My friends Kris and Lily came back from a breakup to coming back together and now happily married with two kids. In order to do so, they both had to drastically change themselves and their reality.

We discuss major turning points in a romantic relationship, balancing ideologies in a relationship, and some key (and possibly taboo) principles about how men and women can find deep harmony together.

If you’re having relationship issues and you want to fix it, apply to Lead Your Family— small group program for men in committed relationships: https://www.ruwando.com/LYF

Kris and Lily run a business together helping expats relocate to Thailand. https://cnxlocal.com/

00:00 - From Modern to Traditional Relationship

06:50 - Turning points in a romantic relationship

15:00 - Why are rituals important for a relationship?

27:00 - Leaving your principles for a greater goal

37:00 - Learning how to surrender to your partner

43:00 - Balancing Ideologies in Relationships

49:00 - Shift in relationship dynamics

01:03:00 - Christian values of family and community

01:14:00 - Passing on your values to your kids

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