify our disrupted emotions and rebalance them by ourselves or with help, we are able to navigate the difficult parts of life effectively. This provides peace and stability even when external situations are challenging us. To help children learn to regulate, parents have to be skilled in their own regulation and in containing the emotions of another person. This series addresses emotional regulation and practical application for our families. In this episode, we will explore the connection between the brain and body to use in teaching regulation.

    17 min

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