Someone sent in a question a while back asking: “Is it healthy for women to have a hoe phase?”. Right, so first I asked myself what that even means. I thought the term was incredibly loaded, unclear, problematic - there was a lot to unpack, basically. In this episode, I talk about what healthy sex can look and feel like, conversations I’ve had with girlfriends, and important lessons I’ve learned about intimacy. As always, I’m so happy when you guys send me messages privately and tell me what you think of an episode, or what’s been going through your mind. This episode is very personal. I am very open because I think it’s important, not because it’s easy. I also mention, several times, that I could be wrong and that I am drawing from things I’ve been told by friends and acquaintances, as well as my own experience. But, of course, I can't know it all. Perhaps this will speak to some of you out there. Perhaps it'll help. Perhaps it'll "un-fuck" your brain; calm some of the worries and confusions. Let me know what you think!
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