We address the tough questions for Christians who are wrestling with matters of sexuality. Must my wife agree to intimacy every time I want it? If a wife has a husband who is doing porn, and he refuses to get help. . . should she get the church elders involved?  The girls in the church put on a lingerie party for a young woman about to be married.  Should the pastors be concerned? What about sexual self-gratification for the Christian? What is a healthy intimacy life in the Christian marriage?  How does a man love his wife as Christ loved the church?   We discuss these and other questions with Douglas Wilson, pastor and author of books like Fidelity, Federal Husband, and How to Exasperate Your Wife.