Genesis 21: 8 - 17
Isaac grew and stopped nursing. On the day he stopped nursing, Abraham prepared a huge banquet.
Sarah saw Hagar’s son laughing, the one Hagar the Egyptian had borne to Abraham.
So she said to Abraham, “Send this servant away with her son! This servant’s son won’t share the inheritance with my son Isaac.”
This upset Abraham terribly because the boy was his son.
God said to Abraham, “Don’t be upset about the boy and your servant. Do everything Sarah tells you to do because your descendants will be traced through Isaac. But I will make of your servant’s son a great nation too, because he is also your descendant.”
Abraham got up early in the morning, took some bread and a flask of water, and gave it to Hagar. He put the boy in her shoulder sling and sent her away.
She left and wandered through the desert near Beer-sheba. Finally the water in the flask ran out, and she put the boy down under one of the desert shrubs.
She walked away from him about as far as a bow shot and sat down, telling herself, I can’t bear to see the boy die. She sat at a distance, cried out in grief, and wept.
God heard the boy’s cries, and God’s messenger called to Hagar from heaven and said to her, “Hagar! What’s wrong? Don’t be afraid. God has heard the boy’s cries over there.
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I am bemused, not amused, bemused whenever I hear people, pastors, teachers, and sometimes national religious leaders refer to another religion as a religion of hate. They will say that the religion has a bent toward violence.
Often when they say this, they point to the actions of some adherents to that religion and the violence they do. They say this while ignoring the vast number of the religion’s practitioners who are simply trying to live out their faith. A reality that is true for Christians as well, even though there have been a plethora of violent groups that have grown out of Christian culture, who have perverted biblical teachings and have exchanged love for hate.
The other thing that people point to as evidence that the religion of which they speak is plagued by hate and violence is the religion’s holy book. They will say all you have to do is look at the words of their book and you can see the espousal of violence everywhere. I cock my head like a dog hearing a strange noise when I hear this and I think to myself, have you never read the Bible? Have you not read the “kill every man, woman, child, dog and cow” passages in the scripture? Have you not read the prescriptions to kill people if they break the rules? Have you not seen the violence and the cruelty done in our holy book?
But actually, I don’t think that the problem is that people haven’t read the Bible. I think, rather, that we have not been invited to read the Bible in the raw. Instead, we are invited to read the Bible and sanitize it and to interpret it in such a way that we dismiss the blood and gore.
It begins when we are young and we are taught the great stories found in the scripture. Of course the blood and gore are left out as they are stories being told to children, and the focus is on faith and heroics and God‘s goodness.
And then as we become adults, we read all of the story- blood, guts, and mayhem, but we are not really invited to grapple with it. Instead we are often given explanations which would make no sense in other any other discussion except one about religion, and after dismissing the troubling parts, we are instructed to focus on faithfulness and endurance and heroics and the work of God.
I want to give us permission to read the Bible in the raw. Because that’s the way it is written. And those original storytellers had a reason for not sanitizing the stories when they were first presented. They wanted us to grapple with the nitty gritty.
Let’s talk about our friends Abraham and Sarah. Abraham is considered the father of many nations, and the New Testament book of Hebrews lists Sarah and Abraham among the giants of faith.
But when you read their story in the raw, there are some incredibly disturbing things that the storytellers didn’t choose to leave out, so neither should we. When we read the scripture in the raw, it may cause us to say “yikes,” but that’s OK.
Abraham and Sarah lived in Haran, when God showed up and told them that they needed to move south and promised Abraham that he would become the father of many nations. Abraham and Sarah, by faith, responded to God by packing up and moving south.
They traveled 400 miles from Haran and settled in the Negev, in what is now southern Israel. Since Abraham believed he was to be the father of many nations, he and Sarah tried to conceive but were unable.
While they were in the Negev, famine visited the land.
Abraham and Sarah were forced to head further south to Egypt to find food.
As they came to Egypt, Abraham feared that one of the leaders in Egypt might decide that they wanted Sarah. He feared that they might kill him, so that they could take Sarah to be their own.
