SEX COMMUNICATION

An interview with “C” and “H” about all the sexy sex stuff happening in their new relationship

You may remember “C” from Episode 65: The Great Tiny Penis Debate — he kept in touch after the recording to let me know that after all his pessimism about finding a sexually compatible partner, the miracle finally happened and so here we are today…

And, here are the two orgy-describing episodes mentioned:

Episode 60: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 8/19 - 8/25/19

Episode 86: [QUICKIE] How I Got Off 11/18 - 11/24/19

Improved sexual activity! I masturbated Thursday and watched someone else masturbate Saturday…

Also! The bad porn I watched while beating off Thursday has inspired a new segment: “UNSOLICITED ADVICE.” Do with it what you will because it may very well be bad advice as it is based solely on my own opinion and personal feelings. But also it may just save you from some future embarrassment so give it a listen?

As to the subject of said segment of “UNSOLICITED ADVICE,” the topics at hand are: sunglasses on naked people doing sexy things and young men bringing magnum condoms to new sexual encounters.

Now for the porn…Inspiration for my PSA of unsolicited advice, i.e., here is a dude wearing sunglasses and ruining an otherwise decent clip of a man sucking on some natural tits

A ridiculous storyline, decent looking male participant, and unfortunate presence of breast implants

Probably a decent clip of nipple sucking but I was so frustrated at this point I turned it off after a few seconds

An interview with Karen, a listener I connected with on Instagram and who agreed to do an interview to share all the juicy stories of her life so far… We talk about how she basically educated herself when it came to sex, a story all too common. So many of us grow up like Karen, where sex isn’t spoken about openly at home or in school and much of our knowledge about the act comes from the media.

Some other topics include, what makes sex good? what makes a partner good? and the value of openness in relationships and social circles in terms of discussing what we want and who we are. Enjoy!

Till Monday…

No sex, no orgasms, just stress, stress, STRESS! Too stressed to do anything, but for good reason! I’ve been grinding out the architecture and design of the new, custom GRAPHICPAINT.com which will be launching January 31, 2020!!!

Of course, I’m stressed because I procrastinated, but that’s kind of my M.O. — I swing between the same extremes of stress/work/activity and relief in nearly every area of my life but why? I believe it is because amplified stress equals amplified reward, i.e., relief, but maybe that’s just me?

Anyway! I fixed the GoFundMe campaign for the podcast — apparently the campaign paused because of some admin detail, anyway! It’s up and running so please support us if you can!

Till Thursday!

THANK YOU to each and every one of you have listened, shared the show, shared audio, agreed to interviews, commented, subscribed and taken the time to write me about how this project has affected you.

Our publishing schedule will remain the same over Christmas but we will be taking the entire month of January off for a much needed break before launching Season 2!

While we are on hiatus in January, please share any feedback, thoughts or requests regarding topics, guests, or anything else that you’d like to hear in our next season.

Much love and gratitude to all of you!

Till Monday…

7 orgasms for the week! 2 at the mid-week orgy, 2 with #57, 3 masturbating with toys sans porn…

So that orgy — pretty sure this was my last one. Listen to find out why and how playing separately later in the week with #57 [masturbation party guy] was actually more satisfying. But! Neither was satisfying to my soul and I have been left with an even bigger craving for a real partner so how about that.

Catch up on what happened at the first orgy I attended back in August with Episode 60 and the essay, Attending My First Orgy, Sober

Till Thursday!

Remember the mention of Mr. Baggy Magnum Condom? [Episode 56] Well here is the audio of me going two rounds with that guy, showing up like a champ to get mine as best I could despite the underwhelming material I had to work with. A big plus: this guy is VERY vocal and enthusiastically expressive so that was fun. He’s a good kid just not the one for me. Take a listen.

Do you have underwhelming experiences of your own to share? Hit me up: [email protected]

On a more serious and urgent note, this episode is airing the day after Transgender Day Of Remembrance but it’s worth duplicating the remembrance given that there were at least 331 murders of trans and gender-diverse people between October 1, 2018 and September 30, 2019. Please take the time to acknowledge their passing and the work that remains end the violence. You can view the full list of reported deaths here along with more information on the importance of this day.

Till Monday…

One orgasm to report! And lucky you, I recorded the event. BUT, it was extremely brief and underwhelming, though still true and real and all that so give it a listen. I’ve included the clip at the end of my rambling about the past week and my hopes and dreams for the orgy I’ll be attending this Wednesday.

And hey! It’s Trans Awareness Week and it just so happens that Episodes 81 and 83 detail the journey of one woman’s transition and all that the experience entails. Check out Parts 1 and 2 of my interview with “C” as she describes coming out to her friends, family and colleagues, as well as what it’s been like sexually now that she is living her truth.

Episode 81: “C” Comes Out As A Woman, Part 1

Episode 83: “C” Comes Out As A Woman, Part 2

Till Thursday…

The conclusion of my 2-part interview with “C.” Please listen to Episode 81 before diving into this one so that you’ve got some context for the conversation.

“C” is in her early 50s and only recently came out as a trans woman — which means she spent decades struggling to come to terms with herself; her identity, orientation and sexual pleasure.

In Part 2 we discuss the specifics of coming out to her family, especially to her son. We talk about social media, the physical details of her transition, body dysmorphia, the paradox of appearance, the idea of being a gender hybrid or “third sex,” and what her current sexual experiences are like. Some heavy stuff!

Till Monday…

***The SEX COMMUNICATION Podcast equipment fundraiser continues! Please support the project by contributing to our GoFundMe campaign.

My notes for the past week: RAGE. The end.

Ok fine, there were other things like STRESS and INSECURITY. Listen for the details on how feeling like shit about my outsides keeps my insides sex free! Specifically what it was like attending a fancy schmancy event while feeling like a hideous troll and how this all connects to my shaved head and vanity and needing outside validation to make up for the lack of internal validation. Blah blah blah!

OH WAIT! Actually something amazing did happen but I had so much rage I forgot! SXSW!!!! I AM SPEAKING AT SXSW AFTERALL!!! A slot opened up and I am now giving the 15-minute solo presentation I had applied for! THANK YOU to every single ounce of support, I am so fucking humbled and blown away that this is happening, so much so that I fucking forgot in my rage!!

Until Thursday…