Have you been feeling stuck lately? Stuck in a relationship that no longer serves you? A job that no longer fulfills you? Fear of failure can be paralyzing and can even evolve into a way we avoid doing things.

Throughout this episode, Nicole presents four simple ways to conquer this fear, encouraging us to redefine failure, acknowledge its teaching potential, and even consciously fail in small ways to build resilience. Tune into this episode to start overcoming failure TODAY by applying these four tangible tips to your daily life. 

The TOP learnings in this episode: 

• Things that your fear of failure may be blocking you from and why it’s important for us to release those blocks 
• A new way to look at failure 
• 4 tangible ways that you can immediately apply to your daily life to overcome your fear of failure 

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Do you feel like you are flatlining at work? Do you ever find yourself spinning out or second-guessing yourself in a way that blocks your growth at work?

If so, you ABSOLUTELY need to listen to this episode filled with insight for any high-achiever who is getting in her own way.

In part 2 of Nicole’s conversation with Kristi Coulter, Kristi gets candid about the highs and lows of her big career shift from corporate America to professional author. When looking back at her decade-plus at Amazon, Kristi drops valuable insight and advice for anyone who may be underselling themselves and dealing with impostor syndrome.

The TOP learnings in this episode: 

• A surprising thing she learned about being an introvert (5:06)
• A game-changing suggestion Kristi has for any burgeoning authors interested in memoir writing (9:01)
• Kristi’s advice for professional women in the thick of it who may be underselling themselves, including a secret power you may not know you already have (16:06)
• A new way to look at impostor syndrome and why you shouldn’t have to “get over it” (21:31)

Kristi Coulter is the author of EXIT INTERVIEW: THE LIFE & DEATH OF MY AMBITIOUS CAREER and the memoir-in-essays NOTHING GOOD CAN COME FROM THIS, a finalist for the Washington State Book Award. Her work has also appeared in New York Magazine, The Paris Review, Glamour, Elle, and elsewhere. She lives in Seattle and Los Angeles and teaches writing at Hugo House.

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Have you ever struggled with feeling like an imposter at work and that no matter how many hours you put in, you don’t ever feel successful?

If so, this episode is for you!

Today, Nicole talks to author Kristi Coulter about her new book, EXIT INTERVIEW: The Life and Death of My Ambitious Career, a memoir about her decade-long journey of lessons and challenges at Amazon. Kristi talks frankly about the brutal culture at this male-dominated company, and the tiny steps she took over many years to regain her self-worth and authenticity during her tenure.

Tune in to learn more about how Kristi stopped suppressing her authentic self at work, the power of accepting failure with grace, and the transformative moments that led to her exit from Amazon.

The TOP Learnings in this episode: 

• The moment Kristi decided to stop suppressing her authentic self and the impact it had on her job and her sobriety (3:36) 
• The transformative moment when Kristi accepted that it was OK to fail (10:00)
• The surprising tip an Amazon VP gave to Kristi about her career (13:26)
• Lessons learned from working as a perfectionist in an intense work environment (16:00)
• A powerful shift in her mindset of playing to her strengths vs. working on her weaknesses (19:20)
• The issue with companies that run on meritocracy, and how it ties into gender equality (30:40) 

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Kristi Coulter is the author of EXIT INTERVIEW: THE LIFE & DEATH OF MY AMBITIOUS CAREER (out September 12th)  and the memoir-in-essays NOTHING GOOD CAN COME FROM THIS, a finalist for the Washington State Book Award. Her work has also appeared in New York Magazine, The Paris Review, Glamour, Elle, and elsewhere. She lives in Seattle and Los Angeles and teaches writing at Hugo House.

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Have you been on a fertility journey and felt like you were all alone?

Today, Nicole talks with Sophie Byfield, a fertility expert and doula, who shares her own vulnerable, 4-year journey to get pregnant. After spending two years at a fertility clinic without knowing how to advocate for herself, Sophie made it her life mission to help women avoid that same experience.

Join Nicole and Sophie as they dive into the surprisingly lonely world of fertility, the impact of stress on reproductive health, the role of healing in conceiving, and the importance of advocating for yourself in order to get the most out of your fertility appointments and treatments. 

So, if you're on a fertility journey or simply interested in learning more about this often-hidden topic, this episode is for you. Listen now to unlock the secrets of infertility, debunk myths, and reclaim agency over our bodies!

