Riding The Trauma Train Podcast

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  • Episode 24 | The Hidden Trauma Behind People Pleasing & Hyper-Independence with Hannah Strange

    In this deeply honest and thought-provoking episode of Riding the Trauma Train, Lydia is joined by holistic health practitioner, metaphysical mentor and founder of The Strange Apothecary, Hannah Strange.


    Together, they explore trauma, nervous system regulation, childhood conditioning, shadow work and what healing really looks like beyond the idea of being “fixed”. Hannah shares how growing up between two very different family environments shaped her nervous system, her healing journey and the work she now does supporting overwhelmed women through nature, ritual and nervous-system-informed healing.


    This conversation is warm, validating and packed with practical insight for anyone who feels stuck in survival mode, exhausted from constantly holding everything together or overwhelmed by healing advice online.


    In This Episode We Cover:

    • What nervous system regulation actually means
    • Why healing is not linear and can feel like a spiral
    • How childhood experiences shape adult trauma responses
    • Hyper-independence, people pleasing and perfectionism as survival responses
    • What “shadow work” really is (and what it isn’t)
    • Why the body remembers trauma even when the mind understands it
    • A simple breathwork tool for moments of overwhelm
    • Hannah’s journey from CBD founder to holistic healing mentor
    • Community healing and accessible wellbeing support
    • Integrating holistic and medical approaches to healing
    • Grief, spirituality and trusting intuition


    Key Takeaways

    • Hannah explains that healing is not something we “finish”. Old wounds can resurface at different stages of life, often asking to be explored with deeper awareness and compassion.
    • The episode also explores how trauma responses such as people pleasing, perfectionism and hyper-independence are often protective survival strategies developed in environments where safety, approval or love felt conditional.
    • One of the practical tools Hannah shares is a simple nervous system regulation exercise:

    Breathe in through the nose for 4 seconds

    Breathe out through the mouth for 6 seconds

    This longer exhale helps signal safety to the nervous system and gently brings the body back into the present moment.


    About Hannah Strange

    Hannah Strange is a holistic health practitioner, metaphysical mentor and founder of The Strange Apothecary. She supports spiritual misfits and overwhelmed women through nervous-system-informed healing, somatic practices and community-based wellbeing support.


    She is also the host of The Sacred Shit Show podcast and creator of healing programmes including The Sacred Portal and Rebel & Recalibrate.


    Website: https://strangeapothecary.co.uk/

    Facebook: https:facebook.com/TheStrangeApothecary


    Connect with Lydia

    Website: www.ridingthetraumatrain.co.uk

    Instagram: @ridingthetraumatrain | @right.track.wellbeing

    Email: [email protected]


    Content Note

    This episode includes discussion around childhood trauma, nervous system dysregulation, chronic illness, grief and emotional overwhelm. Please listen gently and seek support if needed.

    1 hr 10 min
  • Episode 23 | Trauma, Intuition & Authenticity with Sheetal Story

    In this powerful episode of Riding the Trauma Train, Lydia is joined by Sheetal Story for a deeply honest conversation about trauma, intuition, healing and reconnecting with your authentic self.


    Lydia originally discovered Sheetal after hearing her speak on Jenna Kutcher’s Goal Digger Podcast and instantly connected with the way she spoke about intuition, healing and self trust.


    Together they explore:

    * trauma and hypervigilance

    * intuition and nervous system survival

    * people pleasing and authenticity

    * identity grief and midlife awakening

    * fear vs intuition

    * spirituality, astrology and healing

    * using pain to create purpose


    One of the biggest moments in this episode is the discussion around how trauma survivors often become highly intuitive because their nervous systems learned to constantly scan for safety.


    That gut feeling.

    Reading the energy in a room.

    Knowing when something feels “off”.

    Sometimes that began as survival.


    This conversation is compassionate, validating and thought provoking for anyone learning to reconnect with themselves after years in survival mode.


    CONTENT NOTE

    This episode includes discussion around:

    * childhood trauma

    * emotional abuse

    * grief and death

    * suicide

    * mental health

    * trauma responses

    Please listen gently and take pauses if needed.


