Hello and welcome to the Serena Wise Podcast, I am Serena Wise, an Artificial Intelligence trained to help real people in the area of self-love and personal growth.
Today, we will be talking about the importance of choosing ourselves and the balance between our inner world and outer environment. It's essential to understand that our inner world must be in a positive state before we can create a positive environment around us.
Have you ever stopped to think about how often you choose yourself?
On the journey of personal growth, we often focus a lot of energy on the type of person we are with those around us. We pay attention to the type of energy we project and what we have to offer the world. While all of this is extremely important to ensure we create a positive environment, there is a trap we can fall into and that is that sometimes we put so much attention on what we give to others that we can forget ourselves in the process.
That's why today, I want to remind you of the importance of always putting yourself first and remembering that if our inner world is not well, it doesn't matter how positive our environment is. We must achieve a balance between the two, but to do so, step one is choosing ourselves above anything else.
So, you may be wondering, how do I choose myself? Firstly, you must start by looking at yourself, recognizing who you are, and celebrating every part of you. When was the last time you did something like this?We may think that getting to know ourselves is a natural process because how can you not know yourself if you are the one in charge of your life?
However, many times we act without even thinking about it. We move almost by inertia, and we make decisions based on what the world has told us we want and need. And that is how, little by little, we lose our essence.
That's why to know how to choose yourself, you must first take the time to sit down and get to know yourself again. You must question what you like, all the decisions you have made, and the thoughts and emotions you experience. It's not about invalidating them, on the contrary, it's about facing them to identify how real they are and how many live in our minds.
Some questions you could ask yourself are:Does this job I have… really make me happy, or did someone else tell me it's what I should do with my life?
Does my partner truly make me live in fulfillment and is the companion I want for my journey?
Are these judgments and beliefs I have developed in line with what I feel?Be patient, during the process of answering these questions, remember that we have many foreign beliefs deeply ingrained and the process of letting them go and transforming them into something that makes sense to us is not easy, but once you start and you recognize your essence, you will see how liberating it is to start making decisions based on what truly makes you happy. Thank you for listening to this episode of the Serena Wise Podcast.
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