TOP learnings in this episode: 

• Possible long-term effects of birth control and the surprising complication it could be masking in your body (7:34)
• How to advocate for yourself by knowing the right questions to ask in order to make informed decisions (9:30) 
• The secret world of secondary infertility that no one is talking about (12:11) 
• The importance of healing to conceive (17:46)
• Why going back to the basics by listening to your body could benefit you (19:20)
• A key test that your fertility doctor/clinic may not be considering but should be (21:33)
• How to stay positive and hopeful during your fertility journey (32:22)
• Sophie’s top 2 tips for couples on their fertility journey (35:15)

Sophie Byfield is a Fertility Expert and Doula who believes in the power of creating the healthiest version of yourself so that you can finally see those two pink lines. With over 20 years of experience as a nutritionist, personal trainer and yoga instructor, Sophie discovered the secret world of infertility when she finally decided she was ready to be a mom. For the last five years, Sophie has observed the five areas of health that impact your fertility and a woman’s ability to conceive. If we take those areas and heal them ONE at a time, we can create miracles beyond our wildest dreams. Her mission is to help as many women as possible bring babies into the world, so they finally become the mama their heart is longing for them to be.

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Have you been waiting for this ever since you heard the truth bombs in Part 1? Well, get ready! Part 2 on the REAL reason why dating might not be working for you is HERE!

In this episode, Nicole gets extra personal with her dating coach, Andi Forness, sharing how she used the game-changing support from Andi when she started dating her husband. Tune in to hear the exact pattern Andi helped Nicole break that made ALL the difference in creating a committed relationship.

Tune into this extra-special episode about what emotional availability looks like in action when dating someone new, and the amazing results Nicole got afterward.

Have you found yourself dating emotionally unavailable partners or spiraling out from overthinking? Andi has some tips to help you break that cycle.

The TOP learnings in this episode: 

• How stating your preferences will help you attract an emotionally available partner (3:45) 
• A game-changing tip to stop overthinking when you find yourself spiraling out (12:31)
• Andi’s BIG tip for Nicole that made it into Nicole and Michael’s wedding vows, and has continued to be a foundational part of their marriage  (16:16)
• The secret to attracting an emotionally available partner (20:40) 
• How you can heal and interrupt old patterns once you enter into a relationship (24:53)

Andi Forness has helped dozens of women find love again. As a dating coach, she guides her clients to create Authentic Attraction to find and keep love online dating or anywhere! Most of her clients come to her ready to throw in the towel after years of disappointing results. Andi's practical tips can be found on Fox News, Forbes. Men's Health, Austin Woman, and many other publications.

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Want to know the REAL reason why dating might not be working for you?

In the first part of this 2-part series, Nicole gets personal with her dating coach, Andi Forness. You do not want to miss this conversation about why dating wasn’t working for Nicole, and how, with Andi’s help, she turned it around. You absolutely do not want to miss Andi’s approach to dating!

Listen now to swipe right on self-worth!

But wait, that’s not all! You don’t want to miss out on next week’s episode when Nicole and Andi flashback to Nicole’s experience dating post-divorce and how Nicole applied Andi’s incredible advice in real life to meet her husband. Hit subscribe to listen as soon as it’s live!

The TOP learnings in this episode: 

• The biggest pushback about dating that Andi usually gets from clients (10:00)
• How dating can be a form of personal development for growth and healing (13:38) 
• Reframing the way you look at dating in order to make it easier and more enjoyable (17:57)
• Why Andi recommends the Bumble app to women, especially if they are new to dating (19:36)
• The importance of getting to know your own preferences (20:15) 

Andi Forness Dating Coach has helped dozens of women find love again. She guides her clients to create Authentic Attraction to find and keep love online dating or anywhere! Most of her clients come to her ready to throw in the towel after years of disappointing results. Andi's practical tips can be found on Fox News, Forbes. Men's Health, Austin Woman, and many other publications.

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In this solo episode, Nicole gets personal! She digs into the roller coaster of healing after divorce, and confronting what she had to overcome in order to date again.

In this episode, she shares the TOP learnings she had along the way, including the things she will NEVER compromise on again in relationships.

If you are going through a divorce, separation, or heartbreak, or are dating, this episode is for you. A change in relationship status might feel like the hardest thing you’ve ever experienced, and it’s also possible for it to be the catalyst for true growth.

So grab your headphones and get ready for an episode filled with personal stories and expansion.

And HEADS UP! Nicole is hosting her dating coach, Andi Forness, on the podcast next week, where they talk about what it looks like to put it ALL into practice. Hit subscribe so you don’t miss out!

The TOP learnings in this episode: 

• The importance of recognizing past patterns in dating and relationships (4:30)
• What is emotional availability and the significance it plays in relationships (5:48) 
• The magical power of knowing and expressing your preferences (12:28) 
• What it can look like to give away your power (16:26)

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In this episode, Kelly Lyons shares with Nicole her powerful story of overcoming her struggles with diet obsession and binge eating.

