Welcome back to another episode of School Counseling Simplified! Throughout October, we have been exploring practical bullying prevention strategies, and today we are wrapping up the series with a focus on teaching self-advocacy. While this may seem like a more reactive approach, it is an essential skill that helps students navigate challenges with confidence.

In this episode, we explore three simple ways to help students learn to advocate for themselves and others:

1. Practice Scripts Provide students with sample scripts they can use in real-life situations. Watch short videos together, then practice through role play in small groups or class lessons. This gives students a chance to apply what they learn and build communication skills in a safe environment.

2. Self-Esteem Affirmations Encourage students to use positive self-talk that supports their confidence. Have them create affirmation cards or write encouraging messages on sticky notes to remind themselves of their strengths and worth.

3. Advocating for Others Teach students to be upstanders rather than bystanders. Traditional bullying prevention lessons can be adapted to show students how to recognize when someone needs help and how to take safe, supportive action.

Tune in to learn how you can incorporate self-advocacy into your counseling lessons and empower your students to stand up for themselves and others.

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More About School Counseling Simplified:

School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.

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Welcome back to another episode of School Counseling Simplified! October is Bullying Prevention Month, and throughout the month I'll be sharing some replays of our best episodes focused on strategies to prevent bullying in schools.

In today's episode, we're diving into friendship skills — an essential foundation for creating a kind, connected, and inclusive school culture. I'll be sharing ideas you can use at every level: schoolwide, classroom, small group, and individual.

Schoolwide Strategies

• Buddy Bench (Elementary Level): Transform an existing bench at recess into a "Buddy Bench." When a student feels lonely or doesn't have anyone to play with, they can sit there to signal they're looking for a friend. Other students are encouraged to approach, sit with them, or invite them to join in play.

• Mix It Up at Lunch Day (Middle School Level): Help reduce lunchroom anxiety by encouraging students to sit somewhere new for a day. This activity helps them meet new peers and break out of their usual social circles.

• Assigned Recess Groups: Rotate groups of students to play or interact together, fostering connections between kids who might not usually spend time with one another.

Classroom Strategies

• Friendship Lessons: Lead a class discussion or activity around the qualities of a good friend versus the qualities of a not-so-good friend. This sets the tone for healthy peer relationships and respectful communication.

Small Group Strategies

• Friendship Discussions: Talk about what makes a good friend and how good friends act.

• Friendship Dice Game: Use discussion prompts such as "What do you love about your friends?" or "What annoys you about your friends?" to spark meaningful conversations.

• Conflict Resolution Practice: Teach students to use "I" statements to express their feelings and resolve friendship conflicts.

• Scenario Cards: Role-play different social situations to help students problem-solve and practice empathy.

Individual Counseling Strategies

• Scripts and Role Plays: Work one-on-one with students to build their social confidence. The goal is to help them gain the skills they need to transition into small group or class activities successfully.

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• Join IMPACT

• TpT Store

• Blog

• Instagram

• Facebook Page

• Facebook Group

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More About School Counseling Simplified:

School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.

You can listen to School Counseling Simplified on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!

Welcome back to School Counseling Simplified. Since October is Bullying Prevention Month, this episode focuses on practical conflict resolution strategies you can use at the schoolwide, classroom, and small group levels. If you have not listened to last week's episode on restorative circles, start there for helpful background on resolution circles and community-based approaches. Today we build on that foundation with tangible tools you can use right away to help students resolve, forgive, and repair relationships.

What you will learn in this episode

• How to use classroom-based activities to teach conflict resolution skills

• A simple script for I statements that students can use to express feelings and seek solutions

• Engagement strategies for role play, discussion, and practice

• Small group activities and curricula that support peer problem solving

• Steps to take when a student is referred to you after a conflict

Classroom strategies

Talk it out circle

• Use a classroom circle where two students resolve a conflict in front of their peers while the teacher or counselor facilitates a respectful discussion.

• This model teaches the whole class how to listen, reflect, and offer support.

Counselor push-ins

• Join the classroom for a lesson or mediation session, while the teacher and student exit the classroom to resolve a conflict.

I statement lessons

• Teach a simple I statement script: name the emotion, describe the incident, explain how it made you feel, and suggest a next step toward resolution.

• Use dry erase boards with fill-in-the-blank templates for practice.

• Post I statement language on classroom walls and in common areas so students have visible reminders.

Role play and scenario practice

• Break students into small groups and use scenario cards to role play common friendship conflicts.

• Incorporate charades, fishbowl exercises, or paired practice to make skills stick.

Small group ideas

• Run a conflict resolution group using discussion dice or conversation cards to guide reflection.

