In this episode, the hosts Jess The Playful Domme, Lisa The Poly Wife, and Ella The Virgin discuss the dynamics of metamour relationships in polyamory—exploring the complex emotions that can arise when partners have other partners. They address the importance of handling one’s emotions, setting boundaries, and fostering open communication within these relationships. Through personal anecdotes, they emphasize the need for self-reflection, emotional responsibility, and understanding as essential skills for managing jealousy, insecurity, and expectations. The hosts also touch on concepts like ethical non-monogamy, the difference between kinky and swinger relationships, and how exploring these connections can lead to personal growth and stronger bonds.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Welcome and Disclaimer: Jess introduces the episode and sets the stage for an open, mature discussion on intimacy and relationships.

[00:02:00] - What is a Metamour?: Lisa explains the concept of metamours and how these relationships impact poly dynamics.

[00:05:00] - Handling Your Feelings: A discussion on jealousy, ownership of emotions, and maintaining healthy boundaries in poly relationships.

[00:14:00] - Ethics in Polyamory: The hosts discuss the importance of ethical practices, respecting boundaries, and avoiding veto dynamics.

[00:18:00] - Managing Jealousy: Lisa shares personal anecdotes about shifting from resentment to sisterhood with metamours.

[00:25:00] - Communication Tips: Strategies for clear, honest communication to strengthen relationships and avoid misunderstandings.

[00:33:00] - Emotional Accountability: A deep dive into how taking responsibility for personal emotions can lead to stronger connections.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• More Than Two: A foundational book for polyamorous relationships that covers ethical practices and managing complex dynamics.

• Wheel of Consent: A framework for establishing boundaries and understanding consent, valuable for intimate and metamour relationships.
- https://bettymartin.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/final-Wheel-A4.pdf

• The Playful Podcast Website: Listeners are invited to visit for more resources, community discussions, workshops, and booking sessions.

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