SEX COMMUNICATION

Today's episode features Malva Gasowski, international best selling author, business coach, trainer, family counselor and parenting coach. Malva is also the creator of Coaching - Mother and All, an online resource for parents and caregivers.

In today’s interview, we discuss the very practical need for open communication about sex with partners and with children. As a mother, wife and experienced coach in all matters of family relationships, Malva has a great deal of expertise to share about how biology and socialization play into our understanding of sex. And of course, as with all my guests, we discuss her intimate, personal experiences, specifically as they relate to motherhood and long-term monogamy.

Links to our guest and her work:
https://www.coaching-mother-and-all.com/
https://www.facebook.com/coaching.mother.and.all/
https://www.facebook.com/malva.gasowski.coaching/about

It's the audio porn episode for July!

Today's audio submission is from "Anonymous Couple #2" who you may remember from Episode 101: A Couple Uses Toys (And Oral, And Oil, And Toe Sucking...) 

Said couple included a handy description along with their recording to give some context:
"Hello Brianne. It's us again from episode 101. We had some fun today and I actually remembered to hit record, lol. I have become very interested in rope play lately so I've been reading and researching it. Today was our first attempt at bringing it into playtime. I did a tie that secured her Hitachi magic wand up to her pussy for hands-free play. I also used our under bed restraints to secure her hands and feet down. I tried edging her but she's such an easy cum I had to be fast with turning it off and on. I had the best luck with the setting that starts off low and ramps up to high then back down over and over. Then I'd turn the wand up to solid high vibe which would force her to cum over and over. At the end of the audio, there's a short blowjob and I fucked her from behind for a short time but she was ready for a break. I stopped recording at that time. We picked up again after a short break. I'll send that recording and description in a separate email. Use them if you want, if not that's ok too." 

This recording is fire and another demonstration of how hot sex can be in a long-term relationships (they've been married for 28 years!!!). Enjoy!

***Submit your own audio! Send files to [email protected] -- all submissions are 100% anonymous *unless you want your identity to be shared. As host and producer, I am the only person who will ever have access to your message or files.

Until next week!

The final episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. Next week, July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. Please pick up some tickets to the events now if you haven’t already done so. 

Today’s interview is with the founder of The Black Sex Worker Collective, Akynos. July 22nd is also Akynos’ 43rd birthday, hence the 22 hours of events and $43,000 financial goal. My guest has worked in the sex industry for nearly 30 years and has plenty of experience to share. In this episode, we discuss how and why she created the Black Sex Worker Collective, why she is personally celibate, what we can expect from her appearances at the fundraiser, and future BSWC projects.

Event information:
Tickets / Info: Black Sex Workers Collective 22-Hour Fundraiser Event
The Opening Party (by donation)
Tickets to The Psychosis of Whiteness

General information:
The Black Sex Worker Collective
BSWC Twitter / Instagram
Some information about the fight for Sex Worker rights:
https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/05/04/sex-workers-struggle-survive-covid-19-pandemic
https://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalized

More information about today's guest:
Akynos Website
Twitter / Instagram

This is the fourth episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. Starting with Episode 115, each weekly episode up until the event will feature some of the many performers and activists who are scheduled. You can catch up on this series, and all of our episodes, at anytime on sexcompod.com. 

The stigma of sex affects many things and the treatment of sex workers is but one example. Sex workers face discrimination, prosecution and an absence of basic labor rights. As we approach the close of this series, I hope these interviews have created awareness and inspired not only compassion, but supportive action as well. 

Today’s interview is with Antonia Crane and AM Davies, two members of Soldiers of Pole, a Stripper Union Movement. During the July 22nd fundraiser, Soldiers of Pole will host Strippers Unite; a performance and Q&A about organizing and strippers in the midst of a pandemic during an uprising. In this episode we discuss the lack of labor rights facing sex workers in the U.S., visions for a better future, misconceptions about the work, and some personal details about our guests.

Event information:
Tickets / Info: Black Sex Workers Collective 22-Hour Fundraiser Event
Tickets to the Soldiers of Pole Event: Strippers Unite — Performance and Q&A

General information:
The Black Sex Worker Collective
Some information about the fight for Sex Worker rights:
https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/05/04/sex-workers-struggle-survive-covid-19-pandemic
https://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalized

More information about today's guests and their personal projects:
Soldiers Of Pole Website
Antonia Crane Website
AM Davies Website

Today is the third episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. As of June 18th, each weekly episode up until the event will feature some of the many performers and activists who are scheduled. You can catch up on this series, and all of our episodes, at anytime on sexcompod.com. 

This show is about destroying the stigma of sex, and the fact of sex workers facing discrimination, prosecution and an absence of basic labor rights, is a demonstration of this stigma. It is my hope, that with every episode in this series, you, the listener, become more informed, compassionate, and inspired to take supportive action.

In today’s show, I speak with Arabella Allure, a burlesque performer, advocate, and event organizer. Arabella and Salty Bisch Creations will be presenting a performance showcase of the top BIPOC Artists from Western Canada. Like our last guest, Arabella is also originally from Australia, though now based in Calgary Canada. We discuss the challenges and benefits of stripping, along with how engaging in sex work challenges cultural patriarchy.