    ABOUT SHEETAL STORY

    Sheetal Story is a certified Psychic Medium, Professional Certified Astrologer, Grief Support Counsellor, Human Design Business Mentor and Law of Attraction Master Coach.


    She now helps women cultivate and trust their intuition, overcome grief and self sabotage, and create lives aligned with their authentic selves.


    CONNECT WITH SHEETAL

    Website: SheetalStory.com

    Instagram: @sheetalstory

    Podcast: Story of Spirit


    Free Intuition Quiz: Psychic Gift Quiz


    CONNECT WITH LYDIA

    Website: Riding the Trauma Train

    Instagram:

    @ridingthetraumatrain

    @right.track.wellbeing


    If this episode resonated with you, please share it, follow the podcast and remember you are not alone on this journey.


    1 hr 7 min
  • Episode 22 | The Healing Power of Being Heard | Trauma, Cacao and Women’s Circles with Dee Jodel

    In this episode of Riding the Trauma Train, Lydia sits down with Dee Jodel for a deeply honest and heartfelt conversation about trauma, inner child healing, women’s circles, cacao ceremonies, emotional expression and reconnecting with yourself.

    Dee shares how an unexpected hypnotherapy session helped her realise that trauma is not always about obvious abuse or huge life events. Sometimes it is about how experiences felt in our body and nervous system, especially as children.

    Together, Lydia and Dee talk about abandonment wounds, being fully heard without judgement, divine feminine energy, creativity, nature, generational healing and Dee’s beautiful song, Show Me.

    This episode is gentle, grounding and full of reminders that healing does not have to look perfect. Sometimes it simply starts with giving yourself permission to feel.


    Content Note

    This episode contains discussion around childhood trauma, feelings of abandonment, emotional triggers, anger, anxiety and generational trauma.

    Please listen in a way that feels safe and supportive for you.


    What We Cover

    • Dee’s childhood hospital experience and recognising it as trauma later in life
    • Inner child healing and reconnecting with younger versions of ourselves
    • Why trauma is not always what people expect it to be
    • Meditation, mindfulness and following healing “breadcrumbs”

    • Spiritual awakening and reconnecting with feminine energy
    • What cacao ceremonies actually are and how they can support healing
    • Women’s circles and the importance of being truly heard
    • Nature, creativity and using music as emotional expression
    • Dee’s single Show Me and how it came through during a difficult period
    • Emotional intelligence, anxiety and learning to sit with feelings
    • Supporting children with emotional expression and breaking generational cycles
    • A beautiful grounding meditation led by Dee


    Who This Episode Is For

    This episode is for you if:

    • You have ever felt like your trauma was “not bad enough”
    • You struggle to feel heard or emotionally safe
    • You are curious about cacao ceremonies or women’s circles
    • You feel disconnected from yourself and want to reconnect gently
    • You use creativity, music, writing or nature as part of your healing
    • You are trying to break generational patterns and parent differently


    Key Takeaways

    Trauma is personal and shaped by how experiences felt to us

    Childhood experiences can create deep beliefs about safety, rejection and worthiness

    Being heard without being fixed can be incredibly healing

    Emotional awareness is something many of us were never taught

    Nature, creativity and stillness can help us reconnect with ourselves

    Healing is not linear and it does not need to look perfect

    There is power in slowing down and creating intentional space for yourself.


    About Dee Jodel

    Dee Jodel is a meditation teacher, cacao ceremony facilitator, singer and space-holder whose work centres around emotional healing, creativity, connection and feminine energy.

    Through women’s circles, cacao ceremonies, chanting, meditation and music, Dee creates spaces where people can reconnect with themselves in a safe, grounded and compassionate way.

    Instagram: @dee.jodel

    Listen to Show Me: https://youtu.be/YCR9yc8oe9M?si=k5dalxcJAimB-lZo

    https://linktr.ee/deejodel?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=df72b151-07bf-4944-bce7-fbeb68adc1a7


    Connect with Lydia

    Website: ridingthetraumatrain.co.uk

    Instagram: @ridingthetraumatrain @right.track.wellbeing

    Email: [email protected]

    If this episode resonated with you, please share it with somebody who may need it, follow the podcast and leave a review if you can.

    And if this conversation brought anything up for you emotionally, please take some time afterwards to ground yourself, breathe and reach out for support if needed.