• Include hands-on activities or crafts that reinforce communication skills and empathy.

• Consider curricula like Kelso's Choices to teach problem-solving options for peer conflicts.

When students are referred after a conflict

• Start by identifying the source of the conflict. Ask why this keeps happening and what the underlying triggers are.

• Take time to get a full picture before deciding on a plan so you do not cycle through the same issues repeatedly.

• Use data from observations, teacher input, and student self-report to refine your intervention.

Action steps you can take today

1. Teach and practice one I statement template with a class.

2. Try a short talk it out circle during your next classroom visit.

3. Create or print an I statement poster to display in classrooms and common areas.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join IMPACT

• Conflict Resolution Small Group: Pirates to Peacekeepers

• Bullying Prevention Classroom Guidance Lesson

• Bringing Restorative Practices to Your School By Laura McClure

• Check out the Kelso music video on YouTube: It's Your Choice Baby

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More About School Counseling Simplified:

School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.

You can listen to School Counseling Simplified on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!

Welcome back to another episode of School Counseling Simplified! Since October is Bullying Prevention Month, I will be highlighting some of our best podcast episodes all about bullying prevention strategies. Today, we are diving into practical ways to create a culture of kindness in schools.

Promoting kindness is one of the most effective ways to reduce bullying. In this episode, I share strategies that teachers and counselors can use to set a positive tone, build empathy, and encourage collaboration.

1. Morning meetings are a simple yet powerful practice that helps students begin their day with intention. Counselors can shadow teachers and suggest SEL activities, such as discussion cards, to promote empathy and connection.

2. Restorative practices, including proactive circles that create safe spaces where every student feels heard and valued. These circles allow students to practice active listening, handle strong emotions, and respect differences. Resolution circles and talk-it-out circles provide opportunities for repair and forgiveness with counselor support.

3. School-wide kindness cards can be passed out to students to recognize and encourage positive behaviors, building a stronger culture of kindness across the campus.

By focusing on these strategies, we can create school environments where kindness thrives and bullying is less likely to take root.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join IMPACT

• BULLYING PREVENTION Editable Guidance Lesson

• Morning Meeting Discussion Cards

• Feelings Check

• Bullying Prevention School Wide Activities - Fall and Halloween Activities

• Bullying Prevention Classroom Guidance Lesson for Elementary School Counseling

• Ep. 61. Non-Boring Bullying Prevention Month Ideas

• Ep. 112 Creating a Culture of Kindness

• Bringing Restorative Practices to Your School By Laura McClure

• TpT Store

• Blog

• Instagram

• Facebook Page

• Facebook Group

• Pinterest

• Youtube

More About School Counseling Simplified:

School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.

You can listen to School Counseling Simplified on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!

Welcome back to another episode of School Counseling Simplified! Throughout September, we have been diving deep into classroom lessons. I love using them as tier 1 interventions, and so far we have talked about how to plan, schedule, teach, and manage behaviors during lessons. Today, we are shifting the focus to data and exploring how to measure the success of your classroom counseling lessons.

Often, counselors rely on self-assessments or individual assessments during small group or one-on-one sessions, which is a fantastic approach. But did you know you can also track data in your classroom lessons without feeling overwhelmed? In this episode, I am sharing two simple and practical ways to measure effectiveness.

• Collecting new data

  • This includes surveying parents and teachers throughout the year to gather feedback on the effectiveness of your lessons.

  • By asking questions such as which topics have been most helpful or what improvements they have noticed, you can continue to modify and strengthen your lessons.

  • Surveys can be kept short and simple with just a few questions to ensure people complete them.

  • You can also share results in newsletters or with your administration to advocate for your role.

• Instant student feedback

  • A brief half-sheet with three simple questions at the end of a lesson can provide valuable insights into what students are learning and how they are engaging with the material.

• How to use this data

• The purpose of gathering information is not just to collect it but to use it to improve future lessons and demonstrate the impact of your program. All data is good data because it allows you to revise, reflect, and show the power of school counseling.

Your action step for this week is to create a parent feedback survey and send it out. This simple tool can make a big difference in helping you measure effectiveness and advocate for your work.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join IMPACT

• stressfreeschoolcounseling.com/classlessons

• TpT Store

• Blog

• Instagram

• Facebook Page

• Facebook Group

• Pinterest

• Youtube

More About School Counseling Simplified:

School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.

You can listen to School Counseling Simplified on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!

Welcome back to another episode of School Counseling Simplified! Throughout September, we are diving deep into classroom lessons. I love using them as my tier 1 interventions. While many times we are handed lessons to deliver, there are plenty of situations where you have to create everything on your own. That is why I am sharing how to schedule, plan, and teach classroom lessons. These insights come from my Stress-Free Class Lessons Course, a five-module program that equips you with tools and strategies to feel prepared and confident.

