The news headlines about attempts to erase the transgender community can do a number on us. Partner up, it’s going to be an unpredictable, bumpy ride. Rest when you need to, stay hydrated, and keep being you. Allies, time to step up. 

Trans Lifeline: Resources for Dealing with Post-Election Grief

Mentioned or related to this episode:

• USA Today: Utah bill would ban Pride flags in public schools but allow Nazi flags for educational use
• The Salt Lake Tribune: Utah Republican amends anti-pride flag bill hours after saying Nazi, Confederate flags could be displayed in schools
• NPR: Park Service erases 'transgender' on Stonewall website, uses the term 'LGB' movement
• ABC News: Transgender references removed from Stonewall National Monument website
• Recommended: Erin in the Morning
• Recommended: The Trans Formations Project
• Recommended: The Rachel Maddow Show on MSNBC
• Recommended groups for cisgender spouses: PFLAG, Reddit, Facebook here and here
• More resources

Information for allies:

• PFLAG Guide to Being a Trans Ally(PDF)
• GLAAD Tips for Allies of Transgender People
• Advocates for Transgender Equality ally guide
• Human Rights Campaign ally guide

Places to look for therapy and professional support:

• Psychology Today
• Coaching for Cis & Straight Partners of Transgender, Gender Diverse, and LGBTQ+ Folx 

More transgender families: 

• YouTube Channel: Great Scotts
• YouTube Channel: Jammidodger
• TikTok: TransitionTogether
• The Cut: My Husband is Now my Wife: Trans Women’s Wives on Their Own Dramatic Transformations
• Chicago Tribune: Suburban Wife Loves the Person, Not the Gender, After Spouse Comes out as Woman

 

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