This episode features a cheatsheet for aging gracefully. Someone writes the following:

Dear Selfless Esteem, I’m interested in aging gracefully but I’m also dreading sagging skin, wrinkles, and everything else that goes along with aging. I see some crow’s feet forming by my eyes, which I think is a bigger deal for me as a woman than it is for a man. How can I stop focusing on this every time I look in the mirror? Signed, Not Forever Young

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If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you’re in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. 

Dear Selfless Esteem, I wish I could know what it’s like to be good looking because it seems like those people get special treatment. How can I stop feeling ugly? Signed, Broken Mirror

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For more info: Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yourself

If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you’re in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. 

Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode: Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ®

For more info: Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yourself

If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you’re in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. 

Dear Selfless Esteem, I have noticed that when I look at one negative aspect of myself, it seems to turn into a downward spiral of looking at ALL my negative traits. How can I stop this cycle and just look and work on one trait at a time?

Signed, Downward Spiraler

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For more info: Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yourself

If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you’re in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. 

Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode: Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ®

For more info: Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yourself

If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you’re in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. 

Dear Selfless Esteem, I’ve been grieving the death of a loved one for years. I feel comforted at church because of my belief that we will be together in Heaven, but other than that, I don’t feel much better. I understand the grieving process lasts a lifetime, but I thought I would have healed a little bit by now. When will the pain decrease? Signed, Stuck in Bereavement

.....Tune in to hear the answer.

Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode: Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ®

For more info: Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yourself

If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you’re in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. 

Today's episode has 5 tips for anger management and answers the following anonymous question:

Dear Selfless Esteem, Anger management is not my greatest strength. Recently, I took my frustration out on a coworker by snapping at him and making a big deal out nothing. I’ve been this way all my life so how can I be any different? Signed, Short Fuse

Hi, I’m Gina Leggio. Having been a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for over 20 years, I’ve observed how the mental health field has emphasized self-esteem. I’ve also noticed how this can be counterproductive because it involves self-evaluation, which causes insecurity, anxiety, and more.

I define Selfless Esteem as freedom from self-consciousness by focusing on our Creator, who is “the Beginning and the End” (Revelation 1:8). The result is joy and peace.

For more information go to my website: https://www.ginaleggio.com 

You can submit an anonymous question here: https://ginaleggio.com/contact-form 

If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you’re in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. 

Today's podcast answers the following anonymous question:

Dear Selfless Esteem, I want to have a relationship with God, but I don’t know if God exists. And even if He does exist, I don’t know if He has given up on me because of all the mistakes I’ve made in my life. What do you think? Signed, Spiritually Confused

Hi, I’m Gina Leggio. Having been a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for over 20 years, I’ve observed how the mental health field has emphasized self-esteem. I’ve also noticed how this can be counterproductive because it involves self-evaluation, which causes insecurity, anxiety, and more.

I define Selfless Esteem as freedom from self-consciousness by focusing on our Creator, who is “the Beginning and the End” (Revelation 1:8). The result is joy and peace.

For more information go to my website: https://www.ginaleggio.com 

You can submit an anonymous question here: https://ginaleggio.com/contact-form 

If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you’re in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. 

Today's episode is about 5 ways to hear God's voice.

Hi, I’m Gina Leggio. Having been a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for over 20 years, I’ve observed how the mental health field has emphasized self-esteem. I’ve also noticed how this can be counterproductive because it involves self-evaluation, which causes insecurity, anxiety, and more.

I define Selfless Esteem as freedom from self-consciousness by focusing on our Creator, who is “the Beginning and the End” (Revelation 1:8). The result is joy and peace.

For more information go to my website: http://www.selflessesteem.com 

Submit a question here: https://ginaleggio.com/contact-form 

If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you’re in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions. 

Today, I go through 3 uncommon New Years Resolution Ideas for 2025.

Hi, I’m Gina Leggio. Having been a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for over 20 years, I’ve observed how the mental health field has emphasized self-esteem. I’ve also noticed how this can be counterproductive because it involves self-evaluation, which causes insecurity, anxiety, and more.

I define Selfless Esteem as freedom from self-consciousness by focusing on our Creator, who is “the Beginning and the End” (Revelation 1:8). The result is joy and peace.

For more information go to my website: http://www.selflessesteem.com 

Submit a question here: https://ginaleggio.com/contact-form 

If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you’re in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions.