Summary

In this episode, Whitney is joined by Brandi Pearce, a mom of three whose path to parenthood through surrogacy is nothing short of inspiring. Battling Crohn’s disease made pregnancy too risky, but that never deterred Brandi from her dreams of becoming a mother. She turned to surrogacy not once, but three times to create her beautiful family. Two of those journeys were independent, and her final journey was with Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, where she experienced the ease and support of having a full team walk alongside her.

We talk about the differences between each journey, what she learned along the way, and how having the right support can make all the difference. Brandi also shares the special way she prepared her son for baby brother, by writing a children’s book that explains their beautiful family journey in a way that’s simple, sweet, and filled with love.

Whether you're considering surrogacy, in the middle of the process, or supporting someone who is, Brandi’s story is a reminder of the many ways families are built and the beauty that can unfold when you lean into the process with openness and heart.

Takeaways

-Brandi faced significant health challenges that impacted her ability to carry children.
-Surrogacy was chosen as a viable option for family building.
-The legal complexities of surrogacy vary by state and can be daunting.
-Emotional support is crucial during the surrogacy process.
-Brandi's journey involved multiple surrogates and unique challenges each time.
-The transition to agency support alleviated some of the stress of the process.
-Building relationships with surrogates is essential for a positive experience.
- Brandi's experiences highlight the importance of communication in surrogacy.
-Postpartum feelings can affect surrogate mothers as well as biological mothers.
-Surrogacy is a deeply personal journey that varies for each family.
-Communication is key in surrogacy relationships.
-Every surrogacy journey is unique and cannot be generalized.
-Hidden illnesses like Crohn's disease can complicate family planning.
-Documenting the surrogacy journey can help children understand their family dynamics.
-Celebrating diverse family structures is essential for acceptance.
-Transitioning to new family dynamics requires careful planning and support.
-Simplifying conversations about surrogacy for children can ease their understanding.
-Parents should not fear discussing surrogacy with their kids.
-Embracing the unknown can lead to a more enjoyable surrogacy experience.
-Finding joy in simple moments can strengthen family bonds.

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