    Thank you for being here and remember, you are not on this journey alone.

    50 min
  • Episode 21 | From Self Sabotage to Self Destruction Signs You Are Stuck in the Cycle and What Helps

    Self sabotage can feel frustrating enough, but what happens when it starts to feel automatic and harder to interrupt? In this episode, Lydia explores the shift from self sabotage into self destruction and why it is often rooted in protection, not failure. If you have ever felt stuck in patterns you know are hurting you, this conversation will help you understand why and how to gently begin changing direction.


    • What We Cover
    • The difference between self sabotage and self destruction
    • Why these patterns are linked to your nervous system
    • The trauma train metaphor and how it explains your behaviour
    • Understanding your emotional brain, habits, and rational mind
    • Why negative inner voices are not always originally yours
    • The belief, stop trying, repeat cycle
    • Real life examples including food, procrastination, and doom scrolling
    • Why avoidance feels safe but keeps you stuck
    • Simple ways to pause and interrupt the pattern
    • The importance of connection when you feel like withdrawing


    Who This Episode Is For

    People who feel stuck in self sabotage patterns

    Survivors of trauma navigating emotional coping behaviours

    Anyone struggling with procrastination, avoidance, or overwhelm

    People who feel numb, exhausted, or easily triggered

    Those who want gentle, realistic ways to regain control


    Key Takeaways

    Self sabotage becomes self destruction when it feels automatic and uninterruptible

    Your thoughts are not always facts, even when they feel convincing

    Many negative inner voices are learned through past experiences

    Avoidance may feel safe but can shrink your world over time

    Small pauses are more powerful than big, overwhelming changes

    Connection can help regulate your nervous system and shift your state

    You do not need to fix everything, you just need to catch the moment


    Content Note

    This episode includes discussion of trauma, self sabotage, emotional distress, and behaviours that may impact relationships. Please take care while listening and pause if needed. This content is not a replacement for professional support.


    About This Episode

    In this episode, Lydia shares a simple but powerful way to understand why self sabotage happens, inspired by The Chimp Paradox by Steve Peters. Using her signature trauma train metaphor, she breaks it down into three parts:

    • The runaway carriage, representing your emotional and reactive brain
    • The tracks, representing your long standing habits and patterns
    • The train driver, representing you and your ability to choose


    The challenge is not that these parts exist. It is when the runaway carriage takes over without you noticing.


    Practical Tools You Can Try

    • Pause instead of pushing through the feeling
    • Name your inner voice to create distance from it
    • Remind yourself that just because a thought is loud does not mean it is true
    • Ask yourself what you are trying not to feel
    • Take one small step instead of trying to change everything
    • Say yes to connection, even if it feels uncomfortable


    Connect with Lydia

    🌐 www.ridingthetraumatrain.co.uk

    📩 [email protected]

    📱 Instagram: @ridingthetraumatrain

    📱 TikTok: @ridingthetraumatrain

    If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need it.


    You can also DM Lydia on Instagram or TikTok, or email her at [email protected]

    And if this brought anything up for you, take a moment to ground yourself and reach out for support if you need it.


    You are not on this journey alone

    30 min
  • Episode 20 | Self-Love After Trauma: Lisa King on Healing, Boundaries and Hope

    In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Riding the Trauma Train, Lydia is joined by Lisa King, self-loveologist, speaker, author and radio presenter.


    Lisa shares her story with openness and compassion, reflecting on growing up around domestic violence, the impact of sexual trauma, and the masks she wore to survive. She also speaks about the loss of her partner and how that became a turning point in her healing journey.


    Together, Lydia and Lisa explore what self-love really means when life has been painful or overwhelming, and why healing often begins with the smallest, gentlest steps.


    This episode is a reminder that self-love is not selfish, healing is not linear, and even on the hardest days there are ways to begin again.


    Content Note

    This episode includes discussion of domestic abuse, sexual trauma, addiction, grief and suicide loss.


    Please listen in a way that feels safe for you. You are welcome to pause, skip or come back to this episode at any time.


    If anything feels overwhelming, consider reaching out to a trusted person or professional for support.


