By MindBodyMarriage.com
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We greet you from a whole different world since our last episode. Covid-19 has taken the world by storm and it is creating fear and anxiety in many of us. Today we want to provide you with practical ways that you can take a mindful approach to be in the moment, decrease your anxiety, and become in control of your microcosm.
Tune in to learn about our Covid-19 anxiety protocol and all the ways you can find balance and opportunities to exert control in such a chaotic time in our world. Everything from tips to help your children enjoy this time and live in the moment rather than hiding your emotions from them to exciting information about the Mind Body Marriage membership program and a new podcast in the works is covered in this episode!
If you are looking for ways to create certainty and handle your rational fear in the wake of this pandemic, this is an episode you can’t miss. What techniques are you implementing to keep the peace at home and keep your anxiety at bay? Share your story with us in the comments section of the episode page.
In This Episode
Quotes
“I think now more than ever people need that support and that community.” (1:34)
“What we teach people to do is say ‘hey listen, there is that anxiety, it feels super uncomfortable, but even just taking a moment and describing if its fast or slow, the color, the vibration, the shape even, really what it allows you to do is be present with that feeling and from there it doesn’t become so powerful anymore.” (7:41)
“This is a time when we are modeling how to handle uncertainty, how to handle these fears for the other people in our lives.” (11:28)
“When people look back at this time in history, we will have the opportunity to yes focus on all of the fear and the disruptions with our normal lives. But then there is also the opportunity that has been granted to us to change some of the aspects of our daily life that could use some improvement.” (16:03)
“You’re not setting yourself up for disappointment by thinking positive. You are actually setting yourself up to have a good day today, and that’s all we can really change is our outlook in the moment.” (26:41)
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Mind Body Marriage
Novitsky MD
Drs. Ali and Mark Novitsky, a married team of physicians who live in Philadelphia’s quaint suburb of Chester County. Together, they operate “Novitsky MD -Boutique Mind Doctors”, a center located in Chadds Ford, PA that has married traditional Psychiatry with newer cognitive life coaching.
Get The Results You Want With Cognitive Behavioral Coaching!
Ali Novitsky MD, the Life Coach for Women Physicians and busy professional women teaches the fundamentals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and effective goal setting. Learn more at www.mindbodymarriage.com
Dr. Sonia Wright is like four experts in one, working as a trained sexual counselor, certified physician life coach, radiologist, and ex-sex toy store employee. Her expertise when it comes to sex and sexual dysfunction associated with emotional pain and isolation can help you rekindle the sexual intimacy in your relationship, address the emotional components of any sexual issues and investigate alternative lifestyle interests.
A passionate physician coach who has a gift for taking difficult and personal topics and creating comfortable spaces around it, Sonia is passionate about helping you with everything related to sex. From vibrators to body acceptance and how to feel connected to your partner, Sonia is a wealth of knowledge that wants to help you remember the fun and pleasurable aspects of sex.
Instead of sex being the elephant in the room of your marriage, Sonia is here to provide some practical tips and real talk to help you start putting sex on your ‘for you’ list instead of your to-do list. If you are looking for a way to reignite your passion for life, relationships, commitment and so much more, Sonia is the expert you need to hear from.
Are you ready to change the way you feel about sex by altering your mindset? Share what you learned from Dr. Sonia on this episode in the comments section of the episode page.
