Elopements, beaches, pot luck suppers and grow-your-own bouquets – how to prioritise your wedding day must-haves and let the rest go.

Wedding planner and celebrant Oskar Gilchrist-Grodnicki and interfaith celebrant Reverend Angie Alexandra give their tips for creating a special day that puts you and your other half at the centre of the story. Lauren Cassidy tells Kim and Eileen about how she organised her tractor shed wedding on a budget, and Carol Drummond from the Red Cross Bridal Boutique in Edinburgh shares the magic and financial perks of buying a pre-loved dress with producer Caitlin.