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  • 37: Making Difficult Conversations Not So Difficult

    After coaching hundreds of people on how to frame and engage in difficult conversations so that they are positive and progressive, Melissa shares her method here. It's one that has helped people of all ages in the workplace, in their relationships, friendships and even when making returns or ordering off the menu. You'll be ready to stop avoiding that convo you've been putting off after taking notes on this process!

    About this podcast:

    Grief, Guts & Smoothies. These three things changed my life – they might change yours too. Each episode we abandon our comfort zones to get a little gutsy and hold space to grow into stronger versions of ourselves.

    In 2014, the birth of my daughter Leyden changed my entire world. Four months later, grief shattered it. I was broken, scared, lost, angry and hopeless. I didn’t want to live and wasn’t really sure how to.

    I sought every means to “fight” grief: researching, joining parent groups, and I even traveled outside of the country twice, to hear world-renowned grief speaker Dr. Raymond Moody.

    Disappointed, I discovered like all adversities in life, there is no way to “beat” grief. But, thankfully, there were effective strategies I could employ when navigating such choppy waters. Whether it was understanding the gut-brain connection, or getting gutsy in my ability to face discomfort, the tools I learned, truly saved my life.

    There are not nearly enough resources to support each other through uncomfortable challenges – be it loss of a job, a relationship, a sense of self…or life. Talking about uncomfortable things, well that takes guts. And we are going to get really gutsy here.

    Connect with Melissa:

    • Learn more at Melissa’s website - http://www.thrivewithmelissad.com
    • Join the conversation on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gutsngrief/
    • Credits:

      • Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.
      • Catch up with me on socials!

        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/

        Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki

        LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/

        TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki

        YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

        22 min
      • It's So Possible - A Conversation with Angie Lee

        Angie Lee dropped out of college, was 100k in debt, and ignored all the people who doubted her dreams. At age 29, she has already built multiple 6-figure businesses and shows other people how they can do the same, whether it's pursuing a personal or professional dream, she reminds you that it might be scary and a little overwhelming, but it is so possible.

        Connect with Angie:

        • Learn more at her website - https://www.angielee.com/
        • Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/angieleeshow/
        • Check out Pays To Be Brave - https://www.angielee.com/pays-to-be-brave-2019
        • About this podcast:

          Grief, Guts & Smoothies. These three things changed my life – they might change yours too. Each episode we abandon our comfort zones to get a little gutsy and hold space to grow into stronger versions of ourselves.

          In 2014, the birth of my daughter Leyden changed my entire world. Four months later, grief shattered it. I was broken, scared, lost, angry and hopeless. I didn’t want to live and wasn’t really sure how to.

          I sought every means to “fight” grief: researching, joining parent groups, and I even traveled outside of the country twice, to hear world-renowned grief speaker Dr. Raymond Moody.

          Disappointed, I discovered like all adversities in life, there is no way to “beat” grief. But, thankfully, there were effective strategies I could employ when navigating such choppy waters. Whether it was understanding the gut-brain connection, or getting gutsy in my ability to face discomfort, the tools I learned, truly saved my life.

          There are not nearly enough resources to support each other through uncomfortable challenges – be it loss of a job, a relationship, a sense of self…or life. Talking about uncomfortable things, well that takes guts. And we are going to get really gutsy here.

          Connect with Melissa:

          • Learn more at Melissa’s website - http://www.thrivewithmelissad.com
          • Join the conversation on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gutsngrief/
          • Credits:

            • Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.
            • Catch up with me on socials!

              Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/

              Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki

              LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/

              TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki

              YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

              44 min
            • Retrain Your Brain - Your 3-Step Challenge

              Melissa challenges YOU to retrain your brain using 3 steps. She teaches how just like physical fitness, we can change our emotional fitness, but it takes action and consistency. When we do focus on our energy and emotional health, we have the strength and power to change our entire lives. The 3-step challenge is broken down and explained so you can integrate it into your life.

              Editor’s note: If you’ve ever been confused about the difference between goals, affirmations, or manifestations (like I was), this episode will answer your questions. For anyone looking to direct their energy in a more positive direction or if you need a pick-me-up in a trying time, this episode and challenge is for you. (Andrew)

              About this podcast:

              Grief, Guts & Smoothies. These three things changed my life – they might change yours too. Each episode we abandon our comfort zones to get a little gutsy and hold space to grow into stronger versions of ourselves.

              In 2014, the birth of my daughter Leyden changed my entire world. Four months later, grief shattered it. I was broken, scared, lost, angry and hopeless. I didn’t want to live and wasn’t really sure how to.

