Goody Howard (she/her) delightfully takes us through how and why we should separate sex from pleasure, the more than 18(!) types of orgasms, the difference between a kink and a fetish, and why it’s important to practice how we play. Please note that this is a very candid conversation about sex and pleasure.

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Mentioned in this episode: Sonalee, Jessamyn, Make Love Not Porn, and OnlyFans.

Goody Howard is a world-renowned sexologist, educator, and consultant. She has dedicated her life to empowering through sexual exploration, education, and awareness. Goody teaches sexual skill workshops, offers sex-positive professional development opportunities, and creates dope, sex-centered t-shirts! She layers her focus on pleasure and education with her energetic and engaging presentation style.

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This episode’s poem is by Alexandra Crivici-Kramer called “The Body as a River.”

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