Seeing Your Inner Brilliance

"Unless you claim the extraordinary you're drawn to, the ordinary will wind up claiming you."

Did you know that we have to claim our dreams and our desires before we can achieve them? This isn't woo woo; this is psychology. And that takes a deep inner confidence and conviction. So I'm here to encourage you to start claiming what you want for yourself. Stop settling for the familiar and start reaching for your extraordinary.

On this episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance, you will learn: 

1.  What you are really claiming in your life. Newsflash: it may be different than you think!
2. How we can supercharge our affirmations with inherent power so that they can ignite us to claim what we want and ultimately step into our desires
3. What is looks like to claim your desires and feel worthy of having them

Tired of hearing the voice of saying doubt, "there isn't a bag like that with your name on it. You aren't worthy of the success and dreams you desire...?" This may be a sign to tag me in as your lifeline to walk beside you and support you on your journey to becoming unstoppable!

DM me on Instagram to trade that sneaky, slimy voice for one where one that champions who you really are!

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Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires

The Journey to Your Dreams: Why the journey is more important than the destination

From Pressure to Power: How to Thrive as an Ambitious Woman

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104

My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.

Support the show

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at [email protected]. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Talk soon,

Charlsey

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram: @charlseychilders

YouTube: @charlseychilders

Website: www.charlseychilders.com

Did something in particular resonate with you? Would love to hear it! Just leave a review right here and I'll be sure to get back to you.

Talk soon,

Charlsey

Do you have a tendency to get mad at yourself for not meeting your own expectations, wonder what you did wrong when things turn out differently than you expected, or punish yourself for unexpectedly missing the mark?

If so, all of these are signs that you could be blaming yourself? Now, before you blame yourself for blaming yourself, you may be surprised to know that you aren't the only one. In fact, it's one of lies that commonly holds ambitious women back.

On this episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance, I share how you can live a more empowered life by living one of design rather than by default. I also share the two ingredients to stop blaming yourself and start living the unstoppable life you dream of... which, spoiler alert, living by design is what allows you to live the life you envision for yourself and feel worthy of it.

For the fast action takers who are ready to stop letting blame and the other lies run the show, then it is time for you to become Unstoppable! This brand new program equips high-achieving women who struggle with the pressure to be a certain way, healing pain from the past, inadequacy, and/or feeling stuck to provide them with the tools and knowledge over 12 self-paced lessons that will allow them to feel deeply confident, free, successful, and, ultimately, worthy of receiving of what they desire.

Does this sound like the answer you've been looking for? Learn more by heading to charlseychilders.com/unstoppable.

Connect with me:

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Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires

The Journey to Your Dreams: Why the journey is more important than the destination

From Pressure to Power: How to Thrive as an Ambitious Woman

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104

My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.

Support the show

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at [email protected]. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Talk soon,

Charlsey

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram: @charlseychilders

YouTube: @charlseychilders

Website: www.charlseychilders.com

Did something in particular resonate with you? Would love to hear it! Just leave a review right here and I'll be sure to get back to you.

Talk soon,

Charlsey

Does any of this sound familiar? You've been told you have to do and be something different than what you are in order to be loved, to be worthy, to be successful.

If you can relate, this episode is for you. We go through:

1. A fun and proven exercise to help you get you what you want out of life

2. How conditioning negatively affects our life and often holds ambitious back

3. How to amplify the inherent power with you

I want to hear your wild and crazy vision that we talked about! Shoot me a DM on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers

Ready to let go of the patterns from your past that have been slowing you down and keeping you stuck? It's time for you to break those chains and become Unstoppable!

Unstoppable is my brand new coaching program designed to help women heal the lies and recognize their inherent power, so they can become unstoppable in what they can achieve. If you think this program could be a good fit for you, add your name to the waitlist to be the first to know when it becomes available and receive a *special* gift for signing up. Click here to take the next step in achieving the life you desire for yourself! 

Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires

The Journey to Your Dreams: Why the journey is more important than the destination

Letting Your Past Propel You into Your Future with Carmelita Tiu

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104

My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.

Support the show

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at [email protected]. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Talk soon,

Charlsey

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram: @charlseychilders

YouTube: @charlseychilders

Website: www.charlseychilders.com

Did something in particular resonate with you? Would love to hear it! Just leave a review right here and I'll be sure to get back to you.

