Sex & Bacon

Learn how spirituality and sexuality are intertwined.

Joining me is Kortni Chimko, and she is the CEO of Touch of Serenity & Co-Founder of Wholistic Co., Kokoro and Jade and the Soul Haven Podcast. She is an Aesthetician, Reiki Practitioner and Oracle/Angel card reader.

Kortni has a huge passion for helping others and within the last five years has really dove into her spiritual & health journey. She is certified in level 1 & 2 reiki and uses her healing gifts on herself and integrates it into her businesses. Kortni is the host of the Soul Haven Podcast where she chats openly and honestly about all topics from health, spirituality, business and more. No topic is off limits. Kortni and her guests use Soul Haven as a safe space with no judgment to share experiences, journeys and to educate her listeners each week.

We get into:

• [1:45] How Kortni got into this work
• [4:30] Finding balance between spirituality and healing
• [11:30] The judgment we put on ourselves when it comes to sex
• [14:30] How to protect our energy when with different sexual partners
• [24:45] Honouring your own sexual needs
• [32:45] The taboo parts we need to unlearn when it comes to sex and sexuality
• [35:45] How Kortni honours her own sexuality

Connect with Kortni

• Instagram: www.instagram.com/soulhavenpodcast
• Instagram: www.instagram.com/kokoroandjade
• Instagram: www.instagram.com/touchofserenity
• www.kokoroandjade.com
• 20% off entire order (code doesn't expire) - www.kokoroandjade.com

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• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ownyourerotic

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065

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So, you get a booty call and he wants you to come over in an hour. WTF? There's prep work that goes into showing up for a booty call, and we're talking all about it.

What do women do that guys don't? What do guys need to know about their own prep work (hint: rinse your d*ck)? We cover it all in this episode.

We get into:

• [1:40] The personal and house prep that goes into a booty call
• [3:30] Why what you ate that day matters
• [7:10] Do men judge if you haven't prepped for your booty call?
• [13:20] The prep men should do (and don't always do)
• [33:15] Cut off times for booty calls

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• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065

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Can men and women really be friends?

In part 1 of this episode, we're sharing our thoughts on if men and women can really be friends.

Obviously this kind of friendship is more complex, especially when you start dating someone new, and want to hear what you think – can men and women really be friends?

We get into:

• [5:10] Is there always sexual intention in men and women relationships?
• [9:45] Can you trust if your partner has a best friend of the opposite sex?
• [14:50] Would you feel threatened if your man had a girl best friend?
• [20:40] Does feeling threatened come from feeling insecure?
• [22:05] Have you ever received a breakup text from your best friend of the opposite sex?
• [29:25] Do you think men and women can be friends?

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• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065

• Email us: [email protected]

In this episode, we're talking about what happens at swingers' clubs with Franco Malanga.

Franco spent 32 years as a firefighter and 28 years as an emergency medical professional. He started the development of The Hive about three years ago. The club launched 12 months ago and it's been a wild ride ever since.

He has been in the lifestyle since 2010.

We get into:

• [1:10] How Franco got into the industry
• [3:30] The swingers lifestyle
• [13:20] How people get into the lifestyle
• [19:05] How the rooms and spaces within the club work
• [25:30] How they ensure safe sex
• [34:35] Handling the fear of rejection

Connect with me

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ownyourerotic

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065

• Email us: [email protected]

In this episode, we're talking about our turn ons and turn offs.

Ever wonder what turns us on? And what turns us off? You might be surprised to hear how ridiculous (in Darby's words) some of them are!

We get into:

• [8:15] Sarah's number one sex bucket list item
• [9:55] Sarah's biggest turn offs
• [13:35] Darby's biggest turn ons
• [25:30] Does size matter?
• [31:25] How we feel about men who play video games
• [34:55] Our love languages

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• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ownyourerotic

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065

• Email us: [email protected]

In this episode, we're talking about BDSM and polyamory with Jill McLennen.

Jill is a Certified Death Doula which is a non-medical person trained to care for someone holistically at the end of life. She offers support, preparation, and soul-level healing to her clients in person and virtually through her work as a death doula and end-of-life coach.

In addition to being a death doula, Jill is a trauma-sensitive yoga instructor, and she also uses reiki and shamanic healing techniques to help her clients heal their fears around death and dying as well as work with their grief.

