An often-unspoken spiritual practice – one that doesn’t make it into sermons or how-to guides - is the unconventional practice of crying in your kitchen. More specifically, navigating surprising or unwelcome emotion with kindness rather than control. Listen in.

LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:

• Learning to Walk in the Dark by Barbara Brown Taylor
• Burnout by Emily and Amelia Nagoski
• Episode 358: Pray However You’re Able

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Today I’m glad to welcome author, podcaster, speaker, advocate, educator, mother, Jen Hatmaker. From the power of her written word across 14 books including four New York Times best sellers, to speaking on stages, leading her own courses and book club communities, and interviewing countless visionaries on her award-winning For The Love podcast, Jen has an undeniable gift for reaching the hearts and minds of her community. It’s an honor to host her today to have a conversation about her deeply personal memoir, Awake. Listen in.

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• Visit Jen's website
• Find Jen on Instagram

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In a world of comparison, competition, and constant performance, it’s easy to turn inward, guard our energy, or measure our worth by what we haven’t yet done. But what if, instead of striving, we chose to cheer? What if your next right thing wasn’t about you at all, but about seeing someone else clearly and naming their goodness out loud? Even if it’s not their special day of the year, finding someone to root for can be one counter-intuitive way to combat loneliness and discouragement.

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• Download The Birthday Collection

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Today I’m exploring one of the things I crave that has nothing to do with food: a desire for space - body, mind, and soul. Here are some ways clearing space is helping me in my decision-making life. Listen in.

LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:

• Start With Hello by Shannan Martin 
• The Ministry of Ordinary Places by Shannan Martin
• Counterweights: An Essential Practice for Holding Hope in A Heavy World by Shannan Martin
• "The Value of Looking at Long-Distance Views" in Psychology Today
• The Lazy Genius episode 371: How to Neutralize the Sunday Scaries
• Everything Belongs by Richard Rohr

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If you're feeling far from wonder, or disconnected from your own faith, today’s episode is an invitation to listen, notice, and remember. Listen in.

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• Everything Belongs by Richard Rohr
• Find Hilary McBride on Instagram

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I’m so glad to welcome Kate Strickler, the creator behind the extremely popular blog and Instagram account Naptime Kitchen. She’s known for her down-to-earth practicality and home and parenting hacks, and when she isn't working or wrangling the kids, you can find her in her happy place: experimenting in the kitchen. Kate lives in Charleston, South Carolina with her husband, Nate and their four children and I’m so glad to have her join us today.

She's written her very first book called I Just Wish I Had A Bigger Kitchen: And Other Lies I Think Will Make Me Happy. In it she shares small habits and mindset shifts to find contentment and joy in life. We’ll talk about that and more. I hope you’ll listen in.

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• Order I Just Wish I Had a Bigger Kitchen by Kate Strickler
• Visit Kate's website
• Follow Kate on Instagram
• The beloved mesh bags
• Pretty in the Pines

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The things we read, watch, listen to and generally consume will almost always contribute in some way to a conversation we’re already having in our heads. It may not be obvious at first, it may take some time to connect the dots. But eventually, the work and words and lives of others – if we’re paying attention – will have some kind of impact. If we’re lucky, they will help us to articulate something we’ve worked to do on our own for quite some time. If we’re smart, we’ll keep a record of it.

That’s what I’m attempting to do today here, sharing the words from three different women and how those words are combining in my mind to bring some clarity to something I’ve thought a lot about. I’ll bring you in on it now as a witness to my wonderings. Listen in.

LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:

• Taylor Swift’s 2022 Songwriter-Artist of the Decade acceptance speech
• Why the French Don’t Obsess Over Purpose by Pamela Clapp on Substack
• I’ve Seen What I Needed to See on the 10 Things to Tell You podcast

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The things we read, watch, listen to and generally consume will almost always contribute in some way to a conversation we’re already having in our heads. It may not be obvious at first, it may take some time to connect the dots. But eventually, the work and words and lives of others - if we’re paying attention - will have some kind of impact. If we’re lucky, they will help us to articulate something we’ve worked to do on our own for quite some time. If we’re smart, we’ll keep a record of it.

That’s what I’m attempting to do today here, sharing the words from three different women and how those words are combining in my mind to bring some clarity to something I’ve thought a lot about. I’ll bring you in on it now as a witness to my wonderings. Listen in.

LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:

• Taylor Swift's 2022 Songwriter-Artist of the Decade acceptance speech
• Why the French Don’t Obsess Over Purpose by Pamela Clapp on Substack
• I've Seen What I Needed to See on the 10 Things to Tell You podcast

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• Watch this episode on YouTube
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• Download The Quiet Collection app
• Join The Soul Minimalist Substack
• Order a How to Walk into a Room
• Download the free discussion guide for How to Walk into a Room by visiting this page and clicking the button "Discussion Guide"
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It's our first episode back after our summer hiatus and I'm so glad to welcome my friend, partner, and husband, John P. Freeman. (Yes, his middle initial really is P!) Aside from being my biggest cheerleader, John is also a pastor who served for 12 years in two different churches as a youth pastor until 12 years ago when he walked out of the room of official church ministry and walked into the room of our actual home where he worked for several years as a stay-at-home dad. For the last decade, he's been  running his own nonprofit called Grace Discipleship, where he offers soul care and spiritual direction for couples, pastors, and Gen Z high school and college students.

On this first episode of this next season of the podcast, we'll cover some questions you submitted about spiritual direction, family life, and life with God. Plus John will share which episodes of this podcast are his personal favorite. Listen in.

LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:

• Episode 294: Standing at the Threshold with Lowland Hum
• Episode 319 Finding Vocational Clarity with Parker J. Palmer
• Episode 23: Release Your Agenda
• The Listening Life by Adam McHugh
• Learn more about John's work
• Find a Spiritual Director through Anam Cara

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This episode is transcribed on YouTube and Apple Podcasts.

The things we read, watch, listen to and generally consume will almost always contribute in some way to a conversation we’re already having in our heads. It may not be obvious at first, it may take some time to connect the dots. But eventually, the work and words and lives of others - if we’re paying attention - will have some kind of impact. If we’re lucky, they will help us to articulate something we’ve worked to do on our own for quite some time. If we’re smart, we’ll keep a record of it.

That’s what I’m attempting to do today here, sharing the words from three different women and how those words are combining in my mind to bring some clarity to something I’ve thought a lot about. I’ll bring you in on it now as a witness to my wonderings. Listen in.

LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:

• Taylor Swift's 2022 Songwriter-Artist of the Decade acceptance speech
• Why the French Don’t Obsess Over Purpose by Pamela Clapp on Substack
• I've Seen What I Needed to See on the 10 Things to Tell You podcast
• Leave a review on Apple Podcasts
• Download The Quiet Collection app
• Join The Soul Minimalist Substack
• Order a How to Walk into a Room
• Download the free discussion guide for How to Walk into a Room by visiting this page and clicking the button "Discussion Guide"
• Download the transcript