Event information:
Tickets / Info: Black Sex Workers Collective 22-Hour Fundraiser Event
Tickets to Arabella's Event: Salty Bisch Creations — The Patio Below; BIPOC Performer Showcase

General information:
The Black Sex Worker Collective
Some information about the fight for Sex Worker rights:
https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/05/04/sex-workers-struggle-survive-covid-19-pandemic
https://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalized

More information about today's guest:
Arabella Allure: Instagram / Twitter
Salty Bisch Creations: Facebook / Instagram / Twitter

Today is the second episode in our 5-show series produced in collaboration with The Black Sex Worker Collective. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity, to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by COVID-19. As of June 18th, each weekly episode up until the event will feature some of the many performers and activists who are scheduled. You can catch up on this series, and all of our episodes, at anytime on sexcompod.com. 

It can not be said enough that sex workers are under attack and in need of our support. As this show is about destroying the stigma of sex, the issue of sex worker rights is absolutely in alignment with our mission, and I am pleased to offer the platform of this podcast to raise awareness and affect positive change.

In this episode, I speak with PJ Starr, a documentary filmmaker and sex workers’ rights activist. During the fundraiser, PJ and the New Jersey Red Umbrella Alliance (NJRUA) will host Goddesses in the Garden State; a 2-hour block of cocktail recipes, music, film and a panel discussion of Black sex workers in film. PJ is originally from Australia but currently based in New Jersey, and we discuss why the plight of sex workers is so important to her, how she became interested in the subject of sex work, and why she self-describes as having “transcended kink.”

Event information:
Tickets / Info: Black Sex Workers Collective 22-Hour Fundraiser Event
Tickets to PJ's Event: Goddesses In The Garden State

General information:
The Black Sex Worker Collective
Some information about the fight for Sex Worker rights:
https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/05/04/sex-workers-struggle-survive-covid-19-pandemic
https://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalized
The New Jersey Red Umbrella Alliance (NJRUA)

More information about today's guest:
PJ's website of professional work
June 28th Film Screening

Today is the first of a series of episodes I’m doing with The Black Sex Worker Collective to promote their upcoming fundraiser next month. On July 22nd, the collective will host a 22-hour event called Who’s Allowed To Make Money? Workers In Solidarity. It is both a celebration and grassroots fundraising campaign to support sex workers and other freelance artists directly impacted by current circumstances, who are all too often Black, and people of color.

This collaboration is but one of the many ways the SEX COMMUNICATION Podcast, and GRAPHICPAINT, are offering support to the Black community and sex workers everywhere — I encourage you to do the same. If you are a listener of this show, you know that the goal is to destroy the stigmatization around sex through honest exploration of its reality. Sex work is necessary, useful, and deserves as much discussion, respect and exploration as any other topic.

In today’s episode, I speak with Dan of Kinky in Wonderland, who will be hosting an online Introduction to Bondage during the July 22nd event. Dan is also based in Berlin and we discuss his experiences with sex-based work, kink, discrimination and activism.

Event information:
Tickets / Info: Black Sex Workers Collective 22-Hour Fundraiser Event
Tickets to Dan's Event: Bondage Online

General information:
The Black Sex Worker Collective
Some information about the fight for Sex Worker rights:
https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/05/04/sex-workers-struggle-survive-covid-19-pandemic
https://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalized

More information about today's guest:
https://www.gay-BDSM.club
https://www.kinky-in-wonderland.de/
https://www.kinky-in-wonderland.de/bondage-online
In preparation: www.bondage-online.com

Some audio porn for the month of June -- here's hoping this crowdsourced clip will bring some much-needed levity and light to the world.

This episode features "C" and "H" who you may remember from Episode 91: When "C" Met "H" And Then Got "Freaky"

"C" appeared earlier on this show when we discussed differing opinions about the importance of dick size; catch up with Episode 65: The Great Tiny Penis Debate 

Till next week...

In honor of George Floyd's memorial, I am using the platform of this show to support those protesting systemic racism around the world. Today's episode features a segment of audio recorded at a peaceful protest in New York City followed by 8 minutes and 46 seconds of silence dedicated to George Floyd.

This fight needs your support. Below is a list of organizations battling racial injustice; please donate your time and funding.

The Bail Project: A national non-profit organization designed to combat mass incarceration by disrupting the money bail system, one person at a time.

Black Lives Matter: A global organization in the US, UK and Canada, whose mission is to eradicate white supremacy and build local power to intervene in violence inflicted on Black communities by the state and vigilantes.

Campaign Zero: Utilizes research-based policy solutions to end police brutality in the U.S.

Color Of Change: The nation’s largest online racial justice organization.

The Innocence Project: Exonerates the wrongly convicted through DNA testing and reforms the criminal justice system to prevent future injustice.

Movement for Black Lives: Supports Black-led rapid response efforts and long-term strategy, policy and infrastructure investments in the movement ecosystem.

NAACP: NAACP’s mission is to secure the political, educational, social and economic equality of rights in order to eliminate race-based discrimination and ensure the health and well-being of all persons.

National Bail Fund Network: A full directory of bail funds by state

National Bail Out:  A Black-led and Black-centered collective of abolitionist organizers, lawyers and activists building a community-based movement to support our folks and end systems of pretrial detention and ultimately mass incarceration.

***Don't forget June is also Pride month -- visit GRAPHICPAINT for links to LGBTQ+ organizations supporting people of color

Till next week...

My conversation with Jonas, a grad student and photographer who has already come to know more about himself sexually at the age of 24 than most people do in a lifetime. We talk about what being queer means to him and all the many many things he's explored so far.

If you'd like to connect with Jonas, here are his social profiles and links to his photography:

FetLife Profile
Instagram
Photography 

Til next week!