By Dr. Carron Silva: Forgiveness Guide, Christian Trauma Coach
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Friends,
In this episode, I delve into the psychological concept of attachment and how our early childhood experiences with caregivers influence our approach to conflict and forgiveness.
I discuss the foundational work of psychologists like John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, who identified various attachment styles—secure, avoidant, anxious, and disorganized—and their implications for our adult relationships. Learn how these styles can affect your capacity to forgive and navigate conflicts effectively.
Discover why securely attached individuals might find forgiveness more accessible, while those with anxious, avoidant, or disorganized attachments face unique challenges in letting go of past grievances. Understanding your attachment style can be a valuable tool in healing relationships and moving toward self-possession and love.
Relevant Links:
https://cmapspublic2.ihmc.us/rid=1LQX400NM-RBVKH9-1KL6/the%20origins%20of%20attachment%20theory%20john%20bowlby%20and_mary_ainsworth.pdf
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/epdf/10.1080/14616734.2024.2342665?needAccess=true
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4321742/
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Thank you, and remember Friend, Forgiveness is for YOU!
Friends,
In this episode, I explore the concept of forgiveness as an area of stewardship. Drawing inspiration from biblical parables and stories, I delve into how forgiveness can be seen as a valuable gift from God that we are called to steward wisely.
I reflect on the parable of the talents and the story of Joseph to illustrate the importance of using the gift of forgiveness to heal and grow spiritually. I also share practical insights on how to become better stewards of forgiveness in our daily lives, emphasizing that the more we forgive, the more grace we receive to heal our wounds.
Relevant Links:
https://www.etymonline.com/word/forgive
https://www.usccb.org/committees/evangelization-catechesis/stewardship
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Friends,
In this episode, my guest Lisa Leopold, a faith-based counselor and survivor of spiritual betrayal, touches on a topic that some find taboo to discuss. Lisa shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming trauma in a fractured family, spiritual betrayal, and her struggle with forgiveness.
We discuss the impact of spiritual abuse and the role of forgiveness in healing. This episode offers profound insights and practical advice for anyone struggling with forgiveness after being betrayed by someone who was supposed to help bring them closer to God. Lisa's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith and forgiveness.
Lisa's links:
www.bethaniacounseling.com
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560810090294
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089251193478
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Friends,
In this episode, I am joined by Elsa Escobedo-Lopez, an occupational therapist, mother, and wife of 35 years, who shares her powerful story of overcoming the trauma of abortion through forgiveness. Elsa opens up about her journey of post-abortive forgiveness and how she now helps others heal from the pain of abortion as a healing retreat facilitator.
This is a heartfelt conversation about the complexities of forgiveness, the impact of trauma, and the importance of community support in the healing journey. Whether you have been affected by abortion or are struggling with forgiveness in other areas of your life, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement.
Relevant Links:
Abortion Hurts, God Heals: https://www.abortionhurtsgodheals.com/
Surrendering The Secret: https://surrenderingthesecret.com/
Rachels’s Journey: https://www.rachelsjourney.org/
Rachel’s Vineyard: https://www.rachelsvineyard.org/
Sisters of Life: https://sistersoflife.org/
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Friends,
In this episode, I take the guest chair for Part 2 with Heather Gaffney from the Warrior Words Podcast to share my journey from Apartheid South Africa to life as an immigrant in the United States. We talk about the importance of forgiveness in the healing of political terror.
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Dr. Carron discusses her early life in a segregated South African school, her involvement in the resistance against Apartheid, and her unexpected path to the U.S. She recounts the profound cultural shifts, the challenges she faced, and the moments of divine intervention that guided her journey. Through her experiences as a life coach for immigrants and survivors of severe trauma, she highlights the enduring power of healing and forgiveness.
Listeners will gain insight into the complexities of trauma, the importance of support systems, and the transformative power of forgiveness. Join Dr. Carron as she navigates the past and offers wisdom on how to integrate and heal from life's wounds.
Links for Heather Gaffney: Warrior Words Podcast
https://subscribepage.io/pearlsofwisdom
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/warrior-words-stories-of-hope-lessons-learned/id1725674975
IG: @mywarriorwords and @heathergaffneyauthor (Warrior Words would be my first choice)
Facebook: @heathergaffneyauthor
Note: Opinions expressed by guests on this podcast are their personal opinions and do not necessarily represent those of the host. The host understands that guests have the right to freedom of expression.
If the Forgiveness is for YOU podcast resonates with you, please rate, share on social media, write a review, and subscribe.
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Thank you, and remember Friend, Forgiveness is for YOU!
Friends,
In the next two episodes, I am in the guest’s chair as I share my story on the Warrior Words podcast with Heather Gaffney. Heather shares stories of people who have experienced trauma and have learned how to thrive despite what happened to them. She looks for the beauty in the broken. In this episode, I talk about growing up under the political system of Apartheid in South Africa. By sharing these episodes, I hope that you can see why it’s so important for me to teach forgiveness as a life skill and accompany those who are stuck in unforgiveness.
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Dr. Carron's story is a testament to resilience and the transformative power of forgiveness. Tune in to understand why forgiveness is crucial and how it can turn pain into purpose. If her story resonates with you, share it with friends and family. Enjoy these inspiring episodes with Heather Gaffney from Warrior Words.