We get into:

• [1:25] How Jill got into BDSM and polyamorous relationships
• [8:10] How their polyamorous relationship started
• [12:05] Does polyamory create feelings of jealousy?
• [16:55] How to set and keep boundaries
• [21:05] Talking to her kids about their polyamorous relationship
• [27:45] Letting go of what other people think
• [44:15] Why women tend to please men more
• [50:40] Why we have unfulfilling sex

Connect with Jill

• http://www.instagram.com/endoflifeclarity
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillmcclennen
• https://m.facebook.com/endoflifeclarity
• https://www.facebook.com/groups/endoflifeclaritycircle/
• https://www.endoflifeclarity.com

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• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065

• Email us: [email protected]

In this episode, we're talking about what's on our sex bucket lists.

Do you have one? Would you make one?

We talk about Sarah's sex bucket list and make one for Darby since she says she doesn't have one.

We get into:

• [2:00 What's on Sarah's sex bucket list
• [10:35] Crazy places to have sex
• [12:50] Celebrities we would have sex with
• [19:45] The most wild things on our sex bucket lists
• [21:10] Do we need to get back out there?

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• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ownyourerotic

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065

• Email us: [email protected]

In this episode, we're talking about how to have an open relationship, and joining me is Gayle Lynn.

Gayle Lynn is a relationship coach focused on "What do you do when your partner wants to have sex with another person?" or maybe "You want to have sex with someone else?"

She has a passion to empower women to make educated choices about their relationships. She has personally experienced her spouse coming to her and expressing his desire to have sex with someone else, as shares in this episode.

So many people will go out and cheat on their partner when there is a better way to handle the situation. Creating open and honest communication is key in these situations. Big feelings come up and many people don't know how to process them. Having someone who has no agenda and creates a space where there will be no shame or guilt is what her clients experience.

We get into:

• [0:55] How Gayle's husband asked her for an open relationship
• [6:15] Orgasmic meditation
• [11:40] Gayle's thoughts on open relationships at the beginning
• [13:35] How they set rules in their open relationship
• [17:25] How to navigate your partner asking you for an open relationship
• [20:15] How their community, friends and family reacted
• [29:50] The difference between polyamorous relationships and open relationships
• [38:25] Three things you need consider when asking your partner for an open relationship

Connect with Gayle

• Instagram: www.instagram.com/Relationships_Evolving
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipsEvolving
• Facebook Group for Women: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshipsevolving
• https://relationshipsevolving.com

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• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ownyourerotic

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065

• Email us: [email protected]

In this episode, we're talking about all things monogamy and why people cheat.

Do you think people are meant to be monogamous in relationships? Should people be able to have sex with whoever they want? How do you put boundaries on this and talk to your partner about it?

All the deets are in this episode!

We get into:

• [1:15] What we think of dad bods
• [9:20] Is monogamy natural or not?
• [12:45] Why monogamy is a struggle for most people
• [14:30] Would Sarah ever cheat?
• [17:00] Could Darby be in an open relationship?
• [20:15] Meeting our partners' sexual needs
• [21:40] Emotional connection vs. physical cheating
• [26:05] Why people cheat

Connect with me

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ownyourerotic

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065

• Email us: [email protected]

We're talking about what they don't tell you about OnlyFans and adult content with guest Sabrina Schultz.

Sabrina is married with two children. She has struggled with mental health her entire life and recently lost her mother.

She self published and self narrated a book called train ride, which is a memoir. She also has a podcast called Train Ride and collaborates on another one called TBA with two co-hosts.

She now does adult content, which has helped her feel good in her own skin, and she's sharing the behind the scenes with us in this episode.

We get into:

• [1:20] Sabrina's background and how she got into adult content
• [4:05] The amount of work it takes to have an OnlyFans account
• [6:05] Does content get leaked?
• [8:30] Collaborating on content with her husband
• [12:30] How her husband reacted to her doing adult content
• [18:55] Setting boundaries with clients
• [23:30] The weirdest things people have asked her to do
• [25:55] How adult content has impacted their sex life
• [33:30] Normalizing creating adult content online
• [36:00] How other parents respond and judge

Connect with Sabrina!

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Color_My_World_pretty
• https://www.unfiltrd.com/cataleyafrost

Connect with me

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ownyourerotic

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065

• Email us: [email protected]