Hey, it’s great to have you here! This week, I’m sharing some personal reflections on a topic I think we’ve all dealt with: disappointment, especially when things beyond our control don’t pan out as planned.

I’m opening up about the long wait for a promised promotion—a journey that many can relate to. It’s been tough waiting for over seven months while trying to stay motivated and handle the frustration of feeling stuck. In these situations, it can be tempting to let the resentment build, but I’ve realized how important it is to handle it in a constructive way.

Here’s what I’ve learned about dealing with these situations:

1. Keep the Lines Open: Don’t be afraid to periodically check in. Just make sure it’s spaced out and respectful. It helps signal to your employer that this is important to you.
2. Negotiate and State Your Worth: If there’s a delay, don’t hesitate to share your goals and expectations. If things are pushed further down the road, make it clear that you expect the terms to reflect your growth and dedication.
3. Explore Income Alternatives: Losing out on expected income can be frustrating, especially if you’ve been planning big moves (like home buying). Whether it’s freelancing, selling art, or a weekend gig like Uber, consider small side hustles that don’t add too much to your workload but can help you meet your financial goals in the meantime.

Your Growth is Worth Advocating For

Remember, it’s okay to expect more for yourself as you continue to grow. I believe we owe it to ourselves to ask for what we’re worth and to communicate that we’re not just waiting around. If your promotion or raise doesn’t come, keep moving forward. And always, always keep fighting for what you need to succeed.

Thanks for listening, and remember—you’re not alone in dealing with disappointment. Take care, and I’ll talk to you in the next episode!

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In this episode, I discuss the importance of automating your finances to save more effectively, particularly during busy work seasons. I share my personal strategy of splitting direct deposits between checking and savings accounts to ensure forced savings.

Additionally, I provide tips on automating regular transactions and how scheduling such transfers can help build financial security without the temptation to overspend. Automations and scheduled transactions can change your approach to saving, making it easier to build a financial cushion.

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In this inaugural guest episode, I bring on my friend Anna, a seasoned realtor from Minnesota, to delve into the intricate process of buying a house. We discuss the key steps and financial considerations for first-time homebuyers, covering topics like down payment, earnest money, inspection costs, and closing fees. Anna shares her journey from education to real estate, her experiences during the COVID pandemic, and how market shifts have altered buying dynamics.

We also explore the nuances of working with lenders and realtors, negotiating commissions, and the importance of understanding homeowner association (HOA) fees and regulations. This episode provides essential guidance and practical tips for anyone looking to buy a home.

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In this episode, I share my experiences and thoughts on body positivity and self-love. From attending a thrilling pole dancing show to discussing societal pressures on body image, I emphasize the importance of loving our bodies while recognizing the desire for change.

I offer practical tips for fostering self-acceptance, such as standing naked in front of a mirror and focusing on positive traits. I encourage you to appreciate and celebrate your unique beauty, and to pursue changes that make you happy while maintaining self-love. Remember, it's okay to love yourself and want to change simultaneously.

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In this episode, I share my personal experience with managing finances, including the perks of summer Fridays at my company, enjoying time off, and the challenges of financial planning.

I discuss the importance of having a logical mindset when it comes to money, despite the common adult frustrations like paying bills. I cover the need to have a clear understanding of your income and expenses, making informed decisions about significant investments like buying a house, and setting realistic financial goals. I also share personal stories about financial mistakes and the importance of having contingency plans.

The main takeaway is to dream big, but approach your finances with a logical and actionable plan to achieve your goals successfully.

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Hey there! In today's episode, I share my recent trip to Nashville and emphasize the importance of balancing practical financial management with big dreams and excitement. I'll dive into how I've been planning to buy a house, despite the logical challenges, and how I stay motivated by visualizing and embracing the fun aspects of money.

We also cover the importance of gratitude and imaginative planning, whether saving for a vacation, investing in stocks, or any other financial goals. Ultimately, it's all about dreaming big and letting our money mindset be driven by joy and excitement.

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In this special episode recorded on my 36th birthday, I reflect on my recent challenges and aspirations, particularly my goal of buying a house. I discuss the concept of the 'glass ceiling' and how our self-imposed limitations can hinder our growth.

I share my personal journey of overcoming financial constraints and shifting my money mindset to aim higher. Despite fears and uncertainties, I emphasize the importance of continuously pushing past these barriers to create new opportunities. Join me as we explore how to break through our limitations, embrace change, and achieve our dreams.

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In this episode  I dive into the real issues many of us encounter due to post-COVID effects, inflation, and increasing expenses. I discuss how to focus and budget when money is tight.

The key takeaway is to identify your primary focus or goal and build your budget around it, making necessary adjustments, and recognizing what is within your control. I give practical advice on managing expenses, considering extra income, and navigating the difficulties of financial uncertainty. This episode is a real talk on surviving and planning amidst financial challenges, emphasizing resilience and prioritization

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In this episode, I reflect on a joyful weekend at Disneyland with friends and shift focus to discussing significant financial concerns women face. Topics include societal debates on women's roles, the undervaluation of stay-at-home moms, the importance of financial involvement, the pay disparity between men and women, and challenges like the 'pink tax.'

Emphasizing the need for women to be compensated fairly and involved in household finances, I also encourage women to ask for raises and promotions, while advocating for broader societal changes. The episode aims to raise awareness and inspire action towards financial equity for women.

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In this episode, I discuss the unique financial challenges that men face today, rooted in societal expectations and traditional roles. I share personal anecdotes about sleep issues due to noisy neighbors and the stress of early morning routines.

I emphasize the historical and ongoing pressures on men to be providers, the societal trends reinforcing these expectations, and how these pressures impact men's mental health.

I argue for a balanced partnership where both parties contribute equally and challenge the notion that a man's value is solely based on his financial success. I also suggest ways to have constructive conversations about finances with partners to mitigate these stresses.

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