When we don't hold our loved one's accountable it's because we will do whatever it takes to keep them in our lives!! This leads to a very UNDISCIPLINED,WEAK , ENABLED SOCIETY....AND KEEPS MULTIPLYING OVER AND OVER !!

PART 1) of our life's BIGGEST REGRETS and this is only the tip of the iceberg .This touches base on the first 5 and we will dive deeper in other podcasts!!

Who they are,how it bleeds GENERATION to GENERATION. How we do fix it? Why don't we deal with it? Why do we identify these people as other people besides our own FAMILY? IT STARTS WITH THE ELDERS!!!!THE INCONVENIENT TRUTH!!

What roles father's play in their children's life. What should be expected as this VALUABLE, EARNED title!!! We give undeserving credit to so many who have NOT EARNED IT and NOT ENOUGH TO SO MANY MORE...AND HAS BEEN THIS WAY FOR FAR TOO LONG!!

What we are taught at a very young age what to believe, follow, practice and implement in our daily life!!!! Do we believe what we say we are? Do we live it? Have we CHALLENGED our belief system? Our PARENTS/ELDERS? IF NOT WHY?

My experiences, perspective on being a white Male over 40 with adult children, Hispanic step children .Both Hispanic and white grandchildren. Growing up as the MINORITY in my neighborhood and the MENTALITY behind all of it !!!

Why the PEOPLE that hate are ALWAYS the closest to us. What is their motive? What are the characteristics? THEY ARE NEVER STRANGERS!!!

We not only accept mediocrity, it is also encouraged!!! It seems to be our favorite pastime....we live our entire lives often NEVER DEVELOPING into the advanced, supreme, elevated VERSION of OURSELVES....BECAUSE we care more about what's easy and being accepted!!

Just a little information on my relationship with my mother and missing her with her being gone almost 2 years now ...more on mother's and the role they play positive or negative in their children's life . HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY LADIES!!

This is part 1 of what the characteristics of the "NICE GUY " consists of. WHO THEY ARE,WHY THEY ARE LIKE THIS...WHY IT IS VERY INEFFECTIVE AND DANGEROUS!!! MOST IMPORTANTLY....HOW YOU CAN START TRANSFORMATION AND CHANGING IT!!

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