If life is changed because everything is planned for, it will go the window; anything could happen if anything can happen that's right ended up in.
I tried an accurate project management method of saying, okay, this will happen, and this will happen, and this will happen, it's going to happen, it's going to happen.
That plan is going to be thrown out the window you have to change all the time, okay, so I can understand that some people you know may have problems with that, and they'd love to be able to plan things down to the nth degree, but again life is change, and things change over time, so your plans going to work.
We can say okay, the earthquakes that occurred on 11/23/2020 we have no idea when the next week's going to happen it could never happen or may happen tomorrow.
In that's why saying that though life is kind of like a combination of those two things, on the one hand, yes you should plan a little bit there should be some planning. Still, it doesn't have to be super detailed high-level planning which says you have to do this on this day if I do this on this day you have to do this on this day of did this on the state because as I said earlier, life is change.
But you also need to be prepared if something bad were to go wrong 40 pounds back from it how to be resilient when these things happen because something is going to hit you whether you live on the east coast to the west coast some black swan it's going to come in and turn your life because that is the way life is it is changing. All you have to do to be prepared for the change is to be prepared to bounce back, so you have to look at both planning and resilience as two sides of the same coin.