So, Abraham came up with an idea. Abraham said to Sarah, “When we get to Egypt, tell everybody there that you’re my sister. That way if they find you desirable they will just take you, but not kill me.” Hear Abraham’s plan again- he is willing to trade his wife, in order that he might stay unharmed. Yikes
And sure enough that’s what happened. Sarah was approached by the king. She told him that she was Abraham’s sister, and the king took her as a part of his harem. He fully intended to have sex with her, but God intervened and all sorts of terrible things began to happen to the king. And so he asked Sarah if she knew why he was suddenly cursed. Sarah admitted that Abraham was her husband and that God was protecting her.
The king turned Sarah back over to Abraham in a heartbeat and to help cool the wrath of God gave them a bunch of stuff including, according to Islamic literature, his own daughter Hagar as a slave. Yikes!
Abraham, Sarah, Hagar and the stash that they got from the king of Egypt returned to Canaan. Sarah and Abraham continued to fail in their plan to have children.
Sarah was so desperate that she made what had to be ridiculously hard decision. She decided to give her slave Hagar to Abraham so that Abraham might produce children through her. Yikes!
Again I’m sure this was a hard decision for Sarah, but nothing compared to what happened to Hager, who because she was a slave, was forced to have sex with Abraham. In modern culture, we would call that rape. Yikes!
Hagar becomes pregnant and she gave birth to a son whom she named Ishmael. Ishmael grew up with Hagar as his mom and Abraham as his dad and Sarah became increasing jealous of the whole thing.
It’s not clear- one the one hand it appears that Ismael is barely older than Issac, on the other, it appears about 14 years pass between Ishmael’s birth and the divine visit to Abraham where Abraham and Sarah were informed that Sarah would indeed become pregnant and have a child.
And that’s what happened. Sarah gave birth to Isaac. When Isaac was about three they had a ceremony to celebrate his movement from baby to child, with a weaning party. During it, Sarah watched in dismay as Ishmael played and teased and acted like an older brother to Isaac.
Sarah exploded in jealousy and long held hatred came to the surface as She demanded Abraham to get rid of Hagar and that boy. Yikes!
This was hard for Abraham because he loved Ishmael and cared for Hager. But Sarah demanded it, and it appears from the scripture that God okayed it, and so Abraham sent Ishmael and Hagar into the desert with bread and water. Yikes!
Here God took over and took care of Hagar and Ishmael and Ishmael would grow to be the father of many nations as well.
In Islamic literature, when Sarah tells Abraham to get rid of Hagar and Ishmael, Abraham joins them on a journey that takes them to present day Mecca.
Here Abraham and Ishmael built the kaabah, the sacred shrine to which all adherents of Islam face as they pray every day.
And then Abraham left Hagar and Ishmael in the desert with some dates and water, and returned to Palestine. Yikes!
In both the Bible and in Islam, God shows up, protects Hagar and Issac, and guides them to safety.
So, as we read this story in sanitized fashion, we focus on Abraham the old guy and his wife Sarah who had a not improbable, but impossible, baby. We understand this as part of the fulfilling of God‘s promise to Abraham.
But a deeper, more raw, dive into the story as it is presented is much more intriguing and terrible, with drama, deception, cowardice, rape, jealousy, and abandonment all rolled into one massive messy story.
Personally I like the story in the raw, because it makes me grapple with things, to deal with issues of humanity and divinity.
The lesson of God’s fulfilling promise should not be missed. The lesson that God was faithful to Abraham and Sarah should not be discounted. But neither should the struggle of Hagar and the pain of abandoning a child in the desert be passed over.
Along with all these other lessons, is the lesson that God is willing to use frail, incomplete, not nearly close to perfect human beings, people who, on the surface are completely unworthy to represent God‘s goodness, who do truly reprehensible things, to be heroes in the faith.
I find this comforting because I know my degree of failure, I know that I come up short all the time, and still want to believe that God can use me. And so I find these stories of incredibly flawed characters who are used by God to be quite therapeutic.
These stories remind us that God is bigger than our mess.
I am reminded of the chorus of the great old invitation hymn,
“Grace, grace, God’s grace,
Grace that is greater than all our sin!”
Amen and amen.