              I sought every means to “fight” grief: researching, joining parent groups, and I even traveled outside of the country twice, to hear world-renowned grief speaker Dr. Raymond Moody.

              Disappointed, I discovered like all adversities in life, there is no way to “beat” grief. But, thankfully, there were effective strategies I could employ when navigating such choppy waters. Whether it was understanding the gut-brain connection, or getting gutsy in my ability to face discomfort, the tools I learned, truly saved my life.

              There are not nearly enough resources to support each other through uncomfortable challenges – be it loss of a job, a relationship, a sense of self…or life. Talking about uncomfortable things, well that takes guts. And we are going to get really gutsy here.

              Connect with Melissa:

              • Learn more at Melissa’s website - http://www.thrivewithmelissad.com
              • Join the conversation on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gutsngrief/
              • Credits:

                • Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.
                • Catch up with me on socials!

                  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/

                  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki

                  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/

                  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki

                  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

                  25 min
                • Making Triggers Your Teacher - An Interview With Coach Meghan Sandve

                  In both her professional and personal life, Meghan Sandve let triggers be her teacher and that made all the difference in her transformation. Hear her story of change and the recommendations she makes for you to level up in living your best life.

                  Connect with Meghan:

                  • Learn more at her website - https://fitandfierce.co/
                  • Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/fittandfierce
                  • Listen to her podcast -
                  • https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fit-fierce/id1444248599

                    About this podcast:

                    Grief, Guts & Smoothies. These three things changed my life – they might change yours too. Each episode we abandon our comfort zones to get a little gutsy and hold space to grow into stronger versions of ourselves.

                    In 2014, the birth of my daughter Leyden changed my entire world. Four months later, grief shattered it. I was broken, scared, lost, angry and hopeless. I didn’t want to live and wasn’t really sure how to.

                    I sought every means to “fight” grief: researching, joining parent groups, and I even traveled outside of the country twice, to hear world-renowned grief speaker Dr. Raymond Moody.

                    Disappointed, I discovered like all adversities in life, there is no way to “beat” grief. But, thankfully, there were effective strategies I could employ when navigating such choppy waters. Whether it was understanding the gut-brain connection, or getting gutsy in my ability to face discomfort, the tools I learned, truly saved my life.

                    There are not nearly enough resources to support each other through uncomfortable challenges – be it loss of a job, a relationship, a sense of self…or life. Talking about uncomfortable things, well that takes guts. And we are going to get really gutsy here.

                    Connect with Melissa:

                    • Learn more at Melissa’s website - http://www.thrivewithmelissad.com
                    • Join the conversation on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gutsngrief/
                    • Credits:

                      • Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.
                      • Catch up with me on socials!

                        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/

                        Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki

                        LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/

                        TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki

                        YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

                        34 min
                      • 33: Is It Quitting or Letting Go?

                        Sometimes it can feel impossible to tell if we are quitting and giving up or letting go and opening space for something new. Whether a job, personal relationship, running a race or taking on new classes - we all face moments of having to decide if we want to continue to pursue the endeavor or if we want to walk away. Melissa shares examples of facing this in her own life and gives you 5 thinking tips on how to assess which one it is, for you.

                        About this podcast:

                        Grief, Guts & Smoothies. These three things changed my life – they might change yours too. Each episode we abandon our comfort zones to get a little gutsy and hold space to grow into stronger versions of ourselves.

                        In 2014, the birth of my daughter Leyden changed my entire world. Four months later, grief shattered it. I was broken, scared, lost, angry and hopeless. I didn’t want to live and wasn’t really sure how to.

                        I sought every means to “fight” grief: researching, joining parent groups, and I even traveled outside of the country twice, to hear world-renowned grief speaker Dr. Raymond Moody.

                        Disappointed, I discovered like all adversities in life, there is no way to “beat” grief. But, thankfully, there were effective strategies I could employ when navigating such choppy waters. Whether it was understanding the gut-brain connection, or getting gutsy in my ability to face discomfort, the tools I learned, truly saved my life.

                        There are not nearly enough resources to support each other through uncomfortable challenges – be it loss of a job, a relationship, a sense of self…or life. Talking about uncomfortable things, well that takes guts. And we are going to get really gutsy here.

                        Connect with Melissa:

                        • Learn more at Melissa’s website - http://www.thrivewithmelissad.com
                        • Join the conversation on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gutsngrief/
                        • Credits:

                          • Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.
                          • Catch up with me on socials!

