The Messy Inbetween by TMI podcast

March 13, 2026 Sex Toys...Where Do You Draw The Line? | Episode 209

Happy Friday Inbetweeners🤩. Let’s talk about the toy drawer💦👀... Where do you actually draw the line?

In this episode we share our sex toy stories, how we first discovered them, what the experience has been like for us, and the boundaries we have had to set so that pleasure does not turn into dependency.

We had this conversation with the one and only Bev Munga, thee Vibrating Lawyer and founder of Gspot Kenya, a brand that focuses on sexual wellness and toys. Together we explore the growing sex toy culture in Kenya, the curiosity around it, and the conversations people are often too shy to have out loud. How do you introduce toys to a partner? Where do you draw the line between fun and overreliance? And how do you make sure pleasure stays healthy and balanced?

Enjoy the episode🍿

Get all your sex toys from gspotkenya_:

https://www.instagram.com/gspotkenya_?igsh=MTVwa3IwYWozNzl5eQ==

https://gspotkenya.com/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZnRzaAQgRKZleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAaepYH4RNP-O74pGd9lfTbJkcbY-by8bN8WoVkppxF7ELcv3Y5L7G8dslnp-Hw_aem_NNa2khJIXbWlBRHXQqmZiw

The Wet Stuff Lube:

https://www.instagram.com/thewetstuff?igsh=NGw1eTJ3M3dtZ3Bx

Articles on Self Pleasure:

Everything You Need to Know About Masturbation ‘Addiction’

https://www.healthline.com/health/masturbation-addiction?

Abstinence from Masturbation and Hypersexuality

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32130561/

Physician perspective — excessive masturbation

https://www.modernghana.com/news/1259318/people-addicted-to-masturbation-may-seek-psycholog.html?

https://www.standardmedia.co.ke/evewoman/between-the-sheets/article/2001325027/sexual-healing-myths-truths-and-questions-around-self-pleasure?

Kirk Franklin's Porn Addiction Story:

https://youtu.be/SH77rtJq4_8?si=7W0zRHk3YtYPx-SL