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  • Selfie Presents The Cardigan: How Much Do I Share With My Teen About My Teenage Years? | Selfie Podcast Episode 196
    This week, Kristen and Matthias chat through how much is appropriate to share with teens about our own teenage years. Plus, are active shooter drills in schools helpful or harmful?
    Today's What I Want You To Know is from Beth McCormack about delivering a child with a congenital heart defect and overcoming infant medical trauma. To submit your own story for “What I Want You to Know” record using this link: https://www.speakpipe.com/selfiepodcast
    Links and Resources:
    Open Story luggage at Target
    Mrs. Stewart's Liquid Bluing
    46 min
  • Selfie Presents The Cardigan: Revenge Procrastination, Britney Spears, and What I Want You to Know | Selfie Podcast Episode 195

    This week, Kristen and Matthias introduce a new series called “What I Want You to Know” featuring stories from Selfie listeners. Plus, revenge procrastination: what is it and how do we stop staying up so late? And, Britney Spears is finally free! What is a conservatorship and what does her new freedom mean for her?

    To submit your own story for “What I Want You to Know” record using this link: https://www.speakpipe.com/selfiepodcast

    Links and Resources:

    • Truekind Seamless Stretch Mid-Waist Short
    • 11/22/63 by Stephen King

    • There’s no “one-size-fits-all” solution when it comes to haircare. Prose makes custom haircare that’s effective because it’s personal. Using natural ingredients with proven results, Prose customizes every product in your routine from your shampoo to supplements. First, Prose starts by asking about you as a person with their in-depth consultation and creates products specific to your hair type. As a carbon-neutral certified B-Corp, Prose is an industry leader in clean and responsible beauty. All their ingredients are sustainably-sourced, ethically gathered, and cruelty-free. They’re also the first custom beauty brand to go carbon-neutral. If you’re not 100% positive Prose is the best hair care you’ve had, they will take the products back no questions asked.Prose is the healthy hair regimen with your name all over it. Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order today! Go to Prose.com/selfie.

      We’ve talked quite a lot in our community group about the unexpected and frustrating symptoms of perimenopause, menopause. Bonafide is a company dedicated to providing natural solutions for women. Their supplements are created to effectively relieve the symptoms that accompany hormonal fluctuations within our bodies. Bonafide believes every women deserves relief without compromise – from PMS to menopause and everything else along the way. Their Relizen® supplement provides powerful, hormone-free relief to women experiencing menopausal hot flashes and night sweats, so they can stay cool and dry all day and night. Tthe ingredients in every Bonafide product are the result of thorough research, development, & clinical trials resulting in every product being scientifically validated, All products are made with safe yet powerful ingredients, completely free from hormones, & without alarming side effects. Give Bonafide a try today for REAL relief, without compromise, and without a prescription needed. To get 20% off your first purchase when you subscribe to any product, go to HelloBonafide.com and use promo code SELFIE.

      Sundance Now is an ad-free streaming service, created by AMC Networks, for people who appreciate riveting story-telling and fresh perspectives. If meaningful shows are your escape, then Sundance Now is definitely for you. Sundance Now offers the best of true crime series, dramas, and thrillers from all over the world. Their original series Dead Places, One Lane Bridge, and The Trail in the Outback: The Lindy Chamberlin Story are sure to excite and entertain! You can stream Sundance Now on all your favorite devices for as low as $4.99 a month! Just download the app or watch online and discover exclusive shows from around the world instantly. Start streaming your next obsession. Try Sundance Now free for 30 days by going to SundanceNow.com and use promo code SELFIE

