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We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing?

A lucky fella won a three-month free entry to his local bathhouse. Whatever should he do when he's in there?

Our guest this week is Allen Sulkin, creator of the new podcast "Gerbil." He and Dan analyze the persistence of the insane sex myth that you've probably heard about. Do people still believe it? They go into the dark motivations that allowed such a preposterous rumor to live on and on. Gerbil is out now, and you should drop everything to listen to it.

And, should a woman demand her fiancé continue the painful, expensive tattoo removal from a previous marriage?

People. Make good choices.

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Just how polite are Canadians?

Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam.

Name a lake after this guy!

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Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently!

A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical contractions should be noticeably felt.

On the Magnum, Dan brings on a guest to definitively answer the question you all have: How long must you wait to masturbate after you've had a heart attack? Dr. Eugene Fan is a cardiologist with nothing but good news for you horndogs. As long as your heart is beating, you can beat off. He and Dan discuss a couple of heart health issues with the charming and reassuring Dr. Fan.

And, is piss an acquired taste? Because this woman just doesn't like it.

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date.

Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot.

Hear her story, get turned on.

If YOU have a delicious tale to tell, write it down and send it in to [email protected].

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Bummer! A man had just met with a male-female couple who wanted him to take part in a kinky three-way. But when he confessed that he sometimes has trouble coming, they cancelled. Can he train himself to blow a load? Need he?

Speaking of loads, a woman credits her beautiful, supple skin to the facial treatments her husband obligingly administers. Can this be true? Any dermatologists care to weigh in?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with filmmaker, actor and fetish content creator Julian Shaw. He wrote and directed the thriller Use Me, co-directs the documentary Acting Hard, and is the subject of Cam Boy, a documentary currently in production. He was the face of Australia's gay marriage fight, and had to "come out'" as straight. He and Dan cover a lot of ground in this convo about foot fetishes, the benefits and perils of sex work, the ethics of dating guys on the DL, and how to avoid stomach aches.

Finally, a gay man in Italy asks if wearing a jockstrap tells the world that he is a bottom.

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Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend.

Packing checklist:

Kink outfits

Consent Form

Waste bag

How did it go? You'll find out.

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A man has been together with his boyfriend for 10 years. The caller works long hard hours and values peace and quiet when he comes home. But his boyfriend works from home all day and pounces on his husband, wanting to chat and interact. Dan was in a similar situation, but don't tell Dan's husband how he dealt with it.

A divorced woman with children has been dating a man. Both are in open relationships, and he wears a wedding ring. Her kids don't yet know about ethical non-monogamy and her family disapproves, making this year's Rosh Hashanah dinner extra spicy.

Our guest is the intrepid comedian Zach Noe Towers who sailed away on the gay ship that got turned away by homophobic country after homophobic country. He and Dan go Deep Gay on the scent of man, and whether uncircumcised dicks slip in easier. A little is on the Micro, and the uncut version is on the Magnum.

And, a 35 year-old gay man connected with a guy via dating app, who seemed pretty darn cool. But when he learned the man was in his 60s, he politely rejected him. The guy accused our caller of being ageist. Is he?

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Cat started a sex toy company, so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product…

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Any military lawyers in the house? A gay man and his boyfriend, both serving active duty, want to open their relationship. But infidelity is forbidden by military law. How risky would this be?

Now that chastity play its all the rage, should we assume that a key necklace means something deeply kinky? And if so, should we knowingly wink when we see one?

Sex/science nerds rejoice! Our Magnum guest this week is Distinguished Research Professor Dr. Lixing Sun, who wrote On the Origin of Sex. Dan and Dr. Sun discuss the deep biological underpinnings of sex: when and why did pleasure emerge in reproduction? Why hasn't homosexuality been selected against? And why don't we just reproduce like sponges?

And, a woman no longer drinks, but her boyfriend still does. When he comes home reeking of beer and cigarettes, she feels repulsed by him. How can she explain that drinking a pitcher and getting laid that night are now mutually exclusive events?

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Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event."

What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here, but please know that an inflatable horse costume was involved.

Also, Dan brings a much needed Marxist interrogation to the story.

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