In today's episode, we are focusing on behavior management during counseling lessons. When I first started, this was one of my biggest struggles. I often had lessons I was excited to teach, but behavior challenges quickly left me feeling overwhelmed. Over time, I discovered that consistency is the key to creating a well-managed classroom. When you are consistent, you build trust with your students. They know what to expect and that you will follow through.

Here are a few strategies we will cover in this episode:

• At the beginning of lessons: Review expectations or rules. You can display them on Google Slides or on an anchor chart. Model each expectation with your students, either as a group or with selected volunteers.

• When students don't follow expectations: Take a pause rather than pushing through. Stop the lesson, revisit the expectation, and reset. Sometimes you need to go slow in order to go fast.

• Reinforcing positive behavior: Use behavior-specific praise. Instead of offering tangible rewards, tell students exactly what they are doing right and why it matters.

The key is to create expectations that can be applied across every classroom you visit and to consistently reinforce them. Behavior management does not have to feel overwhelming when you have clear, practical strategies in place.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join IMPACT

• stressfreeschoolcounseling.com/classlessons

• TpT Store

• Blog

• Instagram

• Facebook Page

• Facebook Group

• Pinterest

• Youtube

More About School Counseling Simplified:

School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.

You can listen to School Counseling Simplified on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!

Welcome back to another episode of School Counseling Simplified! Throughout September, we are diving deep into classroom lessons. I love using them as my tier 1 interventions. While many times we are given lessons to teach, there are also plenty of situations where you are expected to create everything on your own. That is why I am sharing strategies on how to schedule, plan, and teach classroom lessons. These ideas come from my Stress-Free Class Lessons Course, a five-module program designed to help you feel confident and prepared.

In today's episode, we are focusing on the teaching piece and specifically on strategies to keep counseling lessons engaging and fun. The more engaged students are, the less likely they are to act out, which makes your time in the classroom much more effective.

You will learn how to add movement and interactive activities into your lessons, including:

• Icebreakers: Sides of the room, Simon Says, Stand up/Sit down

• Activities: Role play, charades, escape rooms, scoot games

• Discussions: Beach ball toss, jumbo discussion die

These simple strategies can transform the energy in your classroom and keep students focused while learning.

Here are three action steps you can take right away:

1. Find an engaging icebreaker for each topic you plan to teach.

2. Decide which engagement activity strategy you want to try.

3. Create a discussion beach ball to spark interactive conversations.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join IMPACT

• stressfreeschoolcounseling.com/classlessons

• TpT Store

• Blog

• Instagram

• Facebook Page

• Facebook Group

• Pinterest

• Youtube

More About School Counseling Simplified:

School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.

You can listen to School Counseling Simplified on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!

Welcome back to another episode of School Counseling Simplified! All throughout September, we're diving into classroom lessons, one of my favorite tier 1 interventions. While some schools provide ready-made lessons, there are many times you'll need to design and plan them yourself. That's why I'm excited to share tips on how to schedule, plan, and teach effective lessons. These strategies come straight from my Stress-Free Class Lessons Course, a five-module resource designed to help you feel confident and prepared.

In today's episode, we're continuing the conversation by focusing on planning your counseling lessons—deciding what to teach and how to teach it. This is a sneak peek into Module 2 of my course.

Here's what you'll learn:

• Planning lessons for the year: how to select topics, incorporate seasonal and school-wide themes, and repurpose content across grade levels.

• Using the calendar: align lessons with holidays, seasons, or events (for example, starting the year with a "Meet the Counselor" lesson, or teaching about kindness and friendship around Valentine's Day).

• Referencing data and needs: review referrals, attendance data, and input from administrators to identify student challenges and plan preventative lessons.

• Combining curriculum resources: integrate any curriculum your school provides with your own lessons to fill in gaps.

• Book-based lessons: choose books with strong themes and build lessons around them, while ensuring teachers have access to reinforce concepts.

We'll also talk about offering "as-needed" lessons when extra support is required, such as teaching a cybersafety lesson to a class that needed immediate guidance beyond their regular schedule.

And here's a planning tip: Don't reinvent the wheel. You can easily adapt lessons to make them developmentally appropriate across different grade levels.

Your action steps:

• Write down monthly events you'd like to align lessons with

• Review discipline referrals and student data

• Prepare your needs assessment

• Find out if your school provides a curriculum

• Research books you might want to use in future lessons

Resources Mentioned:

• Join IMPACT

• stressfreeschoolcounseling.com/classlessons

• TpT Store

• Blog

• Instagram

• Facebook Page

• Facebook Group

• Pinterest

• Youtube

More About School Counseling Simplified:

School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.

