This week on Cultivating the Lovely, MacKenzie has a chat with author and speaker Gary Thomas about his new book When to Walk Away: Finding Freedom from Toxic People. Gary and his wife of 35 years have three children and live outside of Houston, TX. He has a heart for marriage, family and the church, and that love for people shines through this conversation with MacKenzie.

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• How Gary realized this book needed to be written through his own encounter with a toxic person
• Gary shares his heart for marriage while being real about abuse
• The danger of telling others to stay in relationship with toxic people
• Biblical examples of how to deal with toxic relationships
• Challenges from within the church to victims of abuse
• Gary identifies some warning signs that you may be in relationship with a toxic person
  • If someone is stopping you from fulfilling God’s mission for you
  • If someone is destroying your spirit
  • If someone is controlling you
  • If someone is gaslighting you or making you feel crazy

Gary: diffusing essential oils in his office at work

When to Walk Away

The Five

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Joe Rogan

About Time

You can find Gary at garythomas.com. You can also follow him on Facebook, Pinterest, and Twitter.

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