In this episode, Lisa (The Poly Wife) shares her experiences with service submissives, discussing how she is currently attracting men who are eager to please and serve her. Lisa talks about her evolving dynamics, including a recent encounter with a man who is enthusiastic about being her "service sub." She shares intimate moments from their interactions, such as performing tasks and receiving pleasure from his willingness to serve. Jess (The Playful Domme) provides insight into the difference between a service sub and other submissive roles, discussing the deeper layers of submission and the dynamic of a female-led relationship. The conversation also touches on the balance between communication, boundaries, and trust in kink.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Introduction to the episode, including the disclaimer and setup for Lisa’s updates.

[00:02:00] - Lisa shares her experiences with two men she’s currently dating and their eagerness to please her.

[00:04:00] - The Parking Lot Guy: Story of Lisa meeting a man who offered to help her move and was willing to serve her by performing tasks.

[00:06:00] - Introduction to the concept of service submission: Lisa’s experience with a man who eagerly helps her with tasks like cleaning and exercise.

[00:10:00] - Floggers and Dragon’s Tail: Lisa describes experimenting with light BDSM play, using floggers and other tools to test boundaries.

[00:12:00] - The Shift in Dynamics: Lisa reflects on her past relationship dynamics and how this new experience with service submission feels empowering and refreshing.

[00:15:00] - Female-Led Relationships: Jess discusses the concept of female-led relationships and how a true service sub approaches their role with humility and devotion.

[00:18:00] - Lisa talks about the contrast between her previous experiences with alpha men and her current relationship with a service sub.

[00:21:00] - Lisa reflects on the psychological aspects of being served and how it impacts her sense of fulfillment.

[00:23:00] - Lisa’s insight into the trust-building aspect of being in a service submission dynamic and the deeper emotional connection it creates.

[00:28:00] - Closing thoughts on how the experience has transformed her understanding of relationships and submission.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: www.theplayfulpodcast.com – For after-hours content, workshops, and community engagement.

• FetLife: Mentioned as a resource for exploring kink and creating profiles in the BDSM community.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational tool for understanding giving, receiving, an

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