In This Episode
Quotes
“What I try to do is blend the skill set that I have from being a life coach, and focusing on the skill set I learned as a sexual counselor to bring it all together.” (4:46)
“Remind them of the fun, bring it back to pleasure, and focus on general pleasure.” (9:02)
“Society has a concept of what is beautiful and what is sexy, and most body types don’t fit that, and it’s really not about what society says, it’s about what you think about yourself.” (12:50)
“This is where I do want to focus on the pleasure because that is what is going to lead to more connection and communication with your partner. And in order to focus on pleasure, you need to know your body and what is pleasurable for your body.” (19:17)
“There is nothing wrong with you, your body works well, it is amazing. It’s just that connection between your mind and your body.” (21:44)
“We will figure this out. It will be okay, we will laugh, we will cry, and we will get it done!” (24:50)
Links
The Passionate Physician Coach Website
The Smitten Kitten Website
Book a Free Consultation with Sonia Here
Contact Sonia at [email protected]
Sign Up for the MBM Course Here
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Mind Body Marriage
Novitsky MD
Drs. Ali and Mark Novitsky, a married team of physicians who live in Philadelphia’s quaint suburb of Chester County. Together, they operate “Novitsky MD -Boutique Mind Doctors”, a center located in Chadds Ford, PA that has married traditional Psychiatry with newer cognitive life coaching.
Get The Results You Want With Cognitive Behavioral Coaching!
Ali Novitsky MD, the Life Coach for Women Physicians and busy professional women teaches the fundamentals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and effective goal setting. Learn more at www.mindbodymarriage.com
We are back home after a magical week in Grand Cayman, and we cannot wait to recreate the experiences we shared there on our upcoming Mind Body Marriage Couple Retreat. One of the main focuses of our intimate and explorative couples retreats is the practice of setting ‘couple goals’ for you and your partner.
In this episode, we dive into what it takes to create ‘couple goals’ and establishing a roadmap to where you want to go together. By making the most of the time you have together and focusing on your understanding, communication and conflict resolution, you can figure out who you are individually and within your role as a couple.
If you feel like you and your partner on not necessarily on the same page, now is the time to avoid freaking out and take the opportunity to dive into what is and isn’t working so that you can check in with your partner in a productive way. By believing in yourself in an epic fashion and setting goals, you can give yourself and your partner the things that you both need to move forward as your best selves individually and as a couple.
Have you ever practiced setting couple goals? Share your experience with us in the comments section on the episode page.
In This Episode
Quotes
“Now to be able to help enrich other couples’ lives through our work is really exciting stuff.” (2:29)
“Even though we nurture each other on the daily basis, we hadn’t really spent some time to really decide what we really want for the future, what kind of progress can we make together and what do we need to work on?” (4:45)
“Sometimes if you actually just put your ego aside and show a little bit of affection, for example, it can really turn a lot of things around.” (11:57)
“It’s so easy to see like ‘oh they have a podcast about resuscitating your marriage’, but it’s not that we have it all figured out either. Its that we resuscitate it every day.” (17:03)
“We really have to understand who we are before we can even begin to understand who we are as a couple.” (18:00)
Links
Sign Up for the MBM Course Here
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Find Resuscitate Your Marriage Online
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Mind Body Marriage
Novitsky MD
Drs. Ali and Mark Novitsky, a married team of physicians who live in Philadelphia’s quaint suburb of Chester County. Together, they operate “Novitsky MD -Boutique Mind Doctors”, a center located in Chadds Ford, PA that has married traditional Psychiatry with newer cognitive life coaching.
Get The Results You Want With Cognitive Behavioral Coaching!
Ali Novitsky MD, the Life Coach for Women Physicians and busy professional women teaches the fundamentals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and effective goal setting. Learn more at www.mindbodymarriage.com
We are live from Grand Cayman at the Women Physician Wellness Conference, and today’s episode is all about human connection. Human connection is something that many are searching for, and can prevent burnout and remind us how precious life is and what we need to prioritize.
By asking the partners of women physicians how they support and encourage self-doubt and appreciating value we can see in ourselves past the mirror. Self-love is a lifelong commitment to working on your thoughts, and self-acceptance comes through doing the hard work to push past your insecurities.
Connection with your partner and with yourself is something that you have to constantly work on, but it can help you enjoy life in a way you never imagined. It is all about defining your values, putting things in perspective and fixing the relationship we have with ourselves so that you can evaluate your thoughts and change the way you feel.
Are you ready to work on your relationship with yourself for the benefit of your health and your partner? Share the role human connection plays in your happiness in the comments section on the episode page.