    What We Cover

    What a self-loveologist is and why self-love is the foundation of healing

    Lisa’s early experiences growing up around domestic violence

    How childhood experiences can shape beliefs around worth and love

    The impact of sexual trauma and emotional shutdown

    Addiction and coping mechanisms during difficult periods

    The loss of Lisa’s partner and the turning point it created

    Starting healing with small steps like making the bed or brushing your teeth

    The role of gratitude and self-compassion in recovery

    Finding hope through other people’s stories

    Lisa’s work through coaching, speaking, publishing and radio

    The Manse Method and supporting trauma through the body

    Boundaries, self-awareness and self-acceptance

    Practical tools for low days and emotional overwhelm

    Who This Episode Is For


    This episode may resonate with you if:


    you have experienced trauma and are trying to rebuild your sense of self

    you struggle with self-worth or feeling good enough

    self-love feels difficult or out of reach

    you are in a season where even small tasks feel hard

    you want gentle and realistic support rather than pressure

    you are learning how to feel safe in your body and your life

    Key Takeaways

    Self-love is not one single action. It is made up of many small, consistent choices

    Healing often starts with very small steps

    Gratitude can be a powerful place to begin, even on difficult days

    You do not have to do everything at once

    It is okay to have bad days. They are part of being human

    Support from others can make a meaningful difference

    Meeting yourself where you are is more important than pushing too far too fast

    About Lisa King


    Lisa King is a self-loveologist, speaker, mentor and radio presenter. Her work is rooted in helping people reconnect with themselves, build self-worth and release the emotional weight of the past.


    She hosts Unapologetically You on Dream Catcher Radio and has delivered a TEDx talk titled Unmasking the True You. Lisa works with people through coaching, speaking, publishing and community spaces, all centred around self-love and self-expression.


    Links Mentioned in This Episode

    Lisa King: https://linktr.ee/1isaking

    Dream Catcher Radio: https://www.dreamcatcherradio.co.uk

    The Manse Method: https://www.themansemethod.com

    Simon Sinek on connection: https://simonsinek.com/stories/the-incredible-power-of-an-eight-minute-catch-up-with-a-friend

    Mel Robbins: https://www.melrobbins.com

    Dana Grant: https://danagrant.com


    Connect with Lydia

    Website: www.ridingthetraumatrain.co.uk

    Instagram: @ridingthetraumatrain

    Email: [email protected]


    If this episode resonated with you, you are invited to share it with someone who may need it too. You can also follow the podcast, leave a review, or send Lydia a message on Instagram or email to share what stood out for you. And if this conversation brought anything up for you, please take a moment to ground yourself

    56 min
  • Episode 19 | Breaking Addiction Patterns: Trauma, Self-Sabotage and Recovery with Dr. Robb Kelly

    In this powerful and honest conversation, Lydia is joined by Dr Robb Kelly, addiction expert, recovery coach and author, to explore the deep connection between trauma and addiction and why so many people feel stuck in cycles of self-sabotage.


    This episode goes beyond surface-level conversations about addiction and looks at what is really underneath it. Together, Lydia and Dr Robb explore how childhood trauma, subconscious patterns and learned behaviours can shape addictive tendencies, coping strategies and the way we show up in our lives and relationships.


    If you have ever wondered why harmful patterns feel so hard to break, or why you keep returning to behaviours that do not serve you, this episode offers insight, understanding and a sense that you are not alone.


    This is a raw and sometimes heavy conversation. Please listen gently.


    What We Talk About

    • Trauma and addiction and why it is rarely about the substance alone
    • How childhood trauma can shape adult behaviour and coping patterns
    • Why self-sabotage can feel familiar and even safe
    • The role of the subconscious mind in repeating patterns
    • How identity can become tied to trauma and coping mechanisms
    • Why people stay in unhealthy relationships, environments or habits
    • The impact of the people you surround yourself with
    • Breaking cycles and stepping out of familiar patterns
    • A simple daily routine to begin shifting mindset and behaviour
    • Why speaking to someone is the first step toward recovery

    Key Themes


    This episode explores trauma and addiction in a way that is compassionate and honest. It looks at how the nervous system and subconscious mind hold onto past experiences and how those experiences can influence behaviour, self-worth and relationships.


