This week, I’m talking about navigating life’s important transitions before and during retirement.
If yesterday wasn’t depressing enough for you with the discussion on health scares and how they can derail the best laid plans you had for your retirement, today I’m talking about navigating the death of a spouse.
Now, if you’re like me, you live in constant denial of your own mortality and the mortality of your loved ones. That’s why life insurance salesmen have it so rough and estate attorneys are so grumpy - no one ever wants to face the reality of their own death, yet as we all know, the human death rate still stands at 100%.
If you’re age 65 and male, you can expect to live another 18 years. If your 65 and female it’s another 20 years. So if you’re married, that puts us squarely in your 80s when you can reasonably expect that one of your will die.
Besides the emotional issues, grief, and loneliness of losing a spouse, there are several other important factors to consider here. Navigating the estate issues, potential changes to living situations, etc. There may be life insurance proceeds to handle, and the re registering of bank accounts, investment accounts and IRA assets can be a daunting process.
The biggest problem I see from a financial standpoint is that one spouse is almost always the primary caretaker of finances and often the other spouse has little to no involvement. LEarning about managing money in your 80s is no walk in the park, and so it’s really important that both spouses take an interest and have an understanding for the couple’s money and finances, and both spouses know where all the accounts are, know what insurance policies exist, and know how to get into the safe deposit box.
When a spouse is left alone and unprepared to deal with household finances, it also opens the door for mismanagement and elder financial abuse, which sadly is very common today.
So if you’re married, be sure that you talk with your spouse regularly about the household finances, you meet with your financial advisor and other advisors like your CPA and attorney together, and importantly, both spouses are clued into where all the accounts are, where the important documents are located, and how to find them.
That’s it for today. Thanks for listening. My name is Ashley Micciche and this is the One Minute Retirement Tip.
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