Ever notice when we tell ourselves, our loved ones,our family what we "DESERVE" it's always for the best, positive, success, advantage, financial gain, materialistically...FOR THE WIN!! Not so much when we are referring to other people. When it comes to people we have decided for whatever reason they don't deserve it...but yet we do!! Have we ever really considered if we all got we actually FUCKING DESERVED....BE CAREFUL WITH THAT, IT MAY BE MORE THAN WE MOST DEFINITELY BARGAINED FOR!!

In this life we have no control who are parents are, what family we are born into, what environment we are raised in. We are responsible for how we respond to it later in life. IN THIS LIFE WE START OUT WITH A POSITIVE OR A NEGATIVE DEFICIT!! PRIVILEGES, ADVANTAGES, ABUNDANCE OF SUPPORT IS OFTEN INVISIBLE TO THOSE THAT HAVE IT....BUT IS VERY VISIBLE FOR THOSE THAT DO NOT!!

We have been taught, led to believe that WISDOM COMES with AGE...and without new information, self education, new & constant experiences, disagreements, failures, trial and error.... THERE IS NO WISDOM TO BE GAINED!!!

YOU HEAR IT,SEE IT, WITNESS IT, DO IT, CONTRIBUTE TO IT.... PEOPLE THAT SAY THEY ARE "DONE" AND THE LIE DETECTOR REVEALED OTHERWISE....YOUR ACTIONS PROVIDED THE FACTS THAT YOU WERE NOT SERIOUS!!

We have heard it our entire lives!! One generation to the next.... that each one is tougher, has more grit, toughness!! That's debatable depending on the generation...BUT SOMETHING THAT IS NOT ONLY OBVIOUS BUT ALARMING WITH THE PRECEDING GENERATIONS!!! IS THEY CANNOT SEEM TO HANDLE LIFE IN GENERAL ( OUR FAULT)

Let me ask y'all again, why do you like, encourage people who post motivational bullshit they don't live? Why do you seem to be offended or intimidated by those who do? Why do we give people compliments when we don't mean it? Why do we reinforce and let people keep their excuses? Do we know what this does? Do we know what it leads to? WHY do we encourage toxic couples? Much more on this in the podcast!!

MEN!!! TAKE YOUR ROLE AS FATHER SERIOUSLY!!!! DO WHAT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO DO!!! NOT FOR CREDIT, NOT FOR LIKES, NOT FOR FUCKING SOCIAL MEDIA!!! IT'S YOUR FUCKING OBLIGATION!!

THIS SOCIETY CATERS TO THE WEAK, SOFT, UNDISCIPLINED, THE LAZY....THE VICTIM MENTALITY!!! THE LESS THAN 10% ARE OFFENSIVE!!

Something that is very clear throughout my life... is the fact that the more disciplined you are, the more responsible, dependant, reliable, resilient you are...THE MORE YOU HAVE YOUR SHIT TOGETHER THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE (NOT FOR A PHASE) THE LESS PEOPLE CARE AND ACKNOWLEDGE YOU!! THE FOCUS & ATTENTION GOES FOR THOSE WHO WILL NOT.... NOT THOSE WHO CANNOT!!

This challenge was the NEXT CHALLENGE on my REQUIRED checklist.... what's next???