RESOLVE to Live Forward

I know it sounds crazy, but I have found the ability to Live Forward because I already had, in place, a definite plan of action. It had laid a foundation of personal organization for living a better quality of life. Because of this "PLAN" of personal and professional organization, I was able to shift out of a hopeless event and emerge into a more vibrant and meaningful life. That mindset may well have saved my life. Your life might not be in peril, but if you're stuck in a hopeless lifestyle, I want to tell you what worked for me. It could work for you. 

We're talking about "O" for Organization. Maybe it's just me, but is organization where we run into the biggest deterrents to achieving success? Organization is about a PROCESS. Today we will begin to break down the means to developing a systematic process for organizational success. 

RESOLVE .... In this context, is defined as, "... having a DEFINITE, firm plan of action." The middle letter "O" is the central behavior all other letters hang on to succeed in a Forward Living Life. Starting today, and over the next few episodes, we will peel back the layers of this important letter and what it stands for. Let's talk about how to make your plans for success come to life. 

In our last episode, we discussed the joy of unconditionally serving others. However, there is a "DOWN SIDE" to this best practice. Often, the people we seek to serve are users only. They want but will never offer to give, which can make you weary and discouraged. Today, let's talk about how to guard ourselves from the users of this world. 

How do you define "service?" There are a multitude of services. We live in a service-based society. In this episode, John wants you to see how you can serve with a meaningful purpose. The operative phrase is "A Servant Mindset."  One more thing. You might be surprised at the payoff. 

Last week we talked about the mindset of engaging people and building rewarding relationships. Today, John takes "ENGAGE" a step further by encouraging us to be alert for opportunities and engage them. Extract yourself from the "Same ole' same ole'." The first letter "E" in the power word, RESOLVE, is for Engage. 

Mindset can only work when we RESOLVE to engage people directly. It's not just about our circle of relationships. We must be of the mindset that when we are out in the public arena, we project an engaging personality. Whether it's a smile, a nod, or a word of greeting, take the risk to march to a different drum. Engage others and give them a reason to feel surprise, hope, encouragement, and warmth. 

Do we truly understand resilience? I am sure that from a physical standpoint, it is clearly expressed in sports, work, and other physical activities that require a dedication to consistent development. However, do we truly understand mental, emotional, and mindset resilience? No one who is an "overcomer" did so without the right mindset. At its core, a resilient mindset lays the groundwork for all kinds of success. I would even be so bold as to say without the right mindset, everything that follows will either fail or be far less than hoped for. Let's have this conversation for the next few minutes.

If you are dissatisfied with your life. If you are just going through the motions. If it's the "Same ole, same ole," then we need to create a new set of personal expectations. The first thing to do, since the year is coming to a close, is stop making resolutions. Some people keep them, but most of us don't. Years ago I simply quit making them. Then in late 2018, I was challenged to adopt a PowerWord. That word has changed my life. It just might change yours. Let's talk about RESOLVE. I have a definition that might just work for you. 

In our journey of Living Forward, sometimes "Less is More." Today we look at the power of the number three (3). Sometimes we hear the term, "Rule of Three" and wonder if it's really all that useful. It has certainly worked for me as I live forward. Join me as we talk tools for your success on a day-by-day basis.