In this episode, I talk to my mom in her eighties about her reaction when I told her that my spouse had come out as transgender.

My favorite quote from our talk: “You’re not the one who has the right to judge.” 

Mentioned or related to this episode:

• American Field Service (AFS)
• Book my parents read: She's Not There: A Life in Two Genders, by Jennifer Finney Boylan
• PFLAG National for friend and family ally support
• PFLAG International for friend and family ally support
• Book I recently read and recommend: Dear Cisgender People: A Guide to Trans Allyship and Empathy, by Kenny Ethan Jones

Information for allies:

• PFLAG Guide to Being a Trans Ally(PDF)
• GLAAD Tips for Allies of Transgender People
• Advocates for Transgender Equality ally guide
• Human Rights Campaign ally guide

Places to look for therapy and professional support:

• Psychology Today
• Coaching for Cis & Straight Partners of Transgender, Gender Diverse, and LGBTQ+ Folx 

More transgender families: 

• YouTube Channel: Great Scotts
• YouTube Channel: Jammidodger
• TikTok: TransitionTogether
• The Cut: My Husband is Now my Wife: Trans Women’s Wives on Their Own Dramatic Transformations
• Chicago Tribune: Suburban Wife Loves the Person, Not the Gender, After Spouse Comes out as Woman

 

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