It's the LAST episode of Season 2 😭 In our final Teatime with Toni, Producer Annisha and Toni are helping a listener work through anxious attachment and heartbreak, plus another navigating a 20 year friendship on the rocks. Then Toni reflects on the whole season in the Sisterhood Spotlight, from her live show happening TOMORROW to her move to Houston to her new book Soft Life dropping September 10th!

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It's been one whole year of marriage for Toni and Taiwo 💍 She's sharing everything she's learned in year one, from protecting your independence to the questions that never stop coming from family and friends 👀 Plus in Teatime with Toni 🫖 Producer Annisha and Toni tackle a dilemma about an ex who just won't leave your mind, even after you've done everything "right" to move on. PS Toni's first ever live show is just over a week away, grab your ticket before she heads to Houston!!

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Are you actually ready to be in a relationship? 🤔 Not "do you want one" but really, truly ready? Toni's asking the big question this week and breaking down what it actually means to become the right person before you go looking for the right person. Plus in Teatime with Toni and Producer Annisha tackle two dilemmas: a listener working through resentment towards her dad while healing an avoidant attachment style, and another navigating the confusion of a seven month long distance talking stage that never quite found its direction 💌

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Breadcrumbing or genuinely just busy?? 🍞 This week Toni's breaking down the difference between someone giving consistent effort and someone keeping you on a string, plus how to spot the pattern before you waste more time on mixed signals. Plus what would you do if your mum kept showing up unannounced (with the spare key 👀) are you taking the key back...Producer Annisha would!

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Is it a furfuckle or a kerfuffle? Whatever it is, Toni's found herself in one and she's speaking on it. Context really is everything, clips get twisted online, and honestly we might be living through a nuance epidemic. Toni and Producer Annisha also get into your dilemmas this week, from a mother in law who still won't accept a marriage eight months on, to a woman stuck between running from her ex and running towards someone new.

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Toni's talking dating with discernment this week, because sometimes what feels like chemistry is actually just desperation for connection in disguise 👀 Plus in Teatime with Toni, Producer Annisha joins to unpack two listener dilemmas: one on realising your relationship has become your whole identity, and another on the difference between grieving a person and grieving the routine you built around them!

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Beauty maxxing is everywhere right now 👀 Toni's unpacking soft maxxing vs hard maxxing, whether it's genuine empowerment or insecurity wearing a cute filter, plus her own routine, the things she regrets and the things that were 100% worth it. But here's the thing... you can maxx your face all you want, at the end of the day character maxxing matters more. Being good looking doesn't change whether you're actually a good person! In Tea Time with Toni, Toni and Producer Annisha help solve your dilemmas! What would you do if your boyfriend was telling you to get lip filler??

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Toni's unpacking Auntie Culture this week. The backhanded compliments, the double standards and the self appointed board of directors who somehow have an opinion on everything you do. Plus, what happens when your mum starts planning your wedding before you've even picked a path for yourself...and is rushing into marriage really the answer she thinks it is?

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Toni's talking people pleasing this week and why it never actually pays off 😩 Plus Teatime with Toni is back with Producer Annisha for two juicy dilemmas: a listener who found something in her boyfriend's wallet that isn't hers, and another grieving her relationship with her mum after a new marriage changed everything. Then it's Sisterhood Spotlight, breaking down why people pleasing is costing you more than you think ☕️

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This week on Toni Told Me, Toni sits down with beauty content creator Damilola (@Dami.Adei) for an honest conversation about navigating the beauty industry as a Black gay man, from his coming out journey, to the moment conversion therapy backfired in the most unexpected way, to the double standards men still face in beauty spaces. Plus, it's Teatime with Toni first, where Toni and Producer Annisha tackle your dilemmas, from feeling unloved in a relationship that's stopped showing up for you, to protecting your relationship from family pressure to get engaged and settle down.

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