    Lydia also shares parts of her own journey, including her relationship with food as a coping mechanism, and how trauma can show up in ways that are not always obvious.


    Dr Robb shares both professional insight and lived experience, offering a perspective on recovery that focuses on understanding patterns, shifting mindset and building a new way of living.


    Content Note

    This episode includes discussion of

    • addiction and alcoholism
    • childhood trauma
    • domestic violence
    • homelessness
    • suicidal thoughts


    This content is not a replacement for professional support. If this episode brings anything up for you, please consider reaching out to a trusted person or qualified professional.


    About Dr Robb Kelly

    Dr Robb Kelly is an addiction expert, recovery coach, speaker and author originally from Manchester and now based in the United States. With both lived experience of addiction and extensive work in neuroscience and behavioural science, he helps people around the world understand and break addiction patterns.


    Find Dr Robb Kelly

    Website - https://robbkelly.com/

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/addiction_doctor

    Book - Daddy Daddy Please Stop Drinking

    https://amzn.eu/d/0hQ8Lfyf


    Connect with Lydia

    Website

    https://ridingthetraumatrain.co.uk

    Instagram Facebook TikTok

    @ridingthetraumatrain

    @right.track.wellbeing

    Email - [email protected]


    If This Episode Resonated. If this conversation spoke to you, you are not alone.


    You can share this episode with someone who might need it, leave a review or message Lydia on Instagram to let her know what stood out for you.


    And if this brought up difficult feelings, please take a moment to ground yourself and reach out for support if you need it.

    1 hr 1 min
  • Episode 18 | It’s Not Just in Your Head: Trauma in the Body & Somatic Healing with Hannah Rzysko

    f you’ve ever felt like you understand your patterns but still can’t seem to change them, this episode is for you.


    In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, Lydia is joined by trauma-informed somatic therapist and coach Hannah Rzysko to explore what it really means when we say trauma is held in the body.


    Together, they unpack why healing is not just about mindset, how the nervous system stores past experiences, and why your body can still feel unsafe even when your life looks safe on the outside.


    Hannah shares accessible and compassionate insights into somatic healing, a body-based approach that supports you in gently releasing stored trauma without overwhelm or forcing anything before you are ready.


    This episode will help you understand your reactions on a deeper level, especially if you experience anxiety, shutdown, anger, tightness in the chest or that constant knot in your stomach.


    You are not broken. Your body is trying to protect you.


    WHAT WE COVER

    What it actually means for trauma to be stored in the body

    Why mindset work alone does not always create lasting change

    How the nervous system acts as a filing cabinet of past experiences

    Why your body can react before your mind has time to catch up

    The connection between trauma and survival responses such as fight, flight, freeze and shutdown

    How trauma can show up in relationships, intimacy and everyday life

    Why anger often feels overwhelming and what is really happening in the body

    The window of tolerance and how it supports safe healing

    The difference between coping tools and deeper nervous system work

    Why some emotions feel unsafe to experience

    How somatic healing gently supports release without re-traumatisation

    The role of safety, dignity and belonging in trauma recovery

    What embodiment really means and why it matters


    WHO THIS EPISODE IS FOR

    This episode is for you if you:

    Feel stuck in patterns you cannot seem to think your way out of

    Experience anxiety, overwhelm, numbness or shutdown

    Notice physical sensations like tightness in your chest or a knot in your stomach

    Struggle with anger or feel disconnected from your emotions

    Find it hard to feel safe in your body, even when nothing feels wrong

    Are curious about somatic healing and nervous system work

    Want a gentler, trauma-informed approach to healing


    KEY TAKEAWAYS

    Trauma is not just something you remember. It is something your body continues to respond to

    Your nervous system is constantly scanning for safety and shaping how you experience the world

    You cannot always think your way out of survival responses

    Many of your reactions make sense when you understand what your body has been through

    Healing does not have to be forceful. It can be slow, safe and supportive

    You do not have to do this work alone


    CONTENT NOTE

    This episode includes discussion of trauma, sexual trauma, childhood experiences, anxiety, eating disorders and nervous system dysregulation.


    Please listen gently and take a pause if needed. This podcast is not a replacement for professional support.