In This Episode
Quotes
“We try to go ahead and fix all of these different relationships in our lives that we think there is a problem with, the thing that we forget to do is work on the relationship we have with ourselves.” (1:21)
“Women being critical being critical of themselves, women physicians when they look in the mirror, and they are not liking what they see, how does a partner handle that?” (8:38)
“Anybody who is considering going on some kind of retreat/conference for CME credit that is also looking to have great human connection and maybe even with their significant other or their partner, this is one to check out.” (14:38)
“How we feel creates how we act, and actions ultimately are what we need to get results that we want. So evaluation of that whole triad when you are ready is going to be how you’re going to ultimately find your own truth.” (19:00)
“All too often if we are stuck in silos then change is not going to happen unless we make that change occur.” (23:14)
Links
MyPMG Website
8 Week Fitness Challenge
Sign Up for the MBM Course Here
Check out the full post for this episode
Find Resuscitate Your Marriage Online
Follow Dr. Ali Novitsky and Resuscitate Your Marriage on Facebook | Instagram
Mind Body Marriage
Novitsky MD
Drs. Ali and Mark Novitsky, a married team of physicians who live in Philadelphia’s quaint suburb of Chester County. Together, they operate “Novitsky MD -Boutique Mind Doctors”, a center located in Chadds Ford, PA that has married traditional Psychiatry with newer cognitive life coaching.
Get The Results You Want With Cognitive Behavioral Coaching!
Ali Novitsky MD, the Life Coach for Women Physicians and busy professional women teaches the fundamentals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and effective goal setting. Learn more at www.mindbodymarriage.com
We are fresh off the plane returning from the Physician Moms Group Conference in San Antonio, Texas, and what an experience it was! We are so thrilled about the amazing women we met and stories we heard that today’s episode is all about giving you a peek inside what we learned.
If you would love a recap of Ali’s speech on the top five cognitive distortions of female physicians, want to gain insight on transforming your lives for the healthier, or just want to support fellow women physicians, this is the episode for you.
When it comes to your health, fitness, and happiness, we are here to help you invest in yourself and find the peace that you desire. Through this podcast and conferences such as the Physician Moms Group, you can make the changes necessary to live the life that you are dreaming of.
Have you ever attended a conference that changed the way you think about your business? Let us know your story in the comments section on the episode page.
In This Episode
Quotes
“Just to see all these other women who are also physicians but who are really dedicating their careers now to really helping other women physicians find their way, find their passion, find their creativity, find time, find wellness and find health. (2:48)
“That’s really what we aim to do here on this podcast, we try to be real with you all as we always do and just let you know that you are not alone, that is why it’s so good to have the community, you get to find out it happens to all of us.” (5:52)
“Taking the power back for your body, taking the power back for your food, for your exercise, for your other relationships, for your job, I could go on and on. That is what it is!” (15:56)
“I think really the moral of today’s episode is when life gives you lemons, it’s so sour, but then you go ahead and make some delicious vodka-infused lemonade!” (20:45)
Links
MyPMG Website
8 Week Fitness Challenge
Sign Up for the MBM Course Here
Check out the full post for this episode
Find Resuscitate Your Marriage Online
Follow Dr. Ali Novitsky and Resuscitate Your Marriage on Facebook | Instagram
Mind Body Marriage
Novitsky MD
Drs. Ali and Mark Novitsky, a married team of physicians who live in Philadelphia’s quaint suburb of Chester County. Together, they operate “Novitsky MD -Boutique Mind Doctors”, a center located in Chadds Ford, PA that has married traditional Psychiatry with newer cognitive life coaching.
Get The Results You Want With Cognitive Behavioral Coaching!