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      40 min
    • Selfie Presents The Cardigan: Revenge Procrastination, Britney Spears, and What I Want You to Know | Selfie Podcast Episode 195
      This week, Kristen and Matthias introduce a new series called “What I Want You to Know” featuring stories from Selfie listeners. Plus, revenge procrastination: what is it and how do we stop staying up so late? And, Britney Spears is finally free! What is a conservatorship and what does her new freedom mean for her?
      To submit your own story for “What I Want You to Know” record using this link: https://www.speakpipe.com/selfiepodcast
      Links and Resources:
      Truekind Seamless Stretch Mid-Waist Short
      11/22/63 by Stephen King
      There’s no “one-size-fits-all” solution when it comes to haircare. Prose makes custom haircare that’s effective because it’s personal. Using natural ingredients with proven results, Prose customizes every product in your routine from your shampoo to supplements. First, Prose starts by asking about you as a person with their in-depth consultation and creates products specific to your hair type. As a carbon-neutral certified B-Corp, Prose is an industry leader in clean and responsible beauty. All their ingredients are sustainably-sourced, ethically gathered, and cruelty-free. They’re also the first custom beauty brand to go carbon-neutral. If you’re not 100% positive Prose is the best hair care you’ve had, they will take the products back no questions asked.Prose is the healthy hair regimen with your name all over it. Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order today! Go to Prose.com/selfie.
      We’ve talked quite a lot in our community group about the unexpected and frustrating symptoms of perimenopause, menopause. Bonafide is a company dedicated to providing natural solutions for women. Their supplements are created to effectively relieve the symptoms that accompany hormonal fluctuations within our bodies. Bonafide believes every women deserves relief without compromise – from PMS to menopause and everything else along the way. Their Relizen® supplement provides powerful, hormone-free relief to women experiencing menopausal hot flashes and night sweats, so they can stay cool and dry all day and night. Tthe ingredients in every Bonafide product are the result of thorough research, development, & clinical trials resulting in every product being scientifically validated, All products are made with safe yet powerful ingredients, completely free from hormones, & without alarming side effects. Give Bonafide a try today for REAL relief, without compromise, and without a prescription needed. To get 20% off your first purchase when you subscribe to any product, go to HelloBonafide.com and use promo code SELFIE.
      Sundance Now is an ad-free streaming service, created by AMC Networks, for people who appreciate riveting story-telling and fresh perspectives. If meaningful shows are your escape, then Sundance Now is definitely for you. Sundance Now offers the best of true crime series, dramas, and thrillers from all over the world. Their original series Dead Places, One Lane Bridge, and The Trail in the Outback: The Lindy Chamberlin Story are sure to excite and entertain! You can stream Sundance Now on all your favorite devices for as low as $4.99 a month! Just download the app or watch online and discover exclusive shows from around the world instantly. Start streaming your next obsession. Try Sundance Now free for 30 days by going to SundanceNow.com and use promo code SELFIE
      47 min
    • Selfie Presents The Cardigan: Family Boundaries During the Holidays + Racism in Psychology | Selife Podcast Episode 194

      How do you set family boundaries during the holidays without causing a scene? Plus, Matthias shares his theory on uncomfortable throw pillows. And, Kristen + Matthias discuss the American Psychological Association's recent apology for perpetuating systemic racism -- what does racism look like in psychology?

      Links + Resources:

      • FACTORFIVE Regenerative Serum
      • Hempillow on Etsy
      • Decolonizing Therapy on Instagram
      • Gabes Torres on Instagram
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        38 min
      • Selfie Presents The Cardigan: Family Boundaries During the Holidays + Racism in Psychology | Selife Podcast Episode 194
        How do you set family boundaries during the holidays without causing a scene? Plus, Matthias shares his theory on uncomfortable throw pillows. And, Kristen + Matthias discuss the American Psychological Association's recent apology for perpetuating systemic racism -- what does racism look like in psychology?
        Links + Resources:
        FACTORFIVE Regenerative Serum
        Hempillow on Etsy
        Decolonizing Therapy on Instagram
        Gabes Torres on Instagram
        42 min
      • Selfie Presents The Cardigan: Can Narcissists Spot Narcissism in Other People, Pete Davidson, + Crowd Psychology | Selfie Podcast Episode 193

        Two thumbs up is back! Matthias and Kristen discuss a question from a listener wondering if narcissists can spot narcissism in other people? Plus, how can things go so wrong in crowds like what happened recently at Astroworld. And…why is Pete Davidson so hot?

        Links + Resources

        • Land’s End Packable Down Coats
        • CGK Unlimited Sheets
        • Death at Astroworld: 5 Ways Crowds Can Quickly Go Bad

        • EveryPlate’s easy-to-follow recipes and pre-portioned ingredients take the stress out of dinnertime. Great for kids learning to cook and great for parents who are stressed between work and school supervision. EveryPlate does the meal planning, shopping, and prepping for you, taking the time-consuming guesswork out of cooking. Try EveryPlate for just $1.79 by going to EveryPlate.com and entering code selfie179.


