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Why do we like the bad guy? And then the nice guy comes around, and we’re like BORING.

If you can relate, you’re definitely not alone. In fact, this is how I was for years. I needed that chase and those high highs. I thought those high highs were love, but they’re not.

My caller today is wondering why she keeps chasing guys that are definitely not interested in her. There are infinite reasons as to why you might find yourself in a particular pattern, but essentially, the big thing for you to do is to relearn the what love is.

https://veronicagrant.com/stop-wanting-men-who-arent-interested/

Most of the time, what we want isn’t as far out of reach as we think it. The trouble is, we think it’s out of reach, then we create stories about it, and spiral from there.

That’s when the funk, jadedness, bitterness, and even meltdown can happen. And look, we’ve ALL been there. So please don’t beat yourself up about it.

At the same time, you don’t have to stay in your funk or meltdown. So channel your inner coach and coach yourself through anything with the three tips I share in this podcast.

https://veronicagrant.com/episode126

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I hope you’re loving the 2-part series on all things sex.

It seems like sex is either a taboo topic in our society, or the butt of every joke. It’s hard to remember sometimes that sex is supposed to be amazing, pleasure, and in some faiths, a holy act.

But the way we’re taught about sex, no wonder so many of us have complicated feelings about it. Like my friend Kit says, if we were taught soccer the same way we’re taught sex, no one would be playing soccer.

https://veronicagrant.com/not-physically-attracted/

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Kit is a new friend that I’ve met through my friend and old coach, Becca Piastrelli. I really admire Kit’s energy and her relentless dedication to celebrating women’s pleasure.

Owning your pleasure, specifically your sexual pleasure, may seem trivial, but I believe that owning your sexual power is a beautiful way to own your power in other parts of your life, especially relationships.

Who are you outsourcing your power, your confidence, or your worthiness to?

In our conversation, we talk about all things pleasure and women’s empowerment. I think you’re gonna have a fire under your ass after you listen. :)

https://veronicagrant.com/episode124

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Through working with the dozens of women in the Love Action Tribe and my countless private clients and clients in the Love Incubator, I’ve found three big beliefs to let go. If you do, you’ll get just about the closest thing to instant gratification there is.

Now, personal growth is a life long journey, but there are a few things you can do to immediately feel more free and less stuck.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• The life-changing reframe of “I’m too much.”
• What a yogurt can teach you about that ex you “wasted” so much time with
• Three kinds of expectations that keep you stuck

https://veronicagrant.com/episode123

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Ugh… rejection.

Nobody wants to deal with it, but unfortunately, if you want to find real love, then it’s something we all have to come to terms with.

It’s 100% impossible to rejection proof yourself AND want to find real love. Living in the fantasy that the “right person” will break down your walls will leave you single, or worse, in an unhealthy, toxic relationship.

• What to do instead of rejection proofing yourself
• What to do when you sense the guy you’re dating is pulling back
• The coffee pot test to up your texting game

https://veronicagrant.com/rejection-the-pullback-and-texting/

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I’ve been getting tons of questions recently about how I started my business and how I continue to grow it to the success that it is today.

I’ve also been increasingly working with clients on their businesses, and in that process, and in reflecting on what’s made me “successful” (what is success anyways?!), I saw that there were actually lots of parallels between finding soulful love and running a soulful experience.

I often say what got you success in your career isn’t going to get you success in love. That’s still true, but only when you look at your success in your career from a more corporate-y, hustle perspective.

That’s not what got me success in my business, and won’t be what gets you success in love either.

In this episode, I go through 5 parallels between finding love and having a soulful business. And even if you’re not a business owners and have no plans to be, you’ll definitely walk away with lots of takeaways you can apply to love, or moving ahead in whatever your career is.

https://veronicagrant.com/episode121

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I often hear from women in this community that they know what their intuition is saying; they just don’t listen to it. Or they don’t trust it. Or worse, someone has told them that going with their gut is “bad.”

The truth is, primarily as women, our power lies in our intuition is our greatest asset. It gives us an immense power that may make others feel uncomfortable. So they try to take your power away to keep the power balance.

I believe that if we ALL listen to our intuitions more than our heads, the world would be happier, safer, and more compassionate place for all beings.

The tides are changing, but we still have a lot of work to do. This episode will help you develop the tools you need to be your own best guru and live the life you want, on your terms.

https://veronicagrant.com/trusting-your-intuition/

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In today’s episode, I coach Carrie through her frustration of getting sooooo attached to the men she dates, then not just being disappointed when a relationship doesn’t work out, but devastated.

I find that as adults, we play out unresolved issues from childhood in all areas of our life, but it especially shows up in love. Carrie is playing out a couple unresolved issues from her mom and dad, but she’s playing them out in very different ways.

Each way requires a specific line of healing and work to move through them.

https://veronicagrant.com/episode119

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Today is another live coaching session. We'll talk with Stacy about letting go of the fear that the pickings are slim and a new look at the numbers game!

Listen in as I coach Stacey through the fear of being “pistachio.” She’s scared that if she’s herself and expresses her interests or preferences, that the guy she’s dating will be turned off and no longer interested in her.

I think as a society this is largely the way women are conditioned. Generally, girls, who grow up to be women, are conditioned to be agreeable, look a certain way, act a certain way, get approval. Then, when these girls become women, in dating, it translates to being rather vanilla and uninteresting to the guys you’d be interested in, and attracts guys who have tendencies to be narcissists or controlling.

https://veronicagrant.com/episode118

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