                            Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/

                            Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki

                            LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/

                            TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki

                            YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

                            23 min
                          • 32: Growing Pains: How To Navigate Relationships & Friendships When You Grow In Different Directions

                            Melissa breaks down how when we pursue growth, distance between ourselves and others can grow, too. She shares how this may surface in dialogue, criticism, or resistance and shares 8 tips to keep all your relationships at their healthiest point, regardless of the phase you, or they, are in.

                            About this podcast:

                            Grief, Guts & Smoothies. These three things changed my life – they might change yours too. Each episode we abandon our comfort zones to get a little gutsy and hold space to grow into stronger versions of ourselves.

                            In 2014, the birth of my daughter Leyden changed my entire world. Four months later, grief shattered it. I was broken, scared, lost, angry and hopeless. I didn’t want to live and wasn’t really sure how to.

                            I sought every means to “fight” grief: researching, joining parent groups, and I even traveled outside of the country twice, to hear world-renowned grief speaker Dr. Raymond Moody.

                            Disappointed, I discovered like all adversities in life, there is no way to “beat” grief. But, thankfully, there were effective strategies I could employ when navigating such choppy waters. Whether it was understanding the gut-brain connection, or getting gutsy in my ability to face discomfort, the tools I learned, truly saved my life.

                            There are not nearly enough resources to support each other through uncomfortable challenges – be it loss of a job, a relationship, a sense of self…or life. Talking about uncomfortable things, well that takes guts. And we are going to get really gutsy here.

                            Connect with Melissa:

                            • Learn more at Melissa’s website
                            • Join the conversation on Instagram
                            • Credits:

                              • Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.
                              • Catch up with me on socials!

                                Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/

                                Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki

                                LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/

                                TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki

                                YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

                                24 min
                              • 31: From Law School Dropout To Successful Entrepreneur: The Road, The Roadblocks and The Rising

                                Ravi Abuvala shares the journey from walking away from a career in law to running an online business. We discuss how to navigate the fear, loneliness, shame, discomfort and adversity that accompanies making "the leap" and how and why it is SO worth doing. And Ravi dives deep into what can happen when you are your authentic self - professionally and personally. This interview will fire you up.

                                Follow Ravi:

                                • Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/raviabuvala
                                • Find on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/raviabuvala
                                • About this podcast:

                                  Grief, Guts & Smoothies. These three things changed my life – they might change yours too. Each episode we abandon our comfort zones to get a little gutsy and hold space to grow into stronger versions of ourselves.

                                  In 2014, the birth of my daughter Leyden changed my entire world. Four months later, grief shattered it. I was broken, scared, lost, angry and hopeless. I didn’t want to live and wasn’t really sure how to.

                                  I sought every means to “fight” grief: researching, joining parent groups, and I even traveled outside of the country twice, to hear world-renowned grief speaker Dr. Raymond Moody.

                                  Disappointed, I discovered like all adversities in life, there is no way to “beat” grief. But, thankfully, there were effective strategies I could employ when navigating such choppy waters. Whether it was understanding the gut-brain connection, or getting gutsy in my ability to face discomfort, the tools I learned, truly saved my life.

                                  There are not nearly enough resources to support each other through uncomfortable challenges – be it loss of a job, a relationship, a sense of self…or life. Talking about uncomfortable things, well that takes guts. And we are going to get really gutsy here.

                                  Connect with Melissa:

                                  • Learn more at Melissa’s website
                                  • Join the conversation on Instagram
                                  • Credits:

                                    • Interview: Ravi Abuvala
                                    • Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.
                                    • Catch up with me on socials!

                                      Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/

                                      Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki

                                      LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/

                                      TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki

                                      YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

                                      54 min
                                    • 30: How to set life-changing boundaries

                                      Ever fear saying "no"? Have you found yourself wondering why you are always staying late at the office, chronically deferring your needs to help someone or getting annoyed when others don't seem to get it? In this episode, Melissa will define the misconceptions of boundaries, explain what makes them so hard, and then cover 4 types of boundaries that can change your energy and change your life. She ends reminding you of what NOT to do when setting boundaries.

                                      Special announcement: I have two one-on-one coaching spots opening up in the next couple weeks. If you would like to learn more, please contact me at the links below!

                                      About this podcast:

                                      Grief, Guts & Smoothies. These three things changed my life – they might change yours too. Each episode we abandon our comfort zones to get a little gutsy and hold space to grow into stronger versions of ourselves.

                                      In 2014, the birth of my daughter Leyden changed my entire world. Four months later, grief shattered it. I was broken, scared, lost, angry and hopeless. I didn’t want to live and wasn’t really sure how to.

                                      I sought every means to “fight” grief: researching, joining parent groups, and I even traveled outside of the country twice, to hear world-renowned grief speaker Dr. Raymond Moody.