          Chagaccino is your coffee’s new friend with benefits! Just add one packet of the Chagaccino mix into your regular coffee or latte and transform it into an adaptogenic, superfood, mushroom-based mocha! It is delish AF, vegan, keto and has no sugar or calories.It;s made of 100% wild foraged chaga, raw cacao, Ceylon cinnamon, and sweetened with monk fruit. They recommend it with two shots of espresso, one packet of the Chagaccino mix, and plant-based milk over ice (just like a latte). Each Chagaccino packet has the antioxidant equivalent of 3 lb's of blueberries so it's amazing for immune support! Researchers have found that medicinal mushrooms have demonstrated both antiviral and anti-inflammatory activity. Visit drinkrenude.com (that's nude like naked), and use the promo code SELFIE at checkout to get 15% off Chagaccino orders! That’s drinkrenude.com with promo code SELFIE at checkout for 15% off your Chagaccino order.

          Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

          54 min
        • Selfie Presents The Cardigan: Can Narcissists Spot Narcissism in Other People, Pete Davidson, + Crowd Psychology | Selfie Podcast Episode 193
          Two thumbs up is back! Matthias and Kristen discuss a question from a listener wondering if narcissists can spot narcissism in other people? Plus, how can things go so wrong in crowds like what happened recently at Astroworld. And…why is Pete Davidson so hot?
          Links + Resources
          Land’s End Packable Down Coats
          CGK Unlimited Sheets
          Death at Astroworld: 5 Ways Crowds Can Quickly Go Bad
          EveryPlate’s easy-to-follow recipes and pre-portioned ingredients take the stress out of dinnertime. Great for kids learning to cook and great for parents who are stressed between work and school supervision. EveryPlate does the meal planning, shopping, and prepping for you, taking the time-consuming guesswork out of cooking. Try EveryPlate for just $1.79 by going to EveryPlate.com and entering code selfie179.
          Chagaccino is your coffee’s new friend with benefits! Just add one packet of the Chagaccino mix into your regular coffee or latte and transform it into an adaptogenic, superfood, mushroom-based mocha! It is delish AF, vegan, keto and has no sugar or calories.It;s made of 100% wild foraged chaga, raw cacao, Ceylon cinnamon, and sweetened with monk fruit. They recommend it with two shots of espresso, one packet of the Chagaccino mix, and plant-based milk over ice (just like a latte). Each Chagaccino packet has the antioxidant equivalent of 3 lb's of blueberries so it's amazing for immune support! Researchers have found that medicinal mushrooms have demonstrated both antiviral and anti-inflammatory activity. Visit drinkrenude.com (that's nude like naked), and use the promo code SELFIE at checkout to get 15% off Chagaccino orders! That’s drinkrenude.com with promo code SELFIE at checkout for 15% off your Chagaccino order.
          56 min
        • Selfie presents The Cardigan: Sexual and Gender Identity in Teens + Why is Tik Tok So Addicting | Selfie Podcast Episode 192

          Today Matthias and Kristen talk about sexual and gender identity development in teens. How do we leave room for growth without locking kids into an identity? And, why is Tik Tok so addicting?

          Links + Resources

          • Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT)
          • The Way Out by Alan Gordon and Alon Ziv
          • The Brain's Way of Healing by Norman Doidge
          • The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk
          • Shameless Parenting by Tina Schermer Sellers
          • George by Alex Gino
          • Raising Them by Kyl Myers
          • Red: A Crayon's Story by Michael Hall

          • There’s no “one-size-fits-all” solution when it comes to haircare. Prose makes custom haircare that’s effective because it’s personal. Using natural ingredients with proven results, Prose customizes every product in your routine from your shampoo to supplements. First, Prose starts by asking about you as a person with their in-depth consultation and creates products specific to your hair type. As a carbon-neutral certified B-Corp, Prose is an industry leader in clean and responsible beauty. All their ingredients are sustainably-sourced, ethically gathered, and cruelty-free. They’re also the first custom beauty brand to go carbon-neutral. If you’re not 100% positive Prose is the best hair care you’ve had, they will take the products back no questions asked.Prose is the healthy hair regimen with your name all over it. Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order today! Go to Prose.com/selfie. 


