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This episode features Christian, a fire prevention officer and fire investigator who previously worked as a fire safety inspector for the State of Colorado. Before entering the fire service, Christian spent 10 years in the U.S. Navy, giving him a unique perspective on discipline, leadership, service, risk, and life.

The conversation will explore Christian’s journey from the Navy into fire prevention and investigation, including what his work actually involves, memorable experiences, and the day to day.

Beyond his career, we’ll talk about what it’s like living in Colorado, how the state and its culture have changed, the cost of living and current economy, and Christian’s thoughts on money, success, and the future.

The episode will also take a more personal look at Christian’s life—his past experiences, lessons learned, goals, challenges, and what he wants the next chapter of his life to look like.

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Music:  "Everything Is Working Out" by Sarah, the Illstrumentalist, licensed under Epidemic Sound.  Original work available at https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/d82030d0-11ae-4ed6-b8c0-54046531b869/.

In this episode, my wife and I have an honest and relatable conversation about why as people, we care so much about what other people think of us. We talk about the need for approval, fear of judgment and rejection, comparison, and how social media has made other people’s opinions more visible than ever through likes, comments, views, and followers. 

We share some of the things we secretly care about being judged for and explore how those insecurities can start in childhood. We also discuss the comparison trap and whether we truly want what other people have or simply want to feel like we’re doing as well as everyone else. Most importantly, we talk about when other people’s opinions actually matter, how to consider the source, and what we might do differently if we knew nobody would judge us. We wrap up by reflecting on what we would tell our younger selves and the reminder that most people are far too busy worrying about what others think of them to spend as much time judging us as we imagine.

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In this episode, my wife and I reflect on 26 years of marriage and how our understanding of happiness has evolved over time. From serving together in the Marine Corps to navigating the highs and lows of family life, careers, and the everyday challenges that come with a long-term relationship, we've learned that happiness isn't a fixed destination—it's something that changes with each season of life.

We talk openly about how happiness means different things to each of us, why that's perfectly okay, and how mutual respect, communication, and a willingness to grow together have strengthened our marriage over the years. Rather than expecting to always see life through the same lens, we've discovered that embracing our differences has helped us build a deeper partnership.

Whether you're newly married, have been together for decades, or simply want to strengthen your relationships, this conversation offers honest insights into commitment, resilience, and finding joy in the journey together. Our hope is that our experiences remind you that lasting happiness isn't about perfection—it's about choosing each other, adapting through life's changes, and continuing to grow side by side.

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Music:  "Everything Is Working Out" by Sarah, the Illstrumentalist, licensed under Epidemic Sound.  Original work available at https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/d82030d0-11ae-4ed6-b8c0-54046531b869/.

In this episode, I sit down with professional wrestler, musician, YouTuber, and JK Today Show host Kadin Anthony for a fun, laid-back conversation over a couple of beers. We dive into his journey in professional wrestling, discussing how he got started, his tag team history, career highlights, and the accolades he's earned along the way. Beyond the ring, we talk about his passion for music, including playing guitar, bass, and other instruments, as well as his experience creating content through the JK Today Show. 

Our conversation also ventures into some entertaining rabbit holes, covering topics like cryptocurrency, aliens, and a variety of other interests that make Kadin such a unique guest. It was a relaxed, entertaining discussion filled with great stories, laughs, and plenty of insight into both his career and the many passions that keep him busy outside of wrestling.

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In this episode, I sit down with my wife, my sister, and one of our closest family friends (who's basically another sister) for a fun, honest conversation about husbands. We cover the little things that drive them crazy, the classic husband habits they've learned to laugh about, the things husbands tend to exaggerate, and some of the hilarious double standards that show up in marriage.

From relatable stories to playful roasting, this episode is full of laughs, good-natured banter, and plenty of moments that will have both husbands and wives nodding in agreement. Whether you're married, dating, or just enjoy hearing authentic conversations about relationships, you'll find something to relate to.

Grab your spouse—or don't, if you want to hear the "behind-the-scenes" perspective first—and enjoy this lighthearted episode filled with humor, honesty, and a reminder not to take ourselves too seriously.

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In this episode, I have a phone conversation with my longtime friend Marcus to catch up and reflect on a journey that's taken us from the Marine Corps to family life, faith, and everything in between.

We talk about how we first met in the Marines, the experiences that shaped us, and what life looked like after hanging up the uniform. We dive into the challenges of transitioning to civilian life, raising kids, being husbands and fathers, and how our faith has influenced the men we've become.

