When I watched the video of two African American men getting arrested last week at a Starbucks in Philadelphia, I thought of the times I’d visited the coffeehouse chain, asking — like the men — to use the bathroom. Sometimes I bought a drink on the way out, or if the line was too long, or if I was in a rush, I skipped making a purchase. Not once did the manager call the police, not once was I led away in handcuffs, accused of trespassing.