Talk soon,

Charlsey

Take an honest inventory! Does your doing and the actions you're taking bring you more satisfaction than when you're being? If so, this could be a sign that you're overcompensating your doing in order to prove your worth. This is a common thing among high-achieving women!

Mentally, we may know that our worth isn't based on our performance or productivity. But it's easier said than believed. I have often feel pressure to do more and be more. Maybe you have too. I realized that I've been falling victim to the "should story" - thinking I should be a certain way or do certain things in order to be successful. But the truth is, I am enough just as I am. I don't need to force myself to be someone I'm not. I am worthy, capable, and deserving of all good things. When I operate from this place of knowing, I am unstoppable in my pursuit of success and impact.

In this episode, I break down the psychological reasons for why we feel the pressure to constantly do more. Tune in now to learn:

1. The pressure we feel to succeed may be coming from our own expectations of ourselves, rather than from external sources. 

2. We may be falling victim to the "should story" - the belief that we should be doing or measuring up to certain things in order to be successful. 

3. We can heal the root causes that keep us stuck in this cycle by going deeper and uncovering our hidden beliefs.

Other episodes you'll enjoy:

The Lie of Doing It All

Loving Yourself to Success with Jen Gutfriend

What to Do When You Feel Behind in Life

Shoot me a DM to join the waitlist:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers

Self Worth and Confidence Coaching

Cultivating an internal definition of success centered around who you are instead of what you do takes time. If it would be beneficial for you to have support in discovering why you feel like it's never enough and learning how to untie your worth from your performance or productivity, one-on-one coaching may be for you. If you're interested, then please send me a DM for the link so we can set up a call. We would get started in a few weeks, if it's a good fit. And in eight weeks, you'll notice a shift in your results and in your self worth how you feel about yourself. Go ahead and DM me and let's really see if this is a good fit for you.

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104

My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.

Support the show

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at [email protected]. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Talk soon,

Charlsey

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram: @charlseychilders

YouTube: @charlseychilders

Website: www.charlseychilders.com

Did something in particular resonate with you? Would love to hear it! Just leave a review right here and I'll be sure to get back to you.

Talk soon,

Charlsey

If you're feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to do things a certain way, doubt your abilities, or feel like you aren't seeing the results you want, then this episode is for you!

The source of the pressure may look different for you, but the pain is still the same: frustrated, feeling like we're doing something wrong, or thinking something is wrong with us.

Who you are and who you think you need to be isn't lining up.

And it sucks. It's hard.

I get you. I see you.

In this week's episode, I cover:

1. What it means when you feel pressure to "do it all"

2. How to turn pressure into power

3. The upcoming release of a tool to help you heal the root causes of the pressure you're feeling

Other episodes you'll enjoy:

The Lie of Doing It All

Loving Yourself to Success with Jen Gutfriend

What to Do When You Feel Behind in Life

Connect with me:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers

Self Worth and Confidence Coaching

If you are ready to trade the pressure and overwhelm for inner peace, I have two open spots for one-on-one coaching. If you're interested, then please send me a DM for the link so we can set up a call. We would get started in a few weeks, if it's a good fit. And in eight weeks, you'll notice a shift in your results and in your self worth how you feel about yourself. Go ahead and DM me and let's really see, this is a good fit for you.

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104

My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.

Support the show

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at [email protected]. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Talk soon,

Charlsey

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram: @charlseychilders

YouTube: @charlseychilders

Website: www.charlseychilders.com

Did something in particular resonate with you? Would love to hear it! Just leave a review right here and I'll be sure to get back to you.

Talk soon,

Charlsey

"What if following our dreams actually means following the path these feelings are leading you down?" - Charlsey Childers

After an unplanned break from my usual productivity-driven routine, it reminded me that the key to a fulfilling life is focusing on who you are being, rather than what you are doing. This two week break from life and it was really tough, but also really good. I was challenged in a lot of ways, but I learned a lot too. I realized that following my dreams doesn't mean changing my outer world first. I have to focus more on who I'm being in each moment, and less on doing. I also realized that the journey is just as important as the destination.