Ali Novitsky MD, the Life Coach for Women Physicians and busy professional women teaches the fundamentals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and effective goal setting. Learn more at www.mindbodymarriage.com
We bring you back to our Fight Night series to dive into a specific fight that you may not have considered before. Fighting against yourself in the battle of the scarcity mindset can be detrimental to your relationship with others and with yourself, and it is only by recognizing the symptoms of a scarcity mindset that you can begin to break these self-destructing patterns.
Instead of constantly focusing on the idea that you ‘may not have enough’, we are here today to remind you of your ability to change your own perspective and work on your own thoughts. While change may bring anxiety, it is only by embracing the new that you can get out of your rut and inner ego.
There are a lot of ways to think outside of the box when it comes to making money and getting over a money scarcity mentality. Instead of feeling pressured or trapped into making a snap decision that perpetuates your fears, this episode is all about challenging the way you think to create a system that works better for your specific needs. Everything from money scarcity to option and time scarcity could be limiting the way you think about the world, and it is time to stop these mindset patterns in their tracks.
Are you willing to try a new way of thinking that may ultimately benefit you, your mindset and your way of life? Let us know your thoughts in the comments section on the episode page.
In This Episode
Quotes
“You could have a thousand dollars in the bank or a million dollars in the bank if you have that money scarcity mindset at a thousand dollars and you don’t change that mindset when you have a million dollars you are going to have the same mindset.” (4:50)
“People believe that they really do have to give up all of their time in order to have money. It is not an all or nothing phenomenon.” (6:06)
“When I am hiring coaches and when I am hiring people to help me, I want to pay them because I am going to get better results if I feel like I am investing in something that I really believe in.” (16:08)
“When I know that I have multiple different areas that I am able to really help people and help people in different ways, it feels really refreshing and it feels really just exciting, it feels that there are even more possibilities that are available.” (21:01)
Links
Register for the Mind Body Marriage Relationship Boot Camp Here
Join The September Couples Retreat Here
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Mind Body Marriage
Novitsky MD
Drs. Ali and Mark Novitsky, a married team of physicians who live in Philadelphia’s quaint suburb of Chester County. Together, they operate “Novitsky MD -Boutique Mind Doctors”, a center located in Chadds Ford, PA that has married traditional Psychiatry with newer cognitive life coaching.
Get The Results You Want With Cognitive Behavioral Coaching!
Ali Novitsky MD, the Life Coach for Women Physicians and busy professional women teaches the fundamentals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and effective goal setting. Learn more at www.mindbodymarriage.com
Today we interrupt our Fight Night series to bring you a very special guest with a whole new perspective on love. Chris Rhoad is a superfan of the show, good friend and a single listener. Chris believes in holding out and waiting for the right partner despite your sexual orientation or standards and is here today to share his story with us.
Instead of settling for second best, Chris wants to encourage you to absorb the tools from this how and learn how to maneuver the obstacles in your own psyche so that you can start living as your true authentic self.
Embracing your vulnerability and putting yourself out there is key to unlocking the wonderful, positive, life-transforming things that are waiting to happen to you. By addressing the fear of the unknown, being confident in your decision to wait for the one, or just applying the tips of this show, you can stop getting in your own way and help yourself find true happiness.
How do you implement the advice given on this show into your relationship with yourself, same-sex partner or hetero partner? Share your experience with us in the comments on the episode page.
In This Episode
Quotes
“The more information I can put into my own toolbox on how to navigate those issues, then I believe the more successful I will become at the end of the day.” (4:31)
“Just because of the world we live in today, and how judgemental society can be, I think it was important for myself to just reaffirm to myself and my friends and my family that this is who I am, this is what you get.” (7:19)
“If you are willing to remove the idea that it is a male and a female couple presenting this information if you can just take the information for what it’s worth and apply it to your everyday life like I have, it is beneficial.” (15:59)
Links
Sign up for the Mind Body Maintenance Course
Watch Novitsky ND Boutique Videos Live Here
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Find Resuscitate Your Marriage Online
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Mind Body Marriage
Novitsky MD
Drs. Ali and Mark Novitsky, a married team of physicians who live in Philadelphia’s quaint suburb of Chester County. Together, they operate “Novitsky MD -Boutique Mind Doctors”, a center located in Chadds Ford, PA that has married traditional Psychiatry with newer cognitive life coaching.
