In this episode, Inky an Oak discuss gender roles, results versus outcomes, deconstructing thoughts and the power of healing. Both men also breakdown why valuing your priorities with intense consistency is a game changer. 2:30 - Put down things so that others can pick it up. “You can either waste what God has given you or lose it.” The outcome you live in depends on the power of choice. 6:01 - What are three things that a woman has taught you from their intelligence?12:25- The breakdown and discussion of gender roles. 29:40 - Construcying and deconstructing what you’ve been taught. At early ages we cannot control what we receive, but as we grow into an adult, we have the ability to decipher and learn what’s right and wrong. Oak proposes the term of love roles instead of gender roles 33:20 - Your advantage can become a disadvantage if you don’t deconstruct your thought process an actions. Immerse yourself in the process to deconstruct a mentality, for it can take time to do so. Remember what once served you before can no longer do so once growth occurs. That goes for people an environments. 37:05 - Is there anything in your past that you’re currently running from. Failure to heal from past can ruin what you’re trying to obtain in front of you. It can distort thought processes which control the actions. 46:15 - Are you emotionally incarcerated? Do you find yourself grieving (mad, irritated) in actions towards others who don’t deserve it? 52:35 - Would you rather be a winner or be great?Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesTHE PROCESS:
TRUST IT. RESPECT IT. EMBRACE IT.

Be where your feet are.The choices of character development. Principles and humility.How do you respond and stand in times of controversy? Be aware of the moment. It's an opportunity for growth. But, you can also stay stagnant or revert. The choice is yours. Remember that perspective drives performance. We must be prepared to sacrifice and push through the fear that tempts us to stop altogether on the road to success. "When life is Sweet, say Thank you and celebrate. When life is bitter, say, Thank you and grow." 2:04 - What's your perspective when going through troubling and great times? Are you able to locate and communicate with God in either scenario? 3:30 - you have the resources and character development to stop negative life patterns and family cycles. "You're born looking like mom and dad but die by the decisions that you make." Oak6:15 - why are you mad that someone holds you accountable? Do you point fingers or seek correction?23:40 - "Raise the quality of your words, not your voice." Oak. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesTHE PROCESS:
TRUST IT. RESPECT IT. EMBRACE IT.

In today’s episode, Ink and Oak discuss what it takes to sustain success and how to remain aware when life lessons are being taught. 2:08- Everything you go through is for a reason and has a purpose bigger than what you know at the time. Be aware of where you are when each purpose is realized, making necessary adjustments to support and accommodate the positive change. 6:10- If something in your life shows up unexpectedly, chances are it came to teach you a lesson. Study it, learn from it and, act on the lesson learned.17:00- After you've made the money and achieved the status, what makes you keep pushing and executing at the same or better levels? Once you’ve got what you came in search of, what’s your “why” to keep it up?20:00-  Your success came at a cost. To you and to those who laid the foundation and came before. Always be grateful for the opportunity and, for the sacrifice it took to get you where you are.34:24-The more you get, the more you give. Beware of becoming complacent or feeling you've done enough. There’s always more work to do. Check your motivations and re-engage.36:45- Be careful with how you describe your experience. They can be a tool to free another’s mind or a prion to jail yourself—words matter. Choose and speak only the best ones when discussing your journey.43:40- To what standard do you hold yourself? Never let the expectations, words, or actions of others dictate your behavior. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesTHE PROCESS:
TRUST IT. RESPECT IT. EMBRACE IT.

In today's episode Ink and Oak discuss the power of discernment, the process of becoming and unbecoming, and what it really means to be a good person.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesTHE PROCESS:
TRUST IT. RESPECT IT. EMBRACE IT.

How important is it to have good people around you? Who do you spend your time around? In this episode of Serendipity, Ink, and Oak discuss the importance of how the people around you in your circle of influence affect the quality of your life.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesTHE PROCESS:
TRUST IT. RESPECT IT. EMBRACE IT.

"Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are...let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow."In this episode Ink and Oak talk about the importance of acknowledging and appreciating the present. We are not promised tomorrow so live to appreciate right now.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesTHE PROCESS:
TRUST IT. RESPECT IT. EMBRACE IT.

How do you start your day? In this week's Inky and Oak discuss the importance of having a morning routine that becomes that "anchor" that allows you to have the most productive day possible. They also discuss the importance of locating your ego in every situation throughout your day.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesTHE PROCESS:
TRUST IT. RESPECT IT. EMBRACE IT.

In this episode, Inky and DeMarco discuss the power of submission with a focus on racism and sexism.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesTHE PROCESS:
TRUST IT. RESPECT IT. EMBRACE IT.

In this episode, Inky and DeMarco discuss living a life of authenticity and gratefulness. Gratitude is not just an emotion, it's a principle. No matter what happens, whether we're up or we're down, we should still be grateful. Why is that? It's because, there is a danger in going through life thinking, "When I get this or when I have that, then I'll be happy." Doing so robs us of the joy of happiness and contentment that can be ours at this stage of our journey. We have to be in a spirit of gratitude right now where we are right now. That grateful heart prepares us for more of God's blessings, favor, and responsibility.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesTHE PROCESS:
TRUST IT. RESPECT IT. EMBRACE IT.

Welcome to Season 2 of The Serendipity Podcast. In today's episode, Inky and our brand new cohost, DeMarco Mitchell spend some time talking about raising kids that are prepared for the future. Whether you are a parent, coach, mentor, educator, family member, or friend of a young person, there is something to be gleaned from this episode.DeMarco, an experienced educational professional, was one of the most influential teachers and coaches in Inky's life after being in his middle school math class. As a transformational educational leader, he has dedicated his life to the development and success of students and the educators who teach them.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesTHE PROCESS:
TRUST IT. RESPECT IT. EMBRACE IT.