This is a very special episode for me not just as a Veteran, Ranger brother, friend but as someone who has suffered tremendously from depression, PTSD, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts but also planning out those acts.
I asked Lora Irving and Edward Goff to sit down with me and talk about their son and brother Aaron Goff.
Aaron and I served together in 1st Ranger Battalion and I had the honor and privilege to serve right alongside him as his junior Fire Team Leader.
Aaron was a very outgoing individual and was always in a good uplifting mood. It was very hard to get him to angry but if you did you definitely did something wrong. He always saw the bright side of things but was serious when the time called for it.
I decided to ask his family to sit down with me and speak about Aaron and talk about the type of person he was growing up, what led to him joining the Army.
I really wanted to focus on the changes that were happening at all major stages of his career from the beginning and the toll the Army and the combat deployments were having on his mental health. It is never easy to notice these signs and actually realize that a loved one is really suffering as bad as they are inside.
Please always listen to your loved ones and actually hear what they are saying and let them know that they are loved and that everything will be ok. We can't force anyone to seek help or make them talk to someone and actually at times that might make things worse.
So what do you do?
That is why we have these conversations to hear what others would do have done or wished they would have done. it's never a cut and clear answer but together we can defiantly bring these questions to the forefront and help those that are suffering and give others ways to intervene to save their loved ones.
If you are suffering and have no one to speak to please DM me on all my Social media that I will leave below.
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