    ABOUT THE GUEST

    Hannah Rzysko is a trauma-informed somatic therapist and coach who helps people move from survival mode into greater safety, embodiment and self-trust.


    Her work focuses on supporting the nervous system, helping clients understand how trauma is held in the body, and guiding them through gentle, effective somatic healing practices.


    Connect with Hannah:

    Instagram: @thisis_hana_r

    Website: https://www.hannahrzysko.com/


    CONNECT WITH LYDIA

    Website: www.ridingthetraumatrain.co.uk

    Instagram: @ridingthetraumatrain

    Instagram: @right.track.wellbeing

    Email: [email protected]


    CALL TO ACTION


    If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need to hear it.


    You can also follow Riding the Trauma Train, leave a review, or send Lydia a message to let her know what stood out for you.


    And remember, you do not have to travel this journey alone

    57 min
  • Episode 17 | Late ADHD & Autism Diagnosis with Emily Edwards: Masking, Trauma and Self-Understanding

    In this episode of Riding the Trauma Train, Lydia is joined by neurodivergent coach Emily Edwards to explore what it really means to be late diagnosed with ADHD and autism.


    Emily shares how her daughter’s assessment led her to recognise her own neurodivergence, and how that journey opened the door to deeper self-understanding. Together, they talk about masking, trauma, identity and nervous system regulation, and what can happen when you start to truly understand how you work.


    They also explore the reality of diagnosis, including long waiting lists, limited resources and why self-awareness can be a powerful first step even without a formal label.


    Emily introduces clean language coaching, a gentle, non-judgemental approach that helps you explore your thoughts using your own words, without someone else placing meaning or assumptions onto your experience.


    In this episode, we cover:


    • Late ADHD and autism diagnosis in women

    • Masking and why it can feel exhausting

    • The overlap between trauma and neurodivergence

    • People pleasing, boundaries and self-awareness

    • What stimming is and how it supports regulation

    • Clean language and clean space explained

    • Hormones, ADHD and executive function

    • Why support needs to be a two way process


    This episode is for anyone who has ever felt different, overwhelmed or unsure why things feel harder than they should. It is a validating and compassionate conversation that reminds you that you are not alone in your experience.


    Content note: This episode includes discussion of trauma, masking, mental health, neurodivergence, burnout and hormonal changes including PMDD and perimenopause. Please listen gently and reach out for support if needed.


    Find Emily:

    withinsightcoaching.co.uk


    Connect with Lydia:

    www.ridingthetraumatrain.co.uk

    Instagram: @ridingthetraumatrain

    Email: [email protected]

    1 hr 5 min
  • Episode 16 | Suicide Bereavement, Grief and Hope: Joanne’s Story

    In this deeply moving episode of Riding the Trauma Train, Lydia is joined by Joanne, a therapist, bereavement advocate and founder of Souled in Love.



    Joanne shares her experience of living through multiple losses, including the devastating suicide of her husband after nearly 40 years together.



    This conversation explores the reality of suicide bereavement, the shock of sudden loss, and the long, complex nature of healing. Joanne speaks openly about trauma, guilt, unanswered questions, family dynamics and the small steps that helped her begin to find hope again.



    Content note: This episode includes discussion of suicide, grief and trauma. Please listen gently and seek support if needed.



    WHAT WE COVER

    Multiple experiences of grief before her husband’s death

    The shock and trauma of losing a partner to suicide

    Guilt and searching for answers after loss

    How grief impacts the body, mind and relationships

    Why the second year of grief can feel harder than the first

    Small, practical ways to cope in survival mode

    What helps and what does not when supporting someone grieving

    Finding hope again after deep loss

    KEY TAKEAWAYS

    Suicide bereavement can feel uniquely complex and traumatic

    There are not always clear signs before someone takes their life

    In early grief, even basic tasks can feel overwhelming

    Healing is not linear and often comes in very small steps

    The most powerful support is simple presence and listening

    Asking “How can I help?” matters more than saying the “right thing”

    Hope can return, even when it feels impossible

    ABOUT JOANNE



    Joanne is a therapist and founder of Souled in Love, supporting people through grief and trauma with both emotional support and practical tools.