Get The Results You Want With Cognitive Behavioral Coaching!
Ali Novitsky MD, the Life Coach for Women Physicians and busy professional women teaches the fundamentals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and effective goal setting. Learn more at www.mindbodymarriage.com
Is there anything worse than hitting your max capacity? YES! When your partner is at theirs, too. Two people at their max capacity are almost certainly going to have an argument that’s fueled by stress and anxiety. So what do you do?
When you’re at your maximum emotional capacity, you’re feeling stretched too thin, stressed out, anxious about everything, and let’s be honest, probably pretty irritable. If your partner is feeling the same way, without addressing it, you’re nearly guaranteed to butt heads.
That’s why you need to recognize when you’re nearing (or have already reached) your max capacity and actually admit it to yourself and your partner. Acknowledging the fact that you’re at your max might be scary, but your partner will appreciate the openness.
Next, you need to figure out what’s happened to get you to this point and once you do, explain this to your partner as well. Then, how can you work your way back from the max? Maybe take some time to sit down and write it out. Definitely set some goals that will help you work it out within yourself.
If you have had an argument with your partner while you’re both at your max, recognizing their perspective will help you resolve it. When you can see things from their angle and try to understand why they’ve reacted the way they have, you can work through your difference in a much healthier way.
For us, we tend to argue more when we haven’t prioritized some couple alone time. It might sound like a luxury for you to schedule this time alone and child-free, but for us, this is a necessity and something we miss when we don’t get it. We both find that when we spend alone time together, we’re much more communicative and stresses, anxieties, and issues don’t build-up to an argument.
Lastly, forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for what happens during an argument and what it’s taken to get there. We all go through periods where we’re at maximum capacity and honestly, it’s okay. Learning to accept that it’s going to happen to you will help you work through it.
How do you deal with reaching your maximum capacity? Can you communicate with your partner about how you’re feeling? What do you need to do to work your way back from the brink?
In This Episode:
Quotes:
“Giving yourself that time to really dig deep and figure out what the heck is going on for you that you’ve hit your max capacity is super important when you’re really trying to work on your relationship.” (13:27)
“It’s not that suddenly you figure out how to handle your anxiety and it disappears. It’s a matter of you’re just better at fighting it.” (20:42)
“Sometimes you don’t have to say anything, it’s really in our actions and in our body language and how we say things that can really make the other person understand that you want to support them.” (21:45)
“If you both are going at a pace that potentially is spinning you out of control, where can you get help?” (26:35)
Links:
Sign up for the Mind Body Maintenance Course
Check out the full post for this episode
Find Resuscitate Your Marriage Online
Follow Dr. Ali Novitsky and Resuscitate Your Marriage on Facebook | Instagram
Mind Body Marriage
Novitsky MD
Drs. Ali and Mark Novitsky, a married team of physicians who live in Philadelphia’s quaint suburb of Chester County. Together, they operate “Novitsky MD -Boutique Mind Doctors”, a center located in Chadds Ford, PA that has married traditional Psychiatry with newer cognitive life coaching.
Get The Results You Want With Cognitive Behavioral Coaching!
Ali Novitsky MD, the Life Coach for Women Physicans and busy professional women teaches the fundamentals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and effective goal setting. Learn more at: www.mindbodymarriage.com
We’re back with Round 5 of The Fight Series! Today we are talking about a topic that can be really difficult for a lot of people. We are going to tackle the fight over intimacy. With this, it’s really important to acknowledge that people have different expectations and different needs.
One of the most common downfalls when it comes to intimacy is comparison. It is easy to look around you and compare yourself to other couples who may appear really into each other, and think to yourself ‘I bet they have sex all the time, what’s wrong with us?’ It’s also easy to compare yourself to how you were as newlyweds or early on in the relationship. So it is so important to communicate with each other to really understand where each of you feels about your current intimacy and if there are needs not being met, how to correct that in a way that works for both partners.