Of course, we couldn't help but laugh about some of the wild stories from our younger days and compare them to the much calmer (and hopefully wiser) lives we live now. We also take a detour into one of our favorite topics—Texas BBQ—and debate what makes it so special.

Whether you're a veteran, a parent, someone navigating life's transitions, or just enjoy honest conversations between old friends, this episode is full of laughs, memories, and real talk about where we've been and where we're headed.

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In this episode, we sit down with Vanessa to talk about the realities of office life, the importance of taking care of your health, and how small, intentional changes can make a big difference both at work and at home.  

We share workplace experiences, discuss the everyday challenges that come with balancing work and personal life, and explore the idea of "micro adjustments"- small habits and mindset shifts that can improve productivity, reduce stress, and create lasting positive change.  From staying active during the workday and building healthier routines to finding balance outside the office, we dive into practical tips that anyone can apply.  

Along the way, we reflect on lessons we've learned, laugh about relatable office moments, and remind ourselves that personal growth doesn't have to come from major life overhauls.  Sometimes the smallest changes lead to the biggest results. Vanessa also shares her life outside of work and shares her journey to becoming a wrestler!

Whether you're working in an office, remotely, or simply looking for ways to improve your daily routine, this conversation offers a mix of humor, real-life experiences, and actionable ideas to help you become just a little better every day.

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Music:  "Everything Is Working Out" by Sarah, the Illstrumentalist, licensed under Epidemic Sound.  Original work available at https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/d82030d0-11ae-4ed6-b8c0-54046531b869/.

In this episode, I talk to a phone guest, Christian Navarro,  a fellow retired Marine and a close friend to discuss his book , "Empowerment Through The Darkness, a deeply personal look at the internal struggles many people face but rarely talk about.  We explore his journey from childhood and military service to becoming an author, and how those experiences shaped both his strengths and his inner battles.

A major focus of our conversation is the "inner critic" - the internal voice that can drive high performance on the outside while creating doubt, pressure, and self-criticism on the inside.  He shares how this voice showed up in his life, how it influenced his relationships, leadership, and sense of identity, and what it took to finally begin confronting it rather than suppressing it.  

We also talk through some of the darker seasons of his life, including the moments that forced him to pause and reevaluate everything.  From there, we move into what healing and growth looked like for him- what helped him turn things around, how his perspective on strength has evolved, and the role that discipline, awareness, and support  systems played in the process.

The conversation also dives into why he felt compelled to write this book, who it's intended to help, and what he hopes readers take away from it.  At its core, this is a story about learning to face internal struggles head-on and finding empowerment not by ignoring the darkness, but by working through it.

We close with reflections on leadership, military culture, and mental resilience, along with practical insights for anyone who may be dealing with their own inner battles.  This episode is ultimately about growth, honesty, and the reminder that real strength often comes from confronting what's happening within us-not just what the world sees on the outside.

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Music:  "Everything Is Working Out" by Sarah, the Illstrumentalist, licensed under Epidemic Sound.  Original work available at https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/d82030d0-11ae-4ed6-b8c0-54046531b869/.

In this episode, my wife Mirlein and I have an honest conversation about our recent family vacation to Hawaii with out teenage and adult children.  We reflect on why we choose Hawaii, what made the trip memorable, and how family vacations have evolved as the kids have grown older.

Together, we share our favorite experiences- from the beautiful beaches and great meals, breathtaking sunsets and unexpected moments that made the trip special.  We also discuss the realities of traveling as a family, including the different personalities, interests, and travel styles that come with having teenager and adult children, and how those differences can make for some of the best memories.

The conversation also takes a trip down memory lane as we compare our Hawaii vacation to past family adventures.  We reminisce about some of our favorite destinations, laugh about travel mishaps and unexpected surprises, and reflect on how each vacation has created lasting memories and strengthened our family bond.  

Throughout the episode, we share funny moments, discuss what what we have learned over years or traveling together, and talk about how making time for family  has become even more meaningful as our children have grown.  We also touch on the importance of balancing planning with spontaneity, embracing the unexpected, and appreciating the moments that often become the stories families tell for years to come.  

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In this episode, my wife and I sit down with Daisy, a case worker to talk about the realities of helping people through some of life's most difficult situations. We discuss what her job is really like, the challenges and rewards that come with it, and the lessons she's learned about resilience, human nature, and compassion. 

Beyond work, we also dive into everyday life, personal growth, friendships, hobbies, and what it takes to maintain balance while supporting others. It's an honest, thoughtful conversation filled with insights, laughs, and real-life perspective.

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