You can listen to School Counseling Simplified on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!

Welcome back to another episode of School Counseling Simplified! Throughout September, we're diving deep into classroom lessons, one of my favorite Tier 1 interventions. Sometimes we're given lesson plans, but other times we're left to create everything from scratch. That's why this month I'm sharing practical strategies for scheduling, planning, and teaching lessons with confidence. These tips are pulled directly from my Stress-Free Classroom Lessons course, a five-module training designed to help you feel prepared and supported when delivering class lessons.

In this episode, I'll walk you through three game-changing scheduling tools that make the process seamless and manageable:

1. Google Sheets

• Create a simple form that lists your available times.

• Share it with teachers so they can sign up directly, avoiding endless back-and-forth emails.

• Teachers take ownership of choosing times, while you stay in control of your availability.

• Set it up at the beginning of the year so teachers can reserve their slots for months ahead.

2. Calendly

• Use this free, user-friendly website for scheduling.

• Teachers can easily reserve lesson times for the entire school year.

• Add important details like location, duration, and virtual links.

• Customize hours, set time limits, and color-code events to keep everything organized.

3. Google Calendar

• Pair with Google Sheets or Calendly for maximum efficiency.

• Create recurring calendar invites that include lesson details, virtual links, and reminders.

• Invite teachers directly so lessons appear on their calendars.

• Color-code lessons, groups, and individual sessions for quick organization at a glance.

• While it takes time to set up initially, the payoff is a smooth, structured year.

Pro Scheduling Tip: Be practical and remember that you're in control. For instance, if Mondays are difficult due to travel or frequent holidays, avoid scheduling lessons on that day.

I personally recommend having teachers sign up for the entire year in advance. This approach allows you to balance your time across class lessons, small groups, and individual sessions. At the same time, remain flexible, because your schedule will naturally shift to accommodate your needs and the evolving needs of teachers throughout the school year.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join IMPACT

• stressfreeschoolcounseling.com/classlessons

• TpT Store

• Blog

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• Facebook Page

• Facebook Group

• Pinterest

• Youtube

More About School Counseling Simplified:

School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.

You can listen to School Counseling Simplified on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!

Welcome back to another episode of School Counseling Simplified! I hope your school year is off to a wonderful start. Today I'm excited to bring you a very special guest, Joyce Harduvel.

Joyce is a passionate advocate for youth and the school counselors and social workers that support them. She worked in Chicago Public Schools for seven years where she specialized in evidence-based and trauma-informed behavior intervention for students with chronic challenging behaviors. Joyce is an advocate for proactive professional self care that allows school-based professionals to build that sustainable careers of their dreams so that they can do what is really important: support their students! She now works with school counselors and social workers as a coach and clinical supervisor while pursuing a law degree to further her skills in championing youth.

In this episode, Joyce shares her expertise on how to create positive change for students by using data. She breaks down practical steps you can take to make data meaningful and actionable in your counseling practice.

Here's what you'll learn in this episode:

• Avoid going in with predetermined views.

• Begin with a holistic assessment that provides a well-rounded perspective of where a student is at.

• Gather information from multiple sources: families, teachers, and the students themselves.

• Use observations, records, and assessments to inform your starting point.

• Identify a lagging social-emotional skill and create a targeted goal.

• Explore resources like CASEL, which breaks SEL skills into five domains and offers free research and tools.

• Start small—choose one specific area to focus on.

• Establish a baseline using student records (assignments, attendance, GPA, behavior data).

• Incorporate tracking methods such as antecedent-behavior forms, duration or interval data, mood tracking, or SEL pre/post tests.

• Refine your goal to ensure it is SMART (specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, time-bound).

• Break goals into smaller benchmarks for clarity and progress monitoring.

• Collect ongoing data through screeners, classroom input, or case notes.

• Remember—the point of collecting data is to actually use it.

• If progress isn't happening, adjust your goals and strategies.

• Use data to guide your interventions, advocate for student needs, and identify trends that may inform Tier 1 or Tier 2 supports.

• Most importantly, use data to celebrate student growth and successes along the way.

This episode is packed with practical strategies to help you see data not as a burden, but as a powerful tool to create meaningful, positive change for your students.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join IMPACT

• CASEL

• Woodcock-Johnson Testing

• TpT Store

• Blog

• Instagram

• Facebook Page

• Facebook Group

• Pinterest

• Youtube

Connect with Joyce:

• www.joyce-lcsw.com

• Instagram

More About School Counseling Simplified:

School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.

You can listen to School Counseling Simplified on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!