Now, this can be a really hard conversation to have. Most people don’t want to have it because they feel inadequate in one way or another. We suggest starting out the conversation by identifying your expectations. Ask each other questions like ‘are you happy?’, ’do you feel like we are as close intimately as we could be’, and ‘how can we get to a place where we are both happy with how intimate we are?’
There are definitely wrong times to bring this conversation up. We don’t suggest approaching intimacy before a current fight has been resolved. Bringing it up within a heated argument is like a shot under the belt. You don’t want to taint sex with unfair accusations or comments. Another inappropriate time is when one person is feeling it and the other one isn’t. It really needs to take place in a neutral zone. Date night is the perfect setting to have a planned conversation of intimacy expectations. Let us know in the comments on the episode page!
In this episode, you’ll learn…
Quotes:
“If you’re not feeling good about yourself, you’re not going to be all that intimate”
“Often the battle over intimacy has nothing to do with intimacy.”
“It’s a matter of knowing your partner and having that trust to talk about it.”
Links:
Sign up for the Mind Body Maintenance Course
Check out the full post for this episode
Find Resuscitate Your Marriage Online
Follow Dr. Ali Novitsky and Resuscitate Your Marriage on Facebook | Instagram
Mind Body Marriage
Novitsky MD
Drs. Ali and Mark Novitsky, a married team of physicians who live in Philadelphia’s quaint suburb of Chester County. Together, they operate “Novitsky MD -Boutique Mind Doctors”, a center located in Chadds Ford, PA that has married traditional Psychiatry with newer cognitive life coaching.
Get The Results You Want With Cognitive Behavioral Coaching!
Ali Novitsky MD, the Life Coach for Women Physicans and busy professional women teaches the fundamentals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and effective goal setting. Learn more at: www.mindbodymarriage.com
Let’s be real here, nobody likes feeling tension between yourself and another person… but what’s even worse is initiating the hard conversation that needs to happen to eliminate that tension. That brings us to round 4 of The Fight Series: You, Me, and the Elephant in the room!
Think about your significant other for a minute here…. What signs do they give you when they need to get something off their chest. Are they stoic, do they drop hints, does their demeanor change?
We tend to get into our heads and building up unnecessary anticipation before approaching the hard conversations. Why do you think that is? You’re having conversations with your SO all the time, so why are these conversations so tough for us to bring up?
Today we’re going to cover some of the main sore points such as time & money and how you can approach these topics in a way that you can eliminate any future contentious fights.
What are some fights you’ve experienced? What are your ‘hot topics’ that seem to come up over and over again? Do you have any helpful tips on how you either prevented those fights or resolved them in a healthy way? Let us know in the comments on the episode page!
In this episode you’ll learn…
Quotes:
“If we know that we can really have the ability to be able to prioritize that really special time together- then we may be more open to having those conversations.” (9:57)
“There is only one person you can actually control in any relationship, and that’s yourself.” (17:25)
Links:
Sign up for the Mind Body Maintenance Course
Check out the full post for this episode
Find Resuscitate Your Marriage Online
Follow Dr. Ali Novitsky and Resuscitate Your Marriage on Facebook | Instagram
Mind Body Marriage
Novitsky MD
Drs. Ali and Mark Novitsky, a married team of physicians who live in Philadelphia’s quaint suburb of Chester County. Together, they operate “Novitsky MD -Boutique Mind Doctors”, a center located in Chadds Ford, PA that has married traditional Psychiatry with newer cognitive life coaching.
Get The Results You Want With Cognitive Behavioral Coaching!
Ali Novitsky MD, the Life Coach for Women Physicans and busy professional women teaches the fundamentals of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and effective goal setting. Learn more at: www.mindbodymarriage.com
The podcast currently has 34 episodes available.