In this episode, you will learn the following:

1. How our feelings are data, not directives, and what this means for our dreams and goals

2. The importance of focusing on who we are being, in each moment, rather than what we are doing

3. How the journey to our goals is just as important as the goals themselves

Other episodes you'll enjoy:

The Lie of Doing It All

Loving Yourself to Success with Jen Gutfriend

What to Do When You Feel Behind in Life

Connect with me:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers

Self Worth and Confidence Coaching

If you are ready to trade the pressure and overwhelm for inner peace, I have two open spots for one-on-one coaching. If you're interested, then please send me a DM for the link so we can set up a call. We would get started in a few weeks, if it's a good fit. And in eight weeks, you'll notice a shift in your results and in your self worth how you feel about yourself. Go ahead and DM me and let's really see, this is a good fit for you.

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104

My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.

Support the show

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at [email protected]. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Talk soon,

Charlsey

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram: @charlseychilders

YouTube: @charlseychilders

Website: www.charlseychilders.com

Did something in particular resonate with you? Would love to hear it! Just leave a review right here and I'll be sure to get back to you.

Talk soon,

Charlsey

Do you find yourself constantly pushing yourself to do more and more? Are you the one everyone relies on to get things done? I understand how it feels to feel like you have to do it all, and, in this episode, I share my story of how I learned to ask for help. It's not a sign of weakness!

So if you're ready to leave it all behind, this episode is for you.

Asking for help doesn't make you weak or a failure. You are worthy of a life marked with ease and flow, not stress and overwhelm.

In this episode, you will learn the following:

1. The pressure ambitious women feel to do it all and why they are afraid to ask for help

2. The consequences of constantly trying to prove how capable you are

3. How your worth is not dependent on what you accomplish each day

Self Worth and Confidence Coaching

If you are ready to trade the pressure and overwhelm for inner peace, I have two open spots for one-on-one coaching. If you're interested, then please send me a DM for the link so we can set up a call. We would get started in August, if it's a good fit. And in eight weeks, you'll notice a shift in your results and in your self worth how you feel about yourself. Go ahead and DM me and let's really see, this is a good fit for you.

Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104

My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.

Support the show

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at [email protected]. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Talk soon,

Charlsey

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram: @charlseychilders

YouTube: @charlseychilders

Website: www.charlseychilders.com

Did something in particular resonate with you? Would love to hear it! Just leave a review right here and I'll be sure to get back to you.

Talk soon,

Charlsey

Have you had this thought? "I feel like I'm not good enough and I'll never be able to achieve my goals." If you're ready to leave all of that behind, this conversation Charlsey Childers, Carlie Zacharuk, and Melissa Earle is is dedicated to solving that for you. Charlsey shares a solution you probably haven't tried yet.

In this episode, You will learn how to overcome self-doubt and achieve success.

"You are the creative force of your life, and you have the power to change it."

Charlsey Childers is a Self-Worth and Confidence Coach who helps women overcome their inner blocks to success, so they feel worthy and capable of achieving their goals and dreams.

In this episode, Charlsey does a deep dive with one of her clients, Melissa, to help her overcome a current block that she is facing.

This is Melissa Earl's story...

I am a mother and wife who is trying to do it all. I have many roles and hats to wear, and spending time with my family is very important to me. I know that it would be very beneficial for me to hire somebody to help me with cleaning my house and doing my dishes, but I don't want to make that phone call. I don't want to text that person. I don't want to dive into it. And it's a block, but I don't know what it is yet.

In this episode, you will learn the following:

1. Overcoming blocks that are preventing you from achieving your goals.

2. The importance of identifying what is and is not working in your life.

3. Facing your fears and overcoming them.

If you enjoyed hearing from Melissa and Carlie, click here to connect with Melissa and click here to connect with Carlie.

Self Worth and Confidence Coaching

If you are tired of not having having the success you want and feeling like you can do so much more than what you're already doing, I can help you uncover the block just like I helped Melissa in this episode! I'm about to open two spots for one-on-one coaching. If you're interested, then please send me a DM so we can set up a call. We would get started in July, if it's a good fit. And in eight weeks, you'll notice a shift in your results and in your self worth how you feel about yourself. Go ahead and DM me and let's really see, this is a good fit for you.

Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers

Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104

My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.

Support the show

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at [email protected]. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Talk soon,

Charlsey

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram: @charlseychilders

YouTube: @charlseychilders

Website: www.charlseychilders.com

Did something in particular resonate with you? Would love to hear it! Just leave a review right here and I'll be sure to get back to you.

Talk soon,

Charlsey

Do you feel like you have to do it all in order to be it all? That is the lie we are tackling on this episode of the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast.

And how does this pressure affect your everyday life? Perhaps you spend time with your kids, but think about work and then feel guilty because you aren't fully present with your kids. Perhaps you feel living it's a constant uphill battle that you are constantly failing at, which has affected your confidence and how you feel about yourself. Or perhaps you feel like everyone else is succeeding at doing it all, but you are the only one who's falling short.

This pressure to do it all in order to be it all can be crushing to your self-esteem and affect how you show up.

The purpose of this episode is to help you create and cultivate a healthier life rhythm.

Tune in to hear several simple, practical tips from three ambitious boss babes on how you can create a better balance in your roles and everyday routine in order to show up the way you want to show up. You will hear from me (Charlsey Childers), a Self Worth and Confidence Coach who helps women feel worthy and capable of achieving their dreams, Melissa Earle and Carlie Zacharuk, co-founders of Ascent, which delivers a personalized plan for a lifestyle of complete wellness. Press play now!

Reflection question:

1. What foundation can you lay or what pillars can you create in this season in order to live successfully?

I would love to hear your answer to this. Shoot me a DM on Instagram @charlsey_childers. I can't wait to hear from you!

To access the Life Rhythm worksheet mentioned in this episode, click here.

If you enjoyed hearing from Melissa and Carlie and/or are interested in improving your health as a busy women, click here to connect with Melissa and click here to connect with Carlie.

Self Worth and Confidence Coaching

Do you often wonder, "what's wrong with you?" You've read self-help books, listened to motivational podcasts, and prayed, but nothing has helped you feel better about yourself. You are not alone (despite the lies telling you otherwise). I am here for you! And I want to hear what you're dealing with in a safe, non-judgmental space. This is a chance for you to let out the spiraling thoughts and heaviness you've been feeling without being judged. I invite you to let me in and set up a complimentary 15 min call with me by clicking here.

This could be the answer you've been praying for! But you won't know until you try.

Seeing Your Inner Brilliance

Subscribe here: Apple, Spotify.

New episodes drop every Wednesday.

Like what you hear? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.

Support the show

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at [email protected]. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Talk soon,

Charlsey

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram: @charlseychilders

YouTube: @charlseychilders

Website: www.charlseychilders.com

Did something in particular resonate with you? Would love to hear it! Just leave a review right here and I'll be sure to get back to you.

Talk soon,

Charlsey

Do you feel like you appear one way on the outside and feel completely different on the inside? Perhaps you don't feel good enough for your great dreams. Perhaps you have been working toward your dream for so long and since it hasn't turned out the way you expected, you feel behind - like something is fundamentally wrong with you. Or perhaps you wonder why you can't be where she is. That is a lot to carry, even for an ambitious, high-achieving woman like yourself. It's also a sign of the expectation blues - a cycle of failure, disappointment, shame, anxiety and overwhelm. This cycle crushes your desires and your self-worth. The key to breaking the cycle is to become unstoppable... cultivating inner peace, believing you are capable, worthy, and deserving, and knowing that your dreams are within reach.

If you can relate, then this episode is for you. Press play now!

Reflection question:

1. What would life look like if you felt unstoppable?

I would love to hear your answer to this. Shoot me a DM on Instagram @charlsey_childers. I can't wait to hear from you!

Self Worth and Confidence Coaching

Do you often wonder, "what's wrong with you?" You've read self-help books, listened to motivational podcasts, and prayed, but nothing has helped you feel better about yourself. You are not alone (despite the lies telling you otherwise). I am here for you! And I want to hear what you're dealing with in a safe, non-judgmental space. This is a chance for you to let out the spiraling thoughts and heaviness you've been feeling without being judged. I invite you to let me in and set up a complimentary 15 min call with me by clicking here.

This could be the answer you've been praying for! But you won't know until you try.

Seeing Your Inner Brilliance

Subscribe here: Apple, Spotify.

New episodes drop every Wednesday.

Like what you hear? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.

Support the show

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at [email protected]. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Talk soon,

Charlsey

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram: @charlseychilders

YouTube: @charlseychilders

Website: www.charlseychilders.com

Did something in particular resonate with you? Would love to hear it! Just leave a review right here and I'll be sure to get back to you.

Talk soon,

Charlsey