Early in December, my spouse had facial feminization surgery (FFS). The day before her surgery, we recorded a brief discussion to share with you about why she felt she was ready for it, if she was worried about how our 10-year-old son might react, and any other concerns she might have. As someone living with a transgender person, I now understand how important this step can be toward treating gender dysphoria.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Stanford Medicine: LGBTQ+ Health Program

Articles and Resources for Transgender Health:

• Global Resource: World Professional Association for Transgender Health
• Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund: Resource list for Trans Healthcare Providers
• UCLA Health: FFS Improves Quality of Life for Transgender People, Study Says
• For medical providers: AMA - Creating an LGBTQ-Friendly Practice

More transgender families:

• YouTube Channel: Great Scotts
• YouTube Channel: Jammidodger
• YouTube Channel: The Rage
• The Cut: My Husband is Now my Wife: Trans Women's Wives on Their Own Dramatic Transformations
• Chicago Tribune: Suburban Wife Loves the Person, Not the Gender, After Spouse Comes out as Woman

Information for allies:

• PFLAG Guide to Being a Trans Ally (PDF)
• GLAAD Tips for Allies of Transgender People
• National Center for Transgender Equality ally guide
• Human Rights Campaign ally guide

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