It all started in high school when she embarked on her first diet. However, instead of finding success, she became increasingly food obsessed and out of control around food.

This pattern continued for over 12 years of her life, with Kelly constantly cycling between diets, feeling guilty, and then binging on food before starting again the next day. 

Everything changed when Kelly decided to stop dieting and heal her relationship with food. 

We delve into the troubling emotions that can drive disordered eating, the importance of self-compassion, and the transformative effects of practicing awareness during stressful moments that can be triggering. 

Have you found yourself reaching for food for comfort during a particularly stressful day? Get ready to gain a new perspective on self-worth and food freedom that will inspire and empower you. 

Kelly Lyons is a holistic health coach that has helped thousands of women stop binge eating, overeating & finally live a life being normal around food! Kelly spent over 12 years of her life struggling with disordered eating habits, food obsession, and binge eating, and once she healed, she was able to make her mess her message and began to help others. 

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The TOP learnings in this episode: 

• Kelly’s tumultuous journey with diet culture and how she ultimately learned to listen to her body and lead a life not controlled by food 
• 3 main issues that can drive binge eating
• The BIG difference between binge eating vs overeating
• How Kelly learned to define her self-worth beyond the size of her clothes 
• The importance of fixing your inner dialogue and negative self-talk 
• The surprising misconception about willpower and its impact on disordered eating and our everyday lives 
• The importance of having awareness of our thought patterns
• Ways to cope with chaos as a parent and a recovered binge-eater 
• The first step to breaking unhealthy coping patterns 

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Dina was raised in a hyper-achieving culture that proved to be a sneaky saboteur her entire life. It wasn’t until she suddenly lost her best friend to a brain tumor that she realized she needed to start prioritizing herself and her mental health. Her heartbreaking loss kicked off a deep awakening of self-esteem and worthiness that led to a big focus on inner work to live a purposeful life.

Pivoting careers while working to overcome childhood trauma as well as an isolated pregnancy during the pandemic, Dina found a new purpose in life to help others live their life meaningfully and colorfully. Tune into this episode to learn how Dina broke free from her childhood conditioning of being a hyper-achiever and leaned into self-love and her inner divinity.

Are you ready to release your inner critic to step into a life filled with self-love and acceptance? Then this episode is for you.

Dina Lobo is a global transformational coach, certified trauma specialist, and CEO of Transformational Spark Coaching. With a passion for prioritizing mental and emotional wellness in the workplace, Dina has revolutionized work environments for individuals and businesses alike. She has appeared as an expert on top media outlets such as NBC, FOX, CBS, and The List, and has shared her insights on leadership, unlocking fears, confidence, and healing through challenges on stages and virtual summits alongside renowned personalities.

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The TOP learnings in this episode: 

• How being raised as a hyper-achiever affected her self-worth (2:50) 
• The magic of manifesting before she knew what manifestation was (5:11) 
• What helped her break free from that childhood conditioning of being a hyper-achiever and ditching unhealthy coping mechanisms (9:51)
• How the loss of her best friends led to the deep awakening of her self-esteem and worthiness(13:16)
• A powerful tip for finding self-love through difficult life experiences (23:52)

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Overnight, Ebony Isis Booth became the guardian for her niece and nephew, giving up her artistic, free-spirited lifestyle.

It forced her to look within to break inherited cycles, and required her to go through a deep evolution from constant achieving to forgiveness and softness.

Tune in to this magical conversation to hear more about what it means for Ebony to be in her Soft Girl Era–filled with courage, compassion, allowance, and self-acceptance. 

If your inner-critic has been especially loud and vocal recently, this episode is for you. 

Ebony Isis Booth is a visionary, guide, caregiver, healer and storyteller dedicated to liberation, healing, equity, justice and joy. Ebony coaches cycle breaking baddies in new and emerging leadership positions to tap into the magic inside and thrive. She charts constellations of dope humans, curates cultural engagements, carries light in dark places, and loves her people because Black Girl Magic is praxis.  

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The TOP learnings in this episode: 

• How to break cycles that keep pulling you back in (6:26)
• The steps required to fill your life with courage, compassion, allowance, and self-acceptance (10:14)
• How self-worth is the foundation of a soft-girl era (13:56)
• What it means to be the thermostat and not the thermometer (16:15)
• The importance of self-care and discerning the ramifications of an unmet need (19:14)
• What does practicing life alchemy look like? (21:48)
• Self-care is not selfish, it is a requirement  (25:49) 
• A positive way to look at procrastination (38:15) 
• How to deal with your inner-dialogue (42:40)
• An unexpected tip you may not have ever heard for clearing and calming your mind (44:17) 

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