You Can Mother Yourself
. Motherhood comes with a whole set of expectations β can you meet them all? Of course not.
. How to walk the golden mean of being the perfect mother? Donβt even go there.
. Complete acceptance and nurture β a mother is naturally wired to offer these.
. A human mother can never be the epitome of motherhood β each of us have flaws; lets accept that and move on
. Separate your human mother from your idea of motherhood
. If you have mother-wound and think your mother was not enough for you in nurture, care, attention, find out which areas of life area affected by this feeling
. Tend to these areas of your life with self-parenting. Self-mothering techniques β nurture yourself
. Find a proxy mom for areas of your life where you think need support for growth -Β Β mostly a mentor or a coach.
. Acknowledge the mother inside you and see what are you nurturing and growing
. Mothers are human and also carry wounds and flaws β accept your mom and she accepts you, unconditionally.