            We’ve talked quite a lot in our community group about the unexpected and frustrating symptoms of perimenopause, menopause. Bonafide is a company dedicated to providing natural solutions for women. Their supplements are created to effectively relieve the symptoms that accompany hormonal fluctuations within our bodies.Bonafide believes every women deserves relief without compromise – from PMS to menopause and everything else along the way. Their Relizen® supplement provides powerful, hormone-free relief to women experiencing menopausal hot flashes and night sweats, so they can stay cool and dry all day and night. Tthe ingredients in every Bonafide product are the result of thorough research, development, & clinical trials resulting in every product being scientifically validated, All products are made with safe yet powerful ingredients, completely free from hormones, & without alarming side effects. Give Bonafide a try today for REAL relief, without compromise, and without a prescription needed. To get 20% off your first purchase when you subscribe to any product, go to HelloBonafide.com and use promo code SELFIE. 


            Sundance Now is an ad-free streaming service, created by AMC Networks, for people who appreciate riveting story-telling and fresh perspectives. If meaningful shows are your escape, then Sundance Now is definitely for you. Sundance Now offers the best of true crime series, dramas, and thrillers from all over the world. Their original series Dead Places, One Lane Bridge, and The Trail in the Outback: The Lindy Chamberlin Story are sure to excite and entertain! You can stream Sundance Now on all your favorite devices for as low as $4.99 a month! Just download the app or watch online and discover exclusive shows from around the world instantly. Start streaming your next obsession. Try Sundance Now free for 30 days by going to SundanceNow.com and use promo code SELFIE.


            Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

            46 min
          • Selfie presents The Cardigan: Sexual and Gender Identity in Teens + Why is Tik Tok So Addicting | Selfie Podcast Episode 192
            Today Matthias and Kristen talk about sexual and gender identity development in teens. How do we leave room for growth without locking kids into an identity? And, why is Tik Tok so addicting?
            Links + Resources
            Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT)
            The Way Out by Alan Gordon and Alon Ziv
            The Brain's Way of Healing by Norman Doidge
            The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk
            Shameless Parenting by Tina Schermer Sellers
            George by Alex Gino
            Raising Them by Kyl Myers
            Red: A Crayon's Story by Michael Hall
            There’s no “one-size-fits-all” solution when it comes to haircare. Prose makes custom haircare that’s effective because it’s personal. Using natural ingredients with proven results, Prose customizes every product in your routine from your shampoo to supplements. First, Prose starts by asking about you as a person with their in-depth consultation and creates products specific to your hair type. As a carbon-neutral certified B-Corp, Prose is an industry leader in clean and responsible beauty. All their ingredients are sustainably-sourced, ethically gathered, and cruelty-free. They’re also the first custom beauty brand to go carbon-neutral. If you’re not 100% positive Prose is the best hair care you’ve had, they will take the products back no questions asked.Prose is the healthy hair regimen with your name all over it. Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order today! Go to Prose.com/selfie. 
            We’ve talked quite a lot in our community group about the unexpected and frustrating symptoms of perimenopause, menopause. Bonafide is a company dedicated to providing natural solutions for women. Their supplements are created to effectively relieve the symptoms that accompany hormonal fluctuations within our bodies.Bonafide believes every women deserves relief without compromise – from PMS to menopause and everything else along the way. Their Relizen® supplement provides powerful, hormone-free relief to women experiencing menopausal hot flashes and night sweats, so they can stay cool and dry all day and night. Tthe ingredients in every Bonafide product are the result of thorough research, development, & clinical trials resulting in every product being scientifically validated, All products are made with safe yet powerful ingredients, completely free from hormones, & without alarming side effects. Give Bonafide a try today for REAL relief, without compromise, and without a prescription needed. To get 20% off your first purchase when you subscribe to any product, go to HelloBonafide.com and use promo code SELFIE. 
            Sundance Now is an ad-free streaming service, created by AMC Networks, for people who appreciate riveting story-telling and fresh perspectives. If meaningful shows are your escape, then Sundance Now is definitely for you. Sundance Now offers the best of true crime series, dramas, and thrillers from all over the world. Their original series Dead Places, One Lane Bridge, and The Trail in the Outback: The Lindy Chamberlin Story are sure to excite and entertain! You can stream Sundance Now on all your favorite devices for as low as $4.99 a month! Just download the app or watch online and discover exclusive shows from around the world instantly. Start streaming your next obsession. Try Sundance Now free for 30 days by going to SundanceNow.com and use promo code SELFIE.
            48 min
          • Selfie presents The Cardigan: Is High Functioning Anxiety Real + Why People Are Losing Their S#*! On Airplanes | Selfie Episode 191

            It seems like every week a new video comes out about someone losing their cool on airplanes, this week Kristen and Matthias dive into what might be going on. Plus, is high functioning anxiety a real thing?

            Links + Resources

            • Onsite Workshops
            • The Anxiety and Worry Workbook: The Cognitive Behavioral Solution 

            • EveryPlate’s easy-to-follow recipes and pre-portioned ingredients take the stress out of dinnertime. Great for kids learning to cook and great for parents who are stressed between work and school supervision. EveryPlate does the meal planning, shopping, and prepping for you, taking the time-consuming guesswork out of cooking. Try EveryPlate for just $1.99 per meal plus an additional 20% off your next 2 boxes by going to EveryPlate.com and entering code selfie199.

              Fazl is a company that works in collaboration with artisans in India to make gorgeous wool goods while providing fair wages for the women who make their products.The women Fazl employs create cozy handmade items such as warm socks, hats, and mittens in really beautiful traditional patterns. They have a passion for both caring for orphans and preventing children from being orphaned in the first place. They donate a significant portion of profits to children’s homes, and provide sustainable jobs for hundreds of Indian women in need. Fazl believes every person has the right to dignified work and ethical wages, and as such they are certified with the Fair Trade Federation for accountability. Their vegan blend of acrylic and nylon means the warmth of wool without the itch, and long-lasting durability and wamrth. And guys - they are cute. If you are looking for some great winterwear, or some gifts that give back as the holiday season approaches, keep Fazl in mind. You can check out their products at shopFazl.com.

              There’s no “one-size-fits-all” solution when it comes to haircare. Prose makes custom haircare that’s effective because it’s personal. Using natural ingredients with proven results, Prose customizes every product in your routine from your shampoo to supplements. First, Prose starts by asking about you as a person with their in-depth consultation and creates products specific to your hair type. As a carbon-neutral certified B-Corp, Prose is an industry leader in clean and responsible beauty. All their ingredients are sustainably-sourced, ethically gathered, and cruelty-free. They’re also the first custom beauty brand to go carbon-neutral. If you’re not 100% positive Prose is the best hair care you’ve had, they will take the products back no questions asked.Prose is the healthy hair regimen with your name all over it. Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order today! Go to Prose.com/selfie. 

              We’ve talked quite a lot in our community group about the unexpected and frustrating symptoms of perimenopause, menopause. Bonafide is a company dedicated to providing natural solutions for women. Their supplements are created to effectively relieve the symptoms that accompany hormonal fluctuations within our bodies.Bonafide believes every women deserves relief without compromise – from PMS to menopause and everything else along the way. Their Relizen® supplement provides powerful, hormone-free relief to women experiencing menopausal hot flashes and night sweats, so they can stay cool and dry all day and night. Tthe ingredients in every Bonafide product are the result of thorough research, development, & clinical trials resulting in every product being scientifically validated, All products are made with safe yet powerful ingredients, completely free from hormones, & without alarming side effects. Give Bonafide a try today for REAL relief, without compromise, and without a prescription needed. To get 20% off your first purchase when you subscribe to any product, go to HelloBonafide.com and use promo code SELFIE. 

              Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

              38 min

            About Selfie

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            Let’s talk self-care and mental health. Kristen Howerton, writer and psychotherapist, is joined by her longtime pal Matthias Roberts, psychotherapist, side-eye aficionado, and dog dad, as they tackle…