                                      Disappointed, I discovered like all adversities in life, there is no way to “beat” grief. But, thankfully, there were effective strategies I could employ when navigating such choppy waters. Whether it was understanding the gut-brain connection, or getting gutsy in my ability to face discomfort, the tools I learned, truly saved my life.

                                      There are not nearly enough resources to support each other through uncomfortable challenges – be it loss of a job, a relationship, a sense of self…or life. Talking about uncomfortable things, well that takes guts. And we are going to get really gutsy here.

                                      Connect with Melissa:

                                      • Learn more at Melissa’s website
                                      • Join the conversation on Instagram
                                      • Credits:

                                        • Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.
                                        • Catch up with me on socials!

                                          Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/

                                          Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki

                                          LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/

                                          TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki

                                          YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

                                          28 min
                                        • 29: Bosses, Besties & Bank - building a 6-figure business with Christina Muccio

                                          Back by popular demand, Christina Muccio, aka Mooch, joins Melissa to talk all things business. In their second interview, the two shares how they organically grew a 6-figure online business in 5 months, without any paid ads. They touch on common mistakes, their biggest advice, and what changes have transpired through entrepreneurship.

                                          Follow Christina:

                                          • Check out Move - https://www.movewithmm.com/
                                          • Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/cmooch/
                                          • About this podcast:

                                            Grief, Guts & Smoothies. These three things changed my life – they might change yours too. Each episode we abandon our comfort zones to get a little gutsy and hold space to grow into stronger versions of ourselves.

                                            In 2014, the birth of my daughter Leyden changed my entire world. Four months later, grief shattered it. I was broken, scared, lost, angry and hopeless. I didn’t want to live and wasn’t really sure how to.

                                            I sought every means to “fight” grief: researching, joining parent groups, and I even traveled outside of the country twice, to hear world-renowned grief speaker Dr. Raymond Moody.

                                            Disappointed, I discovered like all adversities in life, there is no way to “beat” grief. But, thankfully, there were effective strategies I could employ when navigating such choppy waters. Whether it was understanding the gut-brain connection, or getting gutsy in my ability to face discomfort, the tools I learned, truly saved my life.

                                            There are not nearly enough resources to support each other through uncomfortable challenges – be it loss of a job, a relationship, a sense of self…or life. Talking about uncomfortable things, well that takes guts. And we are going to get really gutsy here.

                                            Connect with Melissa:

                                            • Learn more at Melissa’s website
                                            • Join the conversation on Instagram
                                            • Credits:

                                              • Interview: Christina Muccio
                                              • Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.
                                              • Catch up with me on socials!

                                                Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/

                                                Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki

                                                LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/

                                                TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki

                                                YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

                                                55 min
                                              • 28: The guts of gossip (or the need for love)

                                                Melissa covers the energies behind gossip, being "two-faced," negativity, drama and judgment. In breaking down the needs behind these different behaviors, she equips you with the tools to handle it when they enter your life. And teaches how the "rule of 5" is so important, not only in your life, but for the role you play in the lives of others.

                                                About this podcast:

                                                Grief, Guts & Smoothies. These three things changed my life – they might change yours too. Each episode we abandon our comfort zones to get a little gutsy and hold space to grow into stronger versions of ourselves.

                                                In 2014, the birth of my daughter Leyden changed my entire world. Four months later, grief shattered it. I was broken, scared, lost, angry and hopeless. I didn’t want to live and wasn’t really sure how to.

                                                I sought every means to “fight” grief: researching, joining parent groups, and I even traveled outside of the country twice, to hear world-renowned grief speaker Dr. Raymond Moody.

                                                Disappointed, I discovered like all adversities in life, there is no way to “beat” grief. But, thankfully, there were effective strategies I could employ when navigating such choppy waters. Whether it was understanding the gut-brain connection, or getting gutsy in my ability to face discomfort, the tools I learned, truly saved my life.

                                                There are not nearly enough resources to support each other through uncomfortable challenges – be it loss of a job, a relationship, a sense of self…or life. Talking about uncomfortable things, well that takes guts. And we are going to get really gutsy here.

                                                Connect with Melissa:

                                                • Learn more at Melissa’s website
                                                • Join the conversation on Instagram
                                                • Credits:

                                                  • Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew [at] 51features.com.
                                                  • Catch up with me on socials!

                                                    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/

                                                    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki

                                                    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/

                                                    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki

                                                    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

                                                    31 min

                                                  About Scar Tissue

                                                  From the publisher's feed

                                                  Welcome to Scar Tissue the podcast. Here we understand the power that lies within our pain. We have real, raw, and relatable conversations on so many topics of life that will show you that there is…