To compete with cyber women is to be a cyber wife. That is a path you do not want to go down. Your husband may want it, but his craving is idolatrous.
In my view, many Christian women are in a seemingly impossible situation. The external pressure from movies and television is pumped into their minds 24/7, telling them what is perfect. The dream weavers in the entertainment industry have all the tools to deliver titillating and tantalizing candy to the male ego.
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