IN THIS LIFE THERE ARE GIVERS AND TAKERS ....PEOPLE WHO GIVE JUST BECAUSE IT'S WHO THEY ARE. GIVERS AREN'T THE WEAK PEOPLE, "TAKERS" ARE THE WEAK, UNDISCIPLINED,EMOTIONAL , CONSUMERS!!! THEY CONSUME ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING IN THEIR PATH ,IF THEY REALIZE IT OR NOT!!! WE HAVE TO PUT A STOP TO THEM....BEFORE THEN TURN INTO FULL BLOWN NARCISSISTS!!! THEN IT'S OFTEN TOO LATE!!!

We enable our loved one's and we consider it no one else's business. When in fact it is other people's business. Do we expect other people, family members to pick up and do the same thing when we longer want to do it? Why is their problem? They didn't ask for it...IT'S EVERYONE'S FUCKING BUSINESS AND EVERYONE THAT CONTRIBUTES FAULT!!

Do we even know what happiness is? Do we know or acknowledge if we are sincerely unhappy? As a SOCIETY we are in a constant pursuit of MORE!! BIGGER, BETTER, ATTENTION, VALIDATION, APPROVAL. UNHAPPY PEOPLE ARE CONVINCED IT'S A PERSON .THE NEXT RELATIONSHIP (NEW) MORE $$ TO GET MORE MATERIAL OBJECTS.....CONSTANT COMPARISON =UNHAPPINESS!!

Why do we have the people in our life we do? What VALUE do they add? What value do we add to them? What do they /we bring to the table? Are we connected by guilt, persuasion, INFLUENCED, BLOOD, marriage, COWORKERS, childhood?

We seem to love the story of the people that let their life go to TOTAL SHIT,the underdog,the ONE'S who really FUCK it up!!! OVER the past few years i have been wondering why we don't pursue, seek, reach out to the one's that NEVER ALLOWED THEMSELVES TO GET TO THAT POINT!!!

Was thinking about the men i have known throughout my life. Some still to this day are the exact same way!!! HAVEN'T EVOLVED NOT ONE BIT!! They hand everything over to the women in their life, because they don't want have to FUCK with it or think!! They are willing to put up with whatever it is so because they are too lazy, COMPLACENT, and comfortable to be uncomfortable temporarily so their life can change for the better!!!

IN THE PROCESS OF TRYING TO SAVE OUR CHILDREN/LOVED ONE'S FROM THE SHIT WE ATE ,THE HARDSHIPS WE WENT THROUGH .THE ADVERSITY, THE TRAGEDIES...WE ARE RUINING THEM!!! THEY ARE GAINING NO EXPERIENCES, TOOLS IN THIS "GIVE IT TO ME NOW" I DESERVE IT SOCIETY!!

We say SUPPORT one another, especially OUR close friends and family( loved one's) but these PEOPLE ARE OFTEN THE VERY PEOPLE THAT SUPPORT LESS THAN ANYONE...IF AT ALL!!

PEOPLE, friends, family that go "GHOST" and ghost us!! Who they are, why they do it? Is out of character for them? Is it consistent with who they are ? Do they do it regularly? Look at their habits, who they spend time with and what they spend time doing? What kind of RELATIONSHIPS do they have? All PROOF is in their history and daily life!!

Why we think this way, what drives it, why we don't make the necessary changes? What are we going to do about it with the time we have left? 8 days a month, 96 days a year!!