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In this powerful conversation, Chris sits down with Joe Madison, founder of Demand Disruption, an organization dedicated to ending human trafficking by addressing the demand side—the buyers. Joe exposes some of the hardest truths about exploitation, pornography, and the cultural attitudes that fuel the trafficking market.

This episode is a wake-up call for men pursuing purity, integrity, and Christ-centered recovery. Joe explains why fighting demand is essential, how pornography shapes buyer behavior, and what real change looks like inside our churches, communities, and personal lives.

If you’ve ever wondered how your pursuit of purity connects to the fight against human trafficking, this episode will connect the dots in ways you’ve likely never heard before.

Demand Disruption – Learn more about Joe’s work: www.demanddisruption.org

Disruption University – Training and education programs: disruptionu.demanddisruption.org

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The first 90 days of recovery can feel overwhelming, disorienting, and emotionally exhausting — but they’re also the most transformational part of the journey. In this episode, Chris walks through what makes the early stages of recovery so challenging and what actually works to build a strong foundation for sexual purity.

Through teaching, Scripture, and the real story of a man named “Michael,” you’ll learn why the first 90 days matter, why they’re spiritually strategic, and how to navigate them with honesty, community, structure, and surrender.

Recovery doesn’t begin with strength — it begins with brokenness.
 And that’s exactly where God begins to rebuild.

“The first 90 days aren’t about perfection — they’re about direction.”

Recovery Plan can be found by clicking here: Recovery Plan

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Join Chris today as he interviews Brian Shillingburg. Brian is the founder of 9th Inning Project, where he walks with men out of pornography and sexual compulsivity through honest conversation, courageous accountability, and the transforming power of Jesus Christ. A certified Sexual Addiction Recovery Coach (SARC) with a master’s in education, Brian has spent his 25-year career developing people, building teams, and mentoring men through life’s most defining challenges—drawing deeply from his own journey through addiction and redemption. He coaches men 1:1 and in small groups and equips churches and leaders with practical pathways toward reconciliation and lasting freedom.

Learn more: 9thInningProject.com | [email protected]

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Today, Chris is interviewing Dan Johnson. Dan was on Episode 106 where he introduced his P.A.T.H. Plan. Today, he unpacks more of his strategy for recovery by telling us about a concept he calls the Frontline Framework. 

In order to have a solid recovery, you first have to have a solid plan. The Frontline Framework challenges you to have a predetermined plan, awareness of the moment, and reasons to implement the plan.

To learn more about Dan and the Groups he offers go to NewPaths.me.

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Many of us men don’t understand how to relate to our addiction with compassion. We get sober by suppressing the “addict parts” of our mind, without realizing the roots of our behaviors and what those parts were trying to do for us. We sit on top of them, try to control ourselves, and force our way through recovery. There is a better way. It is rooted in Christ. I teach my clients a systematic approach to utilize emotional mindfulness, parts work, embodiment, and self-compassion to use painful emotions like addiction cravings to deepen self-understanding and self-love, so they can lose their need for addiction over time.

Today Chris interviews Jake Kastleman. Jake is the founder of NoMoreDesire.com, a Christ-centered platform dedicated to helping men break free from unwanted sexual behavior and live whole, healed, and holy lives. What sets Jake apart is his deep commitment to inner transformation, not just outward sobriety. Through his writing, coaching, and online resources, Jake challenges men to do more than stop sinning—he invites them to start healing.

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In this episode, Chris wraps up the series on the Transformational Recovery Matrix (TRM) by equipping men with a practical Transformation Playbook. After exploring the four quadrants—Trivial, Trapped, Transactional, and Transformational—we now land on the heart of the journey: becoming the man God has called you to be.

This conversation isn’t about trying harder or managing your image—it’s about surrender, integrity, and living for Christ as your foundation. Whether you’re single, married, or divorced, God’s invitation remains the same: step into wholeness and freedom in Him.

Chris walks through:

Resources & Next Steps

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In this episode, Chris unpacks the Transformational Recovery Matrix—a simple but powerful way to see where you are in your recovery journey. The four quadrants—Trivial, Trapped, Transactional, and Transformational—show the difference between just managing sin and truly living free.

Chris shares his own turning point, when recovery stopped being a fight to “just stop sinning” and became a pursuit of wholeness. He explains the five core traits of transformational living—Integrity, Honesty & Transparency, Intimacy with Christ, Living with Purpose, and Gospel Dependence—along with real-life examples and practical steps any man can start today.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in shame, tired of white-knuckling your way through temptation, or wondered why sobriety still feels empty, this episode will help you shift from behavior management to heart transformation.

Key Scriptures: Proverbs 10:9, 1 John 1:7, John 15:5, Ephesians 2:10, 2 Corinthians 12:9

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 In this episode, we explore the Transactional Quadrant—where recovery becomes more about checking boxes than changing hearts. You may be sober, but are you truly free?

We discuss the difference between compliance and transformation, the trap of religious performance, and how to let your tools (filters, check-ins, groups) lead to real intimacy with Jesus.

Reflection Questions:

Quote:

“The real blessing is not the sobriety we seek, but the journey we walk.” – Mark Denison

Next Episode: Transformational: Where Freedom Gets Real

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Welcome back to The Purity Podcast, sponsored by Castimonia, a Christ-centered 12-step recovery program for men battling sexual addiction.

In today’s episode, we dive into the Trapped Quadrant of the Transformational Recovery Matrix—the place where denial stops working but true change still feels impossible.

The Wall — When your old excuses collapse under the weight of reality.
The Shame Spiral — Bouncing between guilt and secret promises that never last.
From Trying Harder to Trusting Deeper — Why real freedom isn’t about willpower, but surrender.

If you feel stuck, ashamed, or exhausted from trying harder—this episode is for you.

Because freedom doesn’t start with perfection.
It starts with pursuit.

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In this powerful episode, Chris continues the series on the Transformational Recovery Matrix (TRM) by diving deep into the Trivial Quadrant—where most men begin their journey into recovery.

Marked by low awareness and low action, the Trivial Quadrant is where denial thrives. It’s the place of rationalizations, secrets, and shallow commitment. Chris shares personal experiences, insights from the TRM, and hard-hitting truths about how living in denial stunts real healing.

If you’ve ever thought, “It’s not that bad,” or found yourself hiding behind religious routines while avoiding real surrender, this episode is your wake-up call.

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