    Website: www.souledinlove.co.uk



    Instagram: @souledinlove



    CONNECT WITH LYDIA



    Website: www.ridingthetraumatrain.co.uk



    Instagram: @ridingthetraumatrain

    TikTok: @ridingthetraumatrain

    Facebook: Riding the Trauma Train

    Email: [email protected]



    CALL TO ACTION



    If this episode resonated, please share it with someone who may need it.



    If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts or supporting someone who is, please reach out to a trusted person, your GP or a support service such as Samaritans.



    You are not alone.






    Samaritans – Call 116 123 (free, 24/7) or visit ⁠www.samaritans.org⁠

    NHS – Call 111 for urgent mental health support or visit ⁠www.nhs.uk⁠

    Emergency Services – Call 999 if you are in immediate danger


    Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide – ⁠www.uksobs.org⁠

    Cruse Bereavement Support – Helpline 0808 808 1677 or ⁠www.cruse.org.uk⁠

    Mind – ⁠www.mind.org.uk⁠

    1 hr 2 min
  • Episode 15 | How Trauma Affects the Brain: A Compassionate Conversation with Dr Tracey Evans

    In this episode of Riding the Trauma Train, Lydia is joined by Dr Tracey Evans, a neuroscientist, educator and neuroscience coach who helps people understand how trauma affects the brain and nervous system.


    Together, they explore why trauma responses can feel overwhelming, why you are not broken, and how understanding your brain can help you move forward with more self-compassion, clarity and empowerment.


    If you have ever felt stuck in survival mode, struggled with triggers, or wondered why you react the way you do, this episode will help things start to make sense.


    What We Cover

    Dr Tracey’s personal journey from trauma to neuroscience and coaching


    How trauma affects the brain and nervous system


    The role of fight, flight and freeze responses


    Why the brain gets stuck in survival mode


    What happens when the prefrontal cortex goes offline


    How trauma impacts motivation, reward and daily habits


    Why people turn to comfort eating, scrolling or alcohol


    Understanding triggers and why they do not mean you have gone backwards


    The triad model: neuro lead, neuro drive and neuro safety


    Practical tools for managing triggers in real-life situations


    Who This Episode Is For


    This episode is for:

    people who have experienced trauma and want to understand their brain


    anyone who feels stuck, overwhelmed or emotionally dysregulated


    survivors who struggle with triggers, shutdown or hypervigilance


    people who feel frustrated with their habits or coping mechanisms


    anyone looking for a compassionate, science-backed explanation of trauma


    Key Takeaways

    Your brain is wired for survival, not perfection


    Trauma responses are protective, even when they feel unhelpful


    When you are in survival mode, planning, motivation and emotional regulation can become harder


    You are not broken, your nervous system has adapted


    Triggers do not mean you have gone backwards in your healing


    Small, realistic steps can help rebuild safety and momentum


    Content Note

    This episode includes discussion of trauma, abusive relationships, complex PTSD, emotional dysregulation, addiction and triggers.


    Please listen gently and take a pause if needed. This podcast is not a replacement for professional support. If anything in this episode brings something up for you, consider reaching out to a qualified professional or someone you trust.


    About the Guest

    Dr Tracey Evans is a neuroscientist, educator and neuroscience coach who helps people understand how trauma, chronic stress and survival mode affect the brain.


    Through workshops and one-to-one coaching, she makes neuroscience accessible and practical, helping people build self-compassion and create meaningful, sustainable change.


    Website: www.connectionshealthcoaching.com

    Email: [email protected]

    Socials: @drtraceyevans_phd


    Connect with Lydia


    Website: www.ridingthetraumatrain.co.uk

    Instagram: @ridingthetraumatrain

    Email: [email protected]


    Call to Action


    If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need to hear that they are not broken.


    You can also follow Riding the Trauma Train, leave a review, or send Lydia a message on Instagram to share your thoughts.


    And if this conversation brought up difficult feelings, take a moment to ground yourself and seek support if you need it. You do not have to navigate this alone.

    1 hr 2 min

About Riding The Trauma Train Podcast

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Riding the Trauma Train helps those who are on a healing journey build practical tools for recovery and wellbeing. Each episode offers trauma-informed insight, nervous system support, and empowering reflections for navigating triggers, boundaries, relationships, and self-worth.