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Note: Opinions expressed by guests on this podcast are their personal opinions and do not necessarily represent those of the host. The host understands that guests have the right to freedom of expression.
If the Forgiveness is for YOU podcast resonates with you, please rate, share on social media, write a review, and subscribe.
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Thank you, and remember Friend, Forgiveness is for YOU!
Friends,
In this episode, my guest Justin Veazey, an IT consultant and father of seven, and I delve into the complexities of praying for oneself. Justin shares his journey of overcoming the hesitation to pray for himself and how it has deepened his trust in God.
We discuss the challenges of self-love, the misconceptions around it, and the importance of recognizing one's own value. We explore how self-forgiveness plays a crucial role in this process and how it aligns with loving others as oneself.
Join us as we unpack practical steps to start praying for yourself, the significance of the Surrender Novena, and the transformative power of prayer in overcoming personal struggles and fostering a forgiving heart.
Whether you struggle with self-forgiveness or find it hard to pray for your needs, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement to help you on your journey to a more forgiving and fulfilling life.
Surrender Novena
Note: Opinions expressed by guests on this podcast are their personal opinions and do not necessarily represent those of the host. The host understands that guests have the right to freedom of expression.
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Thank you, and remember Friend, Forgiveness is for YOU!
Friends,
In this episode, I sit down with Deanna Bartolini, an experienced Unbound Prayer Minister, to delve into the transformative power of Unbound Prayer Ministry.
Through heartfelt stories and personal experiences, Deanna shares how this unique prayer practice has brought profound healing to many, including herself. We discuss the importance of forgiveness, the role of the intercessor, and how Unbound Prayer can help release burdens and foster spiritual freedom.
Deanna also provides insights into the five keys of Unbound Prayer and explains how listeners can access this ministry or become prayer ministers themselves.
Join us for an inspiring conversation that underscores the importance of faith, healing, and the transformative power of prayer. Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn how to let go of past hurts and embrace the freedom that Jesus offers.
Deanna Bartalini's Links:
Website: https://livenotlukewarm.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deannabartalini/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LiveNotLukewarm
4 Ways to Pray with Scripture when you sign up for my newsletter: https://subscribepage.io/bqmnCS?fbcli
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Note: Opinions expressed by guests on this podcast are their personal opinions and do not necessarily represent those of the host. The host understands that guests have the right to freedom of expression.
If the Forgiveness is for YOU podcast resonates with you, please rate, share on social media, write a review, and subscribe.
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Thank you, and remember Friend, Forgiveness is for YOU!
Friends,
In this episode, Prayer Warrior, Spiritual Director, and Mindset Coach, Kylie Hein, shares her journey with Ignatian spirituality, revealing how the spiritual exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola can guide us in healing and forgiveness.
Discover the significance of contemplative and mental prayer, the practice of the daily Examen, and how imaginative prayer can place us in the Gospel scenes to deepen our connection with God. Whether you’re struggling to forgive others or yourself, this episode offers practical insights and spiritual tools to help you on your journey.
Tune in to learn how to cultivate a deeper sense of trust in God's plan for your life and find freedom from the burdens of resentment and anger.
Reference Links:
IG: @kyliemhein
email: [email protected]
Website: www.kyliemhein.com
Free Daily Examen: https://kyliemhein.kartra.com/page/home
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/63-forgive-yourself-with-dr-carron-silva/id1675778101?i=1000660187617
About Ignatian Spirituality: https://rb.gy/wsf8tg
Next Steps:
Note: Opinions expressed by guests on this podcast are their personal opinions and do not necessarily represent those of the host. The host understands that guests have the right to freedom of expression.
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Thank you, and remember Friend, Forgiveness is for YOU!
Friends,
During July we explored mourning loss in the forgiveness process. You heard interviews with Mama Jane, who struggled with fertility, Dr. Abby Jorgensen, who supports families experiencing perinatal loss, and Paige McLemore, whose sister was tragically murdered. Forgiveness involves loss, but it also brings hope, accessible through prayer.
In August, we will delve into various forms of prayer and devotion, focusing on inner healing prayer to soften our hearts towards self-forgiveness and forgiving others.
In today's episode, we explore what prayer is, different types of prayer, and their importance in the forgiveness process. We start with the definition of prayer and I share my earliest memories of prayer involving my grandmother, teaching me the Gentle Jesus prayer and the Our Father in Afrikaans.
I discuss two postures of praying—mental or silent prayer (contemplative prayer) and vocal prayer. Additionally, I explore four prayer intentions: blessing and adoration, petition, intercession, and thanksgiving.
Prayer is crucial in the forgiveness process. Without prayer, we're like a compass without a needle.
Reference Links:
https://www.etymonline.com/word/prayer
https://mgoretti.org/mgstory
Next Steps:
Disclaimer: Opinions expressed by guests on this podcast are their personal opinions and do not necessarily represent those of the host. The host understands that guests have the right to freedom of expression.
If the Forgiveness is for YOU podcast resonates with you, please rate, share on social media, write a review, and subscribe.
Apple Podcasts Link:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/forgiveness-is-for-you-overcome-trauma-through-forgiveness/id1721956839
How to write a review on Apple Podcast App
Podcast Editor: Dr. Carron Silva
Cover Art Designer: Dr. Carron Silva
Music Provided by: Kode M @kodemaster90
Thank you, and remember Friend, Forgiveness is for YOU!
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