In this episode of Konnected Minds, I sit down with Funke Bucknor Obruthe, the founder of Zapphaire Events, Africa's biggest events company, to unpack the real conversation about marriage, support systems, and what it actually takes to balance building a thriving business with raising a family in an environment that still expects women to do it all.

We dive deep into the question every ambitious woman wrestles with: how do you juggle a 24 year business empire with family responsibilities, and can you really have both without sacrificing one? Funke breaks down the concept of work life integrated balance, why you must put your work in your life and your life in your work so everything is intertwined, and why delegating washing, cooking, errands, and everything that takes time is how you create space for what actually matters. She explains why quality time with your family cannot be delegated, how she literally schedules spend time with the girls and spend time with my husband in her diary because if you don't schedule it you won't do it, and why recognizing the season of your life and understanding what works for you is more important than copying someone else's journey.

We also get into the hard truth about marriage and why the man you marry determines how far you can go as a woman in this part of the world. Funke opens up about why society is patriarchal and favors men more than women, why women are expected to do school runs, take care of the home, and still work while men just come home and put their feet up, and why men must support women more by cutting them some slack, promoting based on competence, and closing the pay gap that exists in sports, corporate, and everywhere else. She challenges men to stop being selfish, to be in the kitchen with their wives even if they're not cooking, and to understand that when the woman rises it's good for the man and when the man rises it's good for the woman because you're working as one unit.

Funke also breaks down the difference between happiness and joy, why happiness is temporary and comes from external things like good news or deals going well, and why joy is a continuous state of mind that only God and the Holy Spirit can sustain even when you stumble or things go wrong. She walks me through how she's integrated her family into every stage of her business, why each season of life requires a different approach whether your children are in nursery, teenagers, or young adults, and why you must define what is important to you and what you cannot compromise on before you can create a system that works.

If you're a woman building a business, navigating marriage, or trying to figure out how to do both without losing yourself, this conversation will show you exactly how to create balance, demand support, and refuse to let society's expectations limit how far you can go.

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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Derrick Abaitey is a Ghanaian entrepreneur, podcast host, and personal development advocate.
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