Forgiveness Is For YOU - Overcome Trauma Through Forgiveness

S3E12 When A Founder Falls: One Priest's Journey to Truth and Forgiveness


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* Content Warning* This episode contains mature themes and is not appropriate for minors.

Friends,

In this vulnerable and sobering episode, I visit with Father John Michael Paul, a Catholic priest who discovered that the founder of his religious community had a decades-long history of sexual abuse.  For someone who spent decades serving as a priest and leader in his community, the betrayal was spiritual, deeply personal, and formative.

As someone who entered the Catholic Church shortly before the 2002 abuse crisis, I remember how destabilizing that season was for many of us. In today’s conversation, we explore what happens when the shepherd you trusted is revealed to be a wolf,  and how truth, though painful, becomes the doorway to freedom.

In this episode, we discuss:
  • The impact of clergy sexual abuse on priests themselves
  • Betrayal trauma within religious communities
  • Spiritual fatherhood and spiritual disillusionment
  • The difference between institutional loyalty and fidelity to truth
  • How shame keeps abuse hidden
  • The long road toward forgiveness
  • What healing looks like when trust has been shattered
  • A Note to Listeners

    If you have experienced betrayal within the Church, know this: your pain matters. Truth may take years to surface, but light always exposes what darkness tries to conceal.

    Forgiveness is not denial. It is not spiritual bypassing. It is a grace which is often slow, often